is it alright? dont worry. i am not looking to have sex now or any tine in the near future. just wondering out of my own curiosity.
2007-06-17 18:32:40 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Sex before marriage can be a good thing if it is with someone you really care for and not just someone you have known for a short time. Make sure that you are prepared for the emotions that come along with this and make sure that you are willing to give that up to the girl. But think about how special it would be to save yourself for that one person who may have saved their virginity for you and is going to be your wife and the mother of your children.
2007-06-17 18:37:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's fine. I never experienced any of these 'emotional' reactions that apparently we have to watch out for, but to me, sex is a physical act, a hell of a lot of fun, but it's not love although there are certain chemical reactions in our brains that can simulate love through sex, but if you've got a rational mind, no worries. It's important to care or respect the other person, but that doesn't mean you have to like 'em or even want to have much conversation with them. It's important to care because of health and safety issues as well as sexual pleasure. If neither of you care about pleasuring your partner, sex is a bore. Still kind of fun 'cause it's sex right, but boring. It's also important to discuss issues like unwanted pregnancy. I'm a woman and 100% against having children, so my only worry was that he wore a condom. Men have it harder when it comes to unwanted pregnancies, so beware. Always wrap it up and get regular sti/std testing. Remember, there's nothing wrong with asking your partner(s) to go to the sexual health clinic with you and have your results given together.
As for a wonderful gift to your future spouse, I wouldn't date a virgin or one who would be willing to stay a virgin for very long! (I'm married now, so I don't date, but before) You see, I'd assume he had some serious sexual issues that problem stem from either religion, stupidity or psychological issues that I don't want to deal with.
2007-06-18 01:49:16 · answer #2 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as you're willing to take on the responsiblity of ALL of the consequences from having sex there is nothing wrong with it. Not everyone WANTS to get married, should they go through their entire lives without ever knowing the joy of sex? Sex isn't for procreation only it's for recreation as well.
2007-06-18 02:55:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is only for married people. Read the Holy Bible if you want the low down on marriage.
2007-06-18 01:41:17 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
i say you should wait. i know, i know...wait til you're married would be a while from now. But wouldn't it be a great gift to your future spouse, that you waited for them to come along before losing it to somebody that wouldn't even make a dent in your life?
honestly, its all up to you.
2007-06-18 01:38:55 · answer #5 · answered by vanillabean92 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
its a personal choice i think ...
u gotta be ready to deal with all the consequences, be that medical, religious,emotional, etc....
2007-06-18 01:38:18 · answer #6 · answered by risse 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋