do girls care if their man cant perform?

Question

by that i mean in bed

Answer 1

of course they care! Women have been programmed to believe that if HE can't get it up, then it's HER fault!

Answer 2

It's becoming like the middle east? The U.S have higher numbers of rape cases per year. About 90000. Google it. The middle east isn't really a bad place but some women who get raped don't speak out which is very bad. And hey don't say it as if all men are like that. I would personally die trying to protect anyone. It would be my honor. These men should be severely punished and it should be published all over the news. India has a large populations so probably a good percent of that are uneducated, ignorant, savage men and lets be honest here, not every part of India is good and there are bad people in alot of places. It's not what's wrong with men. It's that there are men with psychological issues who don't have it addressed or never got help because of poverty. Not all men are like that but it's a good amount of them in india since it has a massive population but yeah and noone says they were " Dressed in a sexy way so they wanted it " That's stupid. Whoever say's that is ignorant. These guys can't control their urges which is bad. Again not all men are like that.

Answer 3

Oh honey--you need to see a doctor. If you have a steady girlfriend and were able to perform and all of a sudden Mr. Winky does not co-operate, then you need to find out the underlying problem , either physical, psycological/emotional. If the girl loves you she will stick by you thru this . If you enjoy sex without the erection, then there are other things you can do to please her other than penile penetration. If you casually date and Mr. Winky does not rise to the occasion, she more than likely will not come back. My husband and i went thru this a few years ago and he was embarrassed to tell the doctor. Once he did , things straightened out ( pardon the pun)

Answer 4

Depends on the nature of the meet. If it is just a casual date no harm. Such temporary failures due to overexcitement etc. are quie normal and girls also understand it and sympathise. However, if the guy is really out she may quitely end the affair.

Answer 5

Hey, if you have a problem in that area you're better off talking to the girl first instead of waiting till the last minute! If she cares for you she should understand.

Answer 6

Yes, it is awful not to have great sex life its hard to stay in such a relationship were sex is awful and unfull filling. That whenwoman start cheating or looking for someone else to take care of that need that every woman wants and has

Answer 7

Personally... it depends on the man.

If he's a jerk in general then hell yes. Better get SOMETHING out of the relationship.

If he's one of those really rare, loyal, sweet, caring sensitive guys who actually likes to do things with you and takes interests in your hobbies... then honest to god, he could have 3 eyes, 1 leg and no working sex parts at all. It would be worth it.

Answer 8

We care, but to varying degrees. A man has more pressure because, let's face it, it is easier for a woman to please a man (and we can tell!) So if you are not "getting better" or working on it, she is going to start getting irritated. I hope she is helping you out though...there are lots of books and videos on it!

Answer 9

Hell ya - women will put up with soooooooooooo much crap from a man who - uh, takes care of them.

Beyond that - make your woman happy and she'll make you happy ( in and out of bed).

Good Luck -

Answer 10

not as long as you can afford all the creature comforts $$$ they will get the performance elsewhere best of both worlds