Family & Relationships - 17 June 2007

my best friend & i are almost like sisters.i've known her since 7th grade.we do everything together.sometimes i feel like i don't show her enough that i appreciate her.& that i'm thankful for her.so i need a song.a really good one!just to show how much i love & care for her,and we'll be best friends till the end.you guys don't now how great she is.seriously!help me please!?!?!?

2007-06-17 18:57:11 · 8 answers · asked by Stephanie 1 in Friends

I got married a few months bak to ABCD husband and i find it hard to cope up with him. I was born in paki n have been raised here , i lived here all of my life.Our marraige was a totally arranged marriage n YES my husband was willing to get married to me .Unfortunately we couldnt spend much time in paki , he left after a few days. But in those days i often felt dat my husband was a careless n was running away from responsibility. He is the youngest in his family n is extremely pampered by his mum . Also he has strange mis conceptions about paki gurls/women. he thinks a gurl in paki with a mob is sure to have a bf . i feel he has a lot of insecurities
I m still in paki waiting for my visa but i find it real hard to cope up with him , he doesnt call n we r kinda outtta telephonic conversation with each other , wen i think of it , i feel like crying .
Advice please
Thx in advance

2007-06-17 18:55:57 · 4 answers · asked by Isra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

The second car is in MY NAME only. If he goes I would sell the car because I am on disability and have 3 to take care of. My rent is more then I get a month. We have only been married for 14 months, and seems he got married to soon after getting divorced from his first wife.... Can anyone tell me what to do? He had a car but we sent it too the junk yard. Like I said the van is in MY NAME and MY STEP-MOTHER so I can't sell it. I would want to anyways. My other car is in MY NAME only. He said he can get it after WALKING out on me in court. And these 3 children aren't his...

2007-06-17 18:54:32 · 14 answers · asked by whererthere 1 in Marriage & Divorce

from the time i was 10 my mom would say cruel , mean things to me ,or lash out in huge outburst and slap on me, she has NEVER treated her son's like this ..at age 17 i started lashing back at her , it seemed to give her a great pleasure , as if she knew it was getting to me.. from around the time i was 17 to age 27 have ignored it , I try to act like it dont bother me , so she wont get a pleasure from it..I try to show her that she as no effect on me..Well last summer she made a comment about my infant son and i went off on her ..I told her she was crazy and a abusive mother and she wasnt gonna treat my baby like she treated me.. she said i deserved all the "punishment" i got as a kid , because i was a bad kid , I broughh up all the physical and mental abuse , and she denied it , I honestly believe in her sick head she dont remember it . as if it came so natural and it wasnt such a big deal for to even remember , as a everyday chore such as sweeping , What is the mental illness called?

2007-06-17 18:54:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I am currently in Iraq and supposed to come home really soon ,my significant other wants to go to school but in order for this to be done I would have to stay here.

2007-06-17 18:53:29 · 7 answers · asked by another guy 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have been seeing the same guy for 7 years we were to be wed but he walked out ...i was vary hurt but i gave him another chance when his family got involved and things got togh he split agin well ...when he asked for me back i said that i whould only get with him on one term that he finds a preacher and a date im not planning a wedding and im not going to wait for him to make up his mind wether he wants me or not i love his family how ever im not a rich girl so thay think im no good he cant shake what thay say so he just gives up and runs i should menchon that we ar evary good together we work well together best friends and when his familys not around were attached at the hip ...i just stared to see another guy it vary hard to love some one elese im intreested in this new guy but now my ex seems to be putting the pressuer on calling me textin me saying how much he loves me and wants to marry me i dont want to hurt any one but i cant have bolth who do i choose ..and how do i let go

2007-06-17 18:50:15 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

didid your child get jealouse

2007-06-17 18:47:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

my ex is at camp this summer. He told my friend that he might be changing his mind about feelings for me will he's at camp. every day I think what's going on in his head. He did take a comupter and cell phone up to camp. but haven't talk to him in awhile. last time I talked was aim a couple weeks ago. what should I do? any ideas. please help.

2007-06-17 18:44:55 · 2 answers · asked by princess 2 in Singles & Dating

I am an unhappy wife of 17yrs, who is saddened because I cannot seem to get my husband to reduce his committments.
He works a 40 hr week, coaches AFL under 13's 2 nights a week, also he does 3 x 12 hr shifts as a volunteer ambulance officer after work on weekdays, and then one 24 hr shift most weekends. He has developed health issues but still will not slow down. I am lucky that I prefer my own company, but am sick of waiting for him. So do I live the kids life with them?, do I find a bit on the side to give me some sparkle back ?, do I live my life like he isnt there, make my own plans and exclude him? Or do I take the kids and start fresh? My man is honest, caring, a great provider, a very hard worker and someone with whom I have spent over half my life but this same issue has been lurking in the background and source of arguments for 3 years now. He used to be my Rock, now all I want is THE ROCK!!

2007-06-17 18:43:44 · 7 answers · asked by nikznailz 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My b/f and I have had been previously dating for about 9 months,(with no sex envolved, and we are both virgins)... we broke up when we had to go to different colleges, other than the distance problem the only other problem we had was the occaisonally communication issues. So after 3 months we got back together and it lasted for 1 month, but i basically broke it off, because I didn't like the amount of girls he was hanging out with at school. Now after 6 months of being broken up and us not dating other ppl, he asked me out again, and I do still love him alot and I know he loves me alot also, but I think we may have exhuasted our time together, what do you think?

2007-06-17 18:43:19 · 7 answers · asked by sb41288 2 in Singles & Dating

there's this one girl in my high school, we dont talk but she knows that i exist. She kept on looking as me as i passed by and sometimes even stare at me, but when look back she seems to look away. Then one day i told her that i saw you yesterday and she seems to ignore me.

2007-06-17 18:40:04 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I went out with a guy tonight, and while he's nice, stable, good job, etc., I didn't feel that we "clicked." Should I continue to see him, or is the chance of chemistry coming later a slim one? I don't want to waste either of our time, or lead him on. But I don't want to just write him off, either....help!

2007-06-17 18:39:46 · 6 answers · asked by Bennett 2 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 21 years is an absolute jerk. I cook every meal, clean up after every meal. Make our bed, do the laundry, do all the grocery shopping, pay the bills, plan our weekend events, and I do not even get a thank you. Maybe I am just being a PMS b*+t* but come on, a little appreciation would be nice. Yes, I have told him. His reply is always the same "it's not my job" He thinks that because he works outside the home and I don't that he does not have to lift a finger. I guess if he lived by himself he would live in his own dung. Oh well, thanks for letting me vent. I am having a pity party tonight and everyone is invited.

2007-06-17 18:39:26 · 12 answers · asked by brainsandcute2 3 in Marriage & Divorce

does it mean he likes you?

2007-06-17 18:38:46 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

" I know that my dad is cheating on my mom, I just don't want to tell my mom, cause' they might divorce or something. Well for me it's just okay..."

2007-06-17 18:38:09 · 13 answers · asked by Angelo D 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I've never understood the logic behind it, or even if there is any.

Well, I suppose I might understand why women find girly-boys attractive a little, but I might be completely wrong, so I'm asking the opinion of the good ol' Yahoo community.

Girly-boys, yay or nay?

2007-06-17 18:35:35 · 38 answers · asked by Freinz 2 in Singles & Dating

I am not exaggerating at all on any of this. My parents are very unsupportive in general of my dreams, so of course, when I say I want to find a good job in a town about an hour and a half away and move there to rent an apartment with a friend, they get all angry about it. Plus, my mom is all paranoid about me having to drive myself in the winter when it snows and she thinks I'm going to automatically be mugged everywhere I go. They also think I should live at home for a long time and save up money and that I won't be able to afford living out somewhere, but I am definitely ready for my independence. I am 23 and recently graduated college, so it's not like I'm barely out of high school. The jobs I'm looking at pay around $25,000 a year, so I think that is plenty to afford to live somewhere with a roommate. Shouldn't my parents be glad that I don't want to stay at home and be a bum forever? I can understand a little disappointment, but why do they act so angry about it?

2007-06-17 18:34:04 · 18 answers · asked by Smiles 3 in Family

2007-06-17 18:32:43 · 5 answers · asked by Mokhdaty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

is it alright? dont worry. i am not looking to have sex now or any tine in the near future. just wondering out of my own curiosity.

2007-06-17 18:32:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have a very complicated love issue at the moment. I dated a girl in middle school and got REALLY physical with her in 8th grade. But after 8th grade I was escorted to a rehabilitation program where I could not contact her for 18 months. At the program I always thought about her and such due to the nature of the relationship and always cried alot. Towards the end of my stay I had begun to get over her believing that it was not ever going to work. I transferred to a regular boarding school and got in contact with her on AIM. So I started talking to her again. I feel really attached to her. A few days ago I asked a question about this. Now I feel that I should get over this relationship and look for something new when I get to college ( I am going to be a senior next year ) What are some suggestions to how I should do that? Do I have to stop talking to her ? I would appreciate any suggestions.

2007-06-17 18:26:04 · 6 answers · asked by yangkai90 2 in Singles & Dating

how do u know if u got an std? DON LAUGH! i get this sorta outbreak on the base of my schlong. At first i didnt think too much of it but all a sudden it hit me i might have a disease. Im scared, Im only 17 with around 4 partners and im pretty sure tucked in tight when i went to bed. could this possibly be something else?

2007-06-17 18:25:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

would you rather watch or be involved. i've heard from guys that they find it more appealing to watch woman go at it rather than be involved because woman are so beautiful. is that true?

2007-06-17 18:24:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 18:24:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

how do u know if u got an std? DON LAUGH! i get this sorta outbreak on the base of my schlong. At first i didnt think too much of it but all a sudden it hit me i might have a disease. Im scared, Im only 17 with around 4 partners and im pretty sure tucked in tight when i went to bed. wut should i do?

2007-06-17 18:23:41 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are having our third baby in Sept. and lately we have been fightinh like crazy....not sure if it's just the hormones oe what the heck is going on!!! He refuses to help me with anything....I work a full time job then come home and make supper, bath our two children( 4yr & 1yr) and get them to bed. I do all the house work inside and out and he comes home from work and puts his feet up to relax, while i run around like a chicken with my head cut off! He tells me "YOUR PREGNANT....NOT DEAD!!!" so why are u winning. He can't understand why I'm so tired and mad at him. I need some advice Please!!!

2007-06-17 18:18:21 · 10 answers · asked by janinewood 1 in Marriage & Divorce

A guy I have liked for a while finally just admitted to liking me too. Things with him seem great, but he keeps throwing in little comments that leave me very confused. He kept on saying things like he loved the way I looked at him and how he couldn't believe how few relationships because he thinks I'm "gorgeous" I am absolutely enamored with him, although I am trying to keep it somewhat hidden...I don't want to scare him away so soon. But then some nights we would be together and he would say that I shouldn't want to like him and that right now he wasn't looking for a relationship because they suck, and that he really wanted to have sex with me but wouldn't because it would complicate things but then about five minutes later he would kiss me and make me swear that I would come visit him soon ( there is a distance between us) I feel like he really does like me, but at the same time I feel like I am getting mixed signals. Is there something that I am really missing here?

2007-06-17 18:15:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is it morally acceptable to cheat on your spouse if he or she is in a permanent vegetative state?

2007-06-17 18:15:41 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

he doesnt let me speak! he is the right one at the end ... we got married 4 months ago he spent only 12 days with me n went back to England.
Advice please
Thanks in advance!

2007-06-17 18:13:56 · 5 answers · asked by Isra 1 in Marriage & Divorce

at the pool today he spent the whole time looking at another female and looked at her more and in a way he never looked at me. what does this mean, what do i do?

2007-06-17 18:13:32 · 8 answers · asked by clemsongirl1 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I do have a BF and..but when I go somewhere if there are teenagers there they always bother me...why? I am 28 and i tell them this but they still follow me around..when I go swimming...

2007-06-17 18:04:15 · 15 answers · asked by always4him 1 in Singles & Dating