he doesnt let me speak! he is the right one at the end ... we got married 4 months ago he spent only 12 days with me n went back to England.
Advice please
Thanks in advance!
2007-06-17 18:13:56 · 5 answers · asked by Isra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I got married a few months bak to ABCD husband and i find it hard to cope up with him. I was born in paki n have been raised here , i lived here all of my life.Our marraige was a totally arranged marriage n YES my husband was willing to get married to me .Unfortunately we couldnt spend much time in paki , he left after a few days. But in those days i often felt dat my husband was a careless n was running away from responsibility. He is the youngest in his family n is extremely pampered by his mum . Also he has strange mis conceptions about paki gurls/women. he thinks a gurl in paki with a mob is sure to have a bf . i feel he has a lot of insecurities
I m still in paki waiting for my visa but i find it real hard to cope up with him , he doesnt call n we r kinda outtta telephonic conversation with each other , wen i think of it , i feel like crying , normal shaddi`s are not like dat . plz advice
2007-06-17 18:24:30 · update #1
There's just not enough info here to appropriately answer your question...but if he went back to England without you AFTER you got married, and you're STILL not with him, you got bigger problems than how to deal with him during an argument.
2007-06-17 18:19:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Cool off. Let him vent, listen. Go your seperate ways for a few minutes. Come back, bring it up and discuss rationally without those pesky feelings or anger.
2007-06-17 18:19:19 · answer #2 · answered by qwertatious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He can't stop you from speaking. Why did he go back to England? Has he left you for good? More info please.
2007-06-17 18:20:20 · answer #3 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a lawyer.
2007-06-17 18:17:54 · answer #4 · answered by wendy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
get divorce and leave. get annuled.
2007-06-21 15:49:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋