On saturday night my hubby when out for dinner at his friends house 2 see football (Like he normally does when they is football). He is very shy when talking to girls & he don't like 2 go 2 nightclubs or drink. so i when to sleep early cause he'll b coming home late. Around 1am my mom call 2 ask why he always go out & come back late. She ask many ??? like "is he really going 2 see football or 2 see other girls". She think that since we don't have kids yet. she ask 2 many time like this ? that i really don't like it & get headach & couldn't sleep well again. I trust him fully & i even told her that if he really do have girl outside then i also can have men outside. And 2day morning i.e. monday she tells me that when she call me yesterday 2 talk 2 me my hubby pick up the phone & he said "I shall call it ... it is upstairs" now should i believe her words!! I don't like third person to break us up..my mom don't trust people that much... even though they r telling the true.
2007-06-17 21:03:29 · 4 answers · asked by love_rescue 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
You begin by trusting yourself. If you can rust yourself, then you will either trust or not trust your husband. If he is not being honest with you, that is really his problem. Are you comfortable? If so, then ignore your mother's concerns. If you personally feel uncomfortable, discuss the issue with your husband. If you are then comfortable, tell your mother to stop interfering. Have a talk with your mother...tell her she is interfering with your marriage. Sounds like she had a bad marriage.
2007-06-17 22:27:45 · answer #1 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could there be a communication issue? Do you feel your husband loves you? Just to be safe, next time ask to go with him and see if he throws a fit. If he does throw a fit play it off and follow him. Its okay to not trust your husband all the time. I would also check his cell phone and see who he is calling. The best case your hubby is honest and your mother misunderstood or the worse case is your mother was right and your hubby is cheating. But you have the right to KNOW what is going on.
2007-06-18 04:10:15 · answer #2 · answered by Heather Z 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy...if you trust your husband, (and you should until he gives you a reason to not trust him), then tell you mom to suck an egg in hell and leave you alone. It's YOUR life and YOUR marriage.
Be real...your mom is trying to manipulate your marriage. Live YOUR life, not hers!
2007-06-18 04:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen too much to you mom in this case .....
Also keep you antenna's up. It is good to have a trustworthy husband, but don't keep your eyes closed always.
2007-06-18 04:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Sean 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋