Family & Relationships - 17 June 2007

I know this may sound sleazy but it's not quite what it looks like. I have seen some recent signs (her looking at another guy while out the other night, letting go of my arm when a guy looks at her) that indicate to me that she is still looking to trade up. Might be a fluke cuz it was only one night but I also notice some other things as well that indicate she wants attention from other men.

So I am surrounded by girls who want to date me. Problem is I foolishly thought the girl I am with might be the one, that she was different than other girls, so I told everyone about her. Everywhere I go they now know I have a girl. Since she is keeping her options open, I want to too. How do I date these single women when they know I have a girl. They don't ask about her and I no longer mention her. They stilll flirt with me. I know you probably think I'm a jerk, but I am not, I have been faithful to her and now that I see that she still wants to trade up I want to too.

2007-06-17 18:01:31 · 27 answers · asked by Hocus P 1 in Singles & Dating

i haven't exactly been the best daughter ever.....far from it on the contrary- im probably the black sheep of the family. yea i've made my mother cry on several occassions. in school i raised hell and .....well school's over now- i graduated just this march (thank god!) . i have never really lived up to my parent's expectations y'know. the fact that i'm "rotten" and selfish is repeated atleast thrice a month. and i agree...i can be a really be selfish.
so anyways now i have to start college...obviously...i have to decide which 'line' i wanna choose-please don't say "you can change later"...its harder said than done. i had always been kind of confused about what i really wanted and really would love to do. i gave entrance exams for design schools and law schools and have got through a good number. now the thing is - i realized now that i'd rather do fine arts than do law if i don't get through design. but my parents dont agree...infact, they'd rather i do law cause its high paying

2007-06-17 18:00:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

okay about 5 months ago my dad and mom got really bad on drugs they put me and my 1yr old out they lost their home and eventully lost everything we had my dad sent my little bother to live with some of his friends (my little brothers friends) he seems like he is okay everytime i talk to him but i know it is hard for him to not have either one of your parents what ? should i tell him how do i console him he has it alot better where he is at but he is not with his family i feel so bad i love him so much but i dont know how to humm... ... explain to him why their are bad mothers and father that do this to their children if their is anymore that can HELP ME PLEASE DO!!

2007-06-17 17:53:39 · 12 answers · asked by laura b 1 in Family

My ex is talking crap about me and it hurts that he is doing that cuase it was his choice to party&doing drugs that ended our relationship yet he is bad mouthing me

2007-06-17 17:52:49 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 17:50:39 · 17 answers · asked by A proud mommy 3 in Friends

2007-06-17 17:50:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I recently broke up with my boyfriend of two years. And now i like this other guy we hang out sometimes but how do i know he likes me back he is very shy we kiss and hold each other but i want to know if he's sincer i dont want to get hurt again im a very emotional kind of person.

2007-06-17 17:50:20 · 4 answers · asked by ABBY22 1 in Singles & Dating

I've met and talked to a lot of people on the internet through instant messengers and e-mail. Most of them were rude or worse. Do I just have bad luck or are the majority of people on the internet cold hearted?

2007-06-17 17:48:54 · 21 answers · asked by Brandon 2 in Singles & Dating

Or will it be too hard for you to get over it? Would you be bothered by mental pictures of her being with other men or see her as "used"?

I'm in a serious relationship now and am actually taking things slowly when it comes to sex. However, I was the classic sexually molested girl relishing in casual sex encounters while growing up (I'm std-free, mind you). I really didn't understand that I was simply "acting out" my abuse until I got older and of course I changed myself. No, I don't believe in cheating either.

I know I don't have to disclose such information to my partner, but in case you men find this information about your women....Would you leave her or would be able to forgive if she recognized that what she did was wrong and would you understand the reasons why she did it...especially since there's a strong correlation with being sexually abused and becoming promiscuous.

2007-06-17 17:45:54 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok well were do i start me and her were just hangin out at her house and we were laughing and having a blast Untill we got a call saying that her bf was in the hospitel because her ex bf and some of his friends jumped him. She was freaking out We didnt have a car Because we are 14 and dont have our licanse So we got a ride from my brother and we were running and crying at the same time and we found his room....We broke down crying he was brusied up swollin lip bleeding head You name it! She didnt want to go anywere All she wanted to do was stay there with her bf. But we had to go home when we made it there her ex bf left a message and said he was not sorry and he told her he would get her back . She was going crazy she started to throw things and said she was going to kill him but i calmed her down, what should she do next? please help!

2007-06-17 17:45:48 · 31 answers · asked by James Dean Girl <3 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok so i really like this guy and he acts like he likes me sometimes and we flirt we used to have really good convorsations on the phone but we never talked at school. He doesnt really like my friends but the other day school got out and our conversations havent been the same we barley ever talk and when we do its not like it used to be!! So i need to know what you think about this sitution. Thanks

2007-06-17 17:44:09 · 2 answers · asked by laughlikecrazyitsfun11 1 in Singles & Dating

A million years ago I went out with this guy a couple times. I let him down gently and told him I wasn't interested. Since then I have had no contact with him. he still tries to call/ send emails to try and talk to me about once every couple of weeks for about 3 months now. I can't ignore him any harder! What else can I do to get the point across??

2007-06-17 17:44:00 · 4 answers · asked by coffeeshopnat 3 in Singles & Dating

my life has been on a down ward spiral since November... in Nov i found out my husband was cheating on me when i was 7 months pregnant. so i got a divorce and that hell lasted till may. I now have a beautiful baby girl that makes my life worth living but things are still so tuff. In march i was in a car accident in which my car was totalled, and now as of 3 days ago i found out that the place i work is renovating come August 1st i will be jobless! so what gives how do i keep my spirits up with so much negative stuff going on? how can i avoid becoming depressed?

2007-06-17 17:43:37 · 11 answers · asked by I♥Karma 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am ectremely needy and clingy, will any guys want to have a relationship with me?

2007-06-17 17:43:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-wife is suppose to pay me $200 a month but she refuses to do it. Why does she have to pay so little? If it was the other way around and I had to pay it would be a lot more. I have custody. I only make 450 a week, Have to pay 750 rent and electric, gas and water, 240 truck note, groceries, and incidentals. I always hear of others child support being a lot more and wondering if it is because I am dad is why I get the least amount?

2007-06-17 17:37:36 · 21 answers · asked by Bones 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife has stopped wearing her wedding band and she is spending more time with her friends and colleagues. We talk but we don't communicate like we used to. I don't want a confrontation because it will make matters worse. Are we heading down the path of no return?

2007-06-17 17:35:51 · 8 answers · asked by daddycool 2 in Marriage & Divorce

would you ever date someone with dark brown straight hair not too tan. pretty skinny but barly any muscle not too much makeup just eyeliner about 5'6 in height bout 97 pounds?

2007-06-17 17:34:21 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years. We are definetely at a crossroads in our relationship. We are probaby going to get engaged sometimes w/ in the next year.

I'm excited, but I"m also scared. What if he's not the one. I don't ever want to be divorced. My parents were divorced and I just can't go through with it.

I'm trying to make up pros and cons as to reasons to stay in a relationship/marriage, and reasons not to. What kind of questions should I ask myself.

Questions in terms of dating, engagement, marriage and family.

Thanks.

2007-06-17 17:34:09 · 7 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My childs mother has not allowed me to see my kid in about 6 months. I pay child support, health and dental on time every month since she was born. Custody and visitation was never established in our case. I walk on eggshells to keep her happy but its not enough sometimes. I would like to see my child whenever id like to but she dosen't allow me to. She threats to call the cops if I show up at her house. Is there anyway to be granted visitation without spending thousands for a lawyer? Is there a form to fill out or something? If anyone has any ideas PLEASE HELP. I live in Oklahoma, Tulsa County. Thanks

2007-06-17 17:33:48 · 15 answers · asked by DSGB4LYF23 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-17 17:30:55 · 9 answers · asked by AsainChild 1 in Singles & Dating

does everybody have at least one of those friends who seem sooo stupic and tactless that its almost funny?

2007-06-17 17:30:34 · 8 answers · asked by luckyno_thirteen 2 in Friends

Well Im 20 years old, half way through college and Im still a virgin. Ive fooled around with guys but still i am a virgin. I dont really believe in saving myself for marriage or anything but I really just have not found the right guy. I just want to be able to trust the guy 110% before i lose it to him. Is this weird especially since i cant think of anyone who hasnt lost their virginity already? I dont want to turn into a 40 year virgin

2007-06-17 17:30:22 · 11 answers · asked by candita 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this guy but i mean not all guys ar goingto make the first move and tell a girl that they like you. I want to tell this guy that i like him but i dont know how to get past all of the nervs i have even when i think about it.

ADVICE PLEASE ! ! !

2007-06-17 17:28:48 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

tell me some important things about girls you wanna date. looks, personality, hobbies, all that stuff.

2007-06-17 17:27:17 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 17:27:09 · 12 answers · asked by friendfromstlouis 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How do I get so I can walk up to people I dunno and start good conversations ? wat do I talk about etc..

2007-06-17 17:22:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

And how can I convince women, on line or other wise, that I am sincere about finding a new life and not a two-timing jerk?

2007-06-17 17:19:43 · 15 answers · asked by Billy K 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 17:16:51 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 23 and I'm still a virgin. Alot of people are not who are alot younger than me. What is happening to the morals nowadays? My dad says its gone or down the hill...so why do we continue to let morals decline?

2007-06-17 17:11:46 · 43 answers · asked by Suzy Suzee Sue 6 in Singles & Dating

How many boyfriends/girlfriends ave u had/plus if u have one now??

2007-06-17 17:11:37 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating