I got married a few months bak to ABCD husband and i find it hard to cope up with him. I was born in paki n have been raised here , i lived here all of my life.Our marraige was a totally arranged marriage n YES my husband was willing to get married to me .Unfortunately we couldnt spend much time in paki , he left after a few days. But in those days i often felt dat my husband was a careless n was running away from responsibility. He is the youngest in his family n is extremely pampered by his mum . Also he has strange mis conceptions about paki gurls/women. he thinks a gurl in paki with a mob is sure to have a bf . i feel he has a lot of insecurities
I m still in paki waiting for my visa but i find it real hard to cope up with him , he doesnt call n we r kinda outtta telephonic conversation with each other , wen i think of it , i feel like crying .
Advice please
Thx in advance
2007-06-17 18:55:57 · 4 answers · asked by Isra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Um.... slit his throat.
2007-06-17 18:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if you kno how to contact him i think u should call him ~ try not to argue but voice your feelings in the best way ~ males have a lot of misconceptions about women ~ try to voice your feelings whenever you have the chance
2007-06-18 02:00:36 · answer #2 · answered by tenone2010 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you need to get out of this situation, how can you be married to a man that has no real intrest in you or your life???
2007-06-18 02:02:28 · answer #3 · answered by VJS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to give your marriage some time.
2007-06-18 02:01:59 · answer #4 · answered by Sweet Suzy 777! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋