A guy I have liked for a while finally just admitted to liking me too. Things with him seem great, but he keeps throwing in little comments that leave me very confused. He kept on saying things like he loved the way I looked at him and how he couldn't believe how few relationships because he thinks I'm "gorgeous" I am absolutely enamored with him, although I am trying to keep it somewhat hidden...I don't want to scare him away so soon. But then some nights we would be together and he would say that I shouldn't want to like him and that right now he wasn't looking for a relationship because they suck, and that he really wanted to have sex with me but wouldn't because it would complicate things but then about five minutes later he would kiss me and make me swear that I would come visit him soon ( there is a distance between us) I feel like he really does like me, but at the same time I feel like I am getting mixed signals. Is there something that I am really missing here?
2007-06-17 18:15:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he might not be ready but he might also want closeness at that time.. its a thing guys do.. be there when he wants you, dont have ur hopes up to high but go with the flow of it and see how things roll from there.. dont push it but go along with it and try to influence him that he should be wanting something with you, make him realize without obviousness or whatever i duno.. just dont expect a lot and ur heart wont be so broken later if its turns to be nothing.. well good luck
2007-06-17 18:19:42 · answer #1 · answered by starconfusionco1 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
People lose a lot of rationality when they're infatuated. And if he's not experienced at being infatuated, he's probably confused by the mixed signals he's getting from inside: ecstasy, terror, desire, disbelief, etc. Just try to be reassuring when he's down on himself, and don't worry about making sense of everything he says.
2007-06-17 18:36:26 · answer #2 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All that you have to do is have a nice long talk with him. A serious talk. Just explain to him how you really feel and ask him if he feels the same. Tell him what's honestly on your mind. Tell him about the mixed signals your receiving from him. Just talk it out.
2007-06-17 18:20:11 · answer #3 · answered by stpolycarp77 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry, it is hard to tell. here is my first thought. i think he knows how much you care for him and he is just playing games. i don't know how much he cares for you. He does but how much, hard to tell. there are definitely mixed signals. I would play a bit "hard to get" if I were you. see where it is going. You might realize that this guy has some growing up to do....
2007-06-17 18:23:15 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Mabe you should sit down and talk to him and ask him what is going on. A healthy realationship is baced on the truth and honesty.
2007-06-17 18:20:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes looking for a f**k buddy. dont count on a relationship. hes just gonna use you for sex
2007-06-17 18:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he is really confused and dosen,t know what he wants
2007-06-17 18:19:04 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋