i madly fallen in love with a girl to whom i meet in dec2004
in may 2006 we stated meeting and going out very much to many romantic places
i under stand her very much
she knows how much i love her and i can do any thing for her
she also loves me very much in heart but i dont know why she dont say that she love me
i m always with her where ever she need me
please help me
and please tell me what should i do
2007-06-15 23:20:38 · 7 answers · asked by ravi s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Actions speaks louder than words
2007-06-15 23:24:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
When my boyfriend first told me he loved me, I couldn't say anything. I was scared to tell him that I loved him, even though he and I both knew that I did. Be patient and understanding with her, which it sounds like you're already doing. Ask her if she loves you. Don't ask her in a way where she feels she has to say "I love you", just in a yes or no way. It might be easier for her, and less scary to just acknowledge it than to actually say it straight out. If she says yes, ask her if it would be ok to ask her why she doesn't say "I love you", and go from there. You may want to do this at home, when it's just the two of you, that way she doesn't feel pressured by other people around her. If she is scared, just take it slow with her, see what happens after you talk. Good luck, and just be patient :o)
Oh, and be sure to tell her that she can tell you the truth, even if it means her telling you that she doesn't love you. Good luck!
2007-06-16 06:38:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well there are more possibilities in this situation.
1. Like many other girls she expects you to make the first move. You said that she knows how much you love her, but you told her that? If not, tell her.
2. She just loves you as a friend and in this situation there's not much you can do.
Anyway with the first opportunity tell her how you feel about her and what you want from your relationship. If you wait any longer, it might be too late, if is not already.
2007-06-16 06:29:37 · answer #3 · answered by pofjefiewjrawir 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe its because its a one way love . you love her and she dont love you. some people are consumed with others and the other half is not at the same point they think your just friends. there are some people that are afraid to love or admit they do. this caused by past hurt relationships and or a fear that they will be stuck with that person. the next time you tell her you love her ask if she loves you and see what she says..honesty is the best policy here. i would go for the direct approach..
2007-06-16 06:27:30 · answer #4 · answered by prince charming 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know, somewhere your girlfriend will also be saying and asking the same questions to us..she love you, she care for you, etc....I can understand how much you love her...but the quetion is that you want her to show you that she love you in words....Just trust your emotions which you have for her..believe in the way you meet with her/impress her/love her/express your feeling to her...and then ask some day or sometime in a isolate place in a dark area to yourself.....does she love really you, really care for you....Also spend some time to that isolated place and ask your "heart" do u now require any sort of words/or sentence from her side that will let u know that she love you....If your heart say, yes, she still require to tell you in words.that she love you...then, you need to work more to impress her...be like what she want you to be, work hard with patience and faith on your emotions, which are ture...
If she still do not say in words that she love you than....there are two cases.....either your way of caring and loving toward her is not impressive or perphas wrong...or she is not the kind of person you should pick to show your emotions and feeling........ And at that point..you need to keep your heart behind and use your "brain".....just go and test her..test her how she care for you..how much she understand your feeling...and how she reponse you love......tell her straight that you love her and you want to test her ....say straight to her that you want to hear from her that she love you or not....my dear, heart is something which make u believe what you should not believe...but your mind will make u believe what is practicle and what you should believe...so just try this way...I hope you will sucess in the end in whatever you choose..my best wishes are with you
2007-06-16 06:52:37 · answer #5 · answered by kasu_Indian_M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want to know how you stand with her simply ask her if she loves you or not
explain to her what upsets you ~~
2007-06-16 06:27:00 · answer #6 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she may not really love you,or maybe shes afraide to say i love you,because,she really doesnt,i hope you talk to her about this,good luck
2007-06-16 06:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋