I am ectremely needy and clingy, will any guys want to have a relationship with me?
2007-06-17 17:43:00 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I am the same way. I found a husband too. You'll just need to find the right guy who would be able to put up with that.
It will be difficult however, for you to find a relationship. I went through tons of relationships and they all broke up with me for that very reason; that i was too needy and clingy. But, again, I met my soulmate being just the way I am. I hope that encourages you.
2007-06-17 17:48:11 · answer #1 · answered by stoogegirl53 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Honestly no because being with someone who is needy and clingy will drain the energy and the very life out of you...I think the real question is since you know you're needy and clingy, have you figured out why? You sound you like an honest person--deal with whatever this is and guys will fall all over you...
2007-06-18 00:49:36 · answer #2 · answered by Frenchie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel that you are really needy and clingy, you might want to think about what makes you feel that way. The best way to be happy in a relationship is to be happy with yourself and know what you want.
Clingy and needy behavior often comes with low self-esteem and it is something that will cause problems in most relationships.
2007-06-18 00:45:53 · answer #3 · answered by liss323 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK, YOU KNOW YOUR FAULTS, SO WHY KEEP THEM AND EXPECT SOMEONE TO PUT UP WITH THEM?
No, no man who really has his sights on you for the RIGHT REASONS, will want to put up with a Needy, Clingy woman!
But, you know that! If you are in the market for a guy who simply wants a sex partner, he will be over, do-the-do, and STILL LEAVE YOUR NEEDY, CLINGY BUTT ALONE!
Why not change you for the better. Learn to be your own best company. Get into reading and have something intelligent to say in a social setting! Give of your time to those who really need your help, if you are able. LEARN TO BE INDEPENDENT AND NOT VALIDATE YOURSELF BY THE STANDARD OF 'I HAVE A MAN' IN MY LIFE.
If you have not finished college, take up a course towards the goal of getting a degree: AA, BA/BS or just take a class to improve a hobby or an interest.
WELL ROUNDED, HAVING SOMETHING TO BRING TO THE TABLE OTHER THAN SEX, INTELLIGENCE, ALL BRING THE RIGHT MEN TO YOUR ARENA, FOR THE RIGHT REASONS.
GOOD LUCK AND GOD BLESS
2007-06-18 00:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You do NOT want the guys that are attracted to needy and clingy women. Please work on your self esteem before you get into a relationship that will hurt you.
Guys who want needy women take advantage of them and will continue to make sure you remain that way. Find ways to feel more secure and independent and then you will find that you are attracted to a better quality person and they will be attracted to you too.
Good Luck!!!
2007-06-18 00:48:48 · answer #5 · answered by LasVegasMomma 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I love needy,clingy people so I know there are some guys who do as well.
2007-06-18 00:46:06 · answer #6 · answered by hernyaccent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course.....equally needy and clingly guys. Not sure that;s the type of man your looking for. Maybe you should work on your own issues so your not so needy. You'll have a better chance at attracting a healthy man.
2007-06-18 00:46:42 · answer #7 · answered by wendy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, there are guys who will want a relationship with you. you should TRY to work on it, but i know it's hard. i'm the same way and i had no problem finding a great guy! i just don't come off as the whiney clingy type. i'm more of the possessive, jealous type. haha. ( just being honest). just remember, it depends on the type of guy he is. don't worry, you'll find a guy who is a good fit!
2007-06-18 00:47:03 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say, being clingy is a total turn-off whether it be for friends or intimate relationships. people need space, especially men. you need to do some changes if you want to keep your future man around.
2007-06-18 00:47:24 · answer #9 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a yin to every yang and a place under the sun for every one , it is then just a matter of wanting the one who wants you...enter shake spear and a mid summers nights dream......
2007-06-18 00:47:20 · answer #10 · answered by xsesivelyso2 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋