i dumped my ex and im starting to miss him, i totally still love him and im mad at my self for blowing it and i wish i could get back together with him but his mom and dad wont allow it......what should i do? this may sound funky to some but i love him and it matters that his parents know because we cant drive yet and i just totally miss him
2007-06-15 21:32:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course it's normal. You spent a lot of time together and things didn't go the way you would have liked.
If you can't be together anymore then let yourself mourn. Write in your journal about how you feel. Let yourself cry. Write a letter puring your heart out about how you feel, but burn it instead of sending it.
(((Hugs)))
2007-06-15 21:37:17 · answer #1 · answered by 1M9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. I completely missed being pregnant after I had my daughter. And I was the same way you are... Completely over the moon that I finally had her. I spent the first few weeks crying because of how happy I was,lol. But I really did miss being pregnant. I LOVED the baby bump and the closeness, and the movements. And I never really worried about the labor, I looked forward to it... The hubby and I immediately after having our daughter both said "We definitely want more kids"... just because the whole experience and the joy they bring. And then next thing you know, we were pregnant again :-) Didn't exactly plan for it to happen "that" quickly, but it was a great surprise!!! Now I have our 10 month old and I am 7 months pregnant, and I love it. Its exhausting, but I am so happy that I get to have this experience all over again, its amazing!!! Can't wait to meet our little guy!!!
2016-05-17 06:29:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It definately is normal, I just don't get why you would dump a guy if you totally love him. If he really was into you and the realationship wasn't a while a go then he probably misses you too but probably wont forgive you or anything (depends on the guy). I know that you've probably heard this before but try and move on, you'll end up getting really hurt if he gets another girlfriend.
2007-06-15 21:37:49 · answer #3 · answered by Xoxo--qween_annienator--xoxo-- 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you really do still love him you could try writing a letter to him and to his parents explaining how you feel. It is natural to miss your ex because we tend only to remember the good times and not the little annoying things that made us want to split up in the first place. Talk to him and see what he thinks. Good luck with it
2007-06-15 21:39:02 · answer #4 · answered by baby don't love me no more 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him. See what happens. Honestly, he is probably better off without you, but we males are stupid and will continue to endanger ourselves, cause ourselves needless suffering, etc. for female attention. He'll probably get back together with you and sour his relationship with his parents just so you can dump him again in a month or two when you get bored or something better comes along or whatever your reason for leaving was. Good luck!
2007-06-15 21:38:00 · answer #5 · answered by codenamex_47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it's normal.
Chances are he misses you, too, but if his parents say no you'll have to cope.
I don't know what the issues were but you could start by apologizing to him and his parents and see if that helps. Unless you're a really bad person that may make a difference.
2007-06-15 21:36:49 · answer #6 · answered by Warren D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just let it go.
i mean, you cant be happily "healed" overnight
yes, you'll cry, and regret what you did
but dont forget that it was you who did the dumping.
right now his parents arent proabbly too happy with that.
if, after a while once this blows over (and by while i mean liek, 6 months) you still have feelings with him give it a shot.
but i honestly think you'll be able to move on.
2007-06-15 21:38:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if it was meant to be, eventually you guys will be back together. you sound young, there are many fish in the see, and WHO KNOWSSSS... maybe someday you will find another guy and fall in the "love" with him, and you will be like "woah, i wasnt in love" and then you will think about this comment i left you!
good luck though, i hope you guys end up back together... parents are stupid lol
2007-06-15 21:40:10 · answer #8 · answered by samantha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why won't his 'rents allow it? What is that all about? Is he mormon or something? It is normal to miss him, but you will get over it. Move on to an easier relationship.
2007-06-15 21:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
its really normal that you miss him.. i guess you guys are too young.. try to patch things up and if it doesnt go well youll definetely move on....
its a good experience also and youve learned from it aswell.
next time think first before you do something stupid...
goodluck!
2007-06-15 21:41:22 · answer #10 · answered by day-duh 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋