2007-06-17 17:50:27 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yeah, but be prepared to answer why your SO isn't there, and be prepared to meet other people's significant others as well.
How does your wife/girlfriend feel about this? If she wants to go, then take her. If she doesn't want to go, then don't take her. Don't decide for her. That's rude.
2007-06-17 17:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Shanna S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How would you feel if your wife/girlfriend didn't want you to go to their H.S class reunion? Don't you think that it would cause relationship and trust problems? Don't you think that they would feel like your ashamed to be seen with them? A woman who is left behind on something like this is going to be wondering why you didn't want them to go. She might think your trying to hook up with an old girlfriend, Or spend time with all your old buddy's and go out chasing women all night.. Can you see the disaster of this situation? This could very well be a relationship buster. If you really love your woman,Please think very carefully about this !! She is the one who shares your life with you and is always there for you.
I hope this has helped you out and i wish you well!!
2007-06-18 01:01:29 · answer #2 · answered by master_escrimador 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends. I don't anymore because she is bored to death when she does go and, then, I feel we need to leave early. But, if this is a first or second h/s reunion for you and you are married, I'd take her. Might keep you from getting into trouble.
2007-06-18 00:56:09 · answer #3 · answered by SafetyDancer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, it depends on WHY you want to go alone. Are you embarassed to be seen with her? Are you afraid she will start a fight or something? Is she a raving drunk who will be trashed in the first 30 minutes after the bar opens?
Then, in that case I would say... YES, leave her at home.
Or, if she has to work or take care of the kids or something, then that is also a valid reason to go alone also.
But if you just want to go alone so you can mack on chicks... then give it up, she will eventually find out and kick your butt from here to Maine.
2007-06-18 00:57:53 · answer #4 · answered by Jim S 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You really shouldn't considering how your wife looks. You'd be made fun of again just like you were in high school. You don't want your wife to see you getting stuffed into a locker or shoved into a garbage can and rolled down the stairs, you twit.
2007-06-18 00:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a tricky situation and it really depends on your relationship-ie if you spend all of your time talking about your ex from school and you are not married taking her could be problematic but a married woman who is secure will see you as a knucklehead.
if there have been problems in your relationship this can add fuel to the fire or provide a good break for you two to think alone
i hope this helps
2007-06-18 03:28:29 · answer #6 · answered by msijg 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would be your reason for her not going? I could see if she had some kind of emergency or death in the family & she didn't go. Or if she had something really and I mean really urgent with her business & didn't go. As her man you should want to show people how well your doing and what a great woman you have. She should want to be there to support you. Both of you should :) have fun and enjoy yourselfs.
2007-06-18 00:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by justtryingtohelp 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it'll make her happy if you brought her along but it's ok not to because you'd want to catch up with all your ex school mates and besides, it's a once in a few years kind of thing. but bringing her shows that you are proud of her and want your mates to see her.
2007-06-18 00:53:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
C DEAR
ITS TOTALLY O N U
KEEP U ON HER PLACE N THINK TAT IF C WUD HAV DO IT 2 U HOW U WUD FELT?
IF ITS OK THEN ALRIGHT...DO WAT UR HEART SAYS TO U
BT IF C IS UT WIFE ...N U WANT TO TAKE MY OPINION THEN U MUST TAKE UR WIFE WITH U COZ C IS BETTER HALF.......
N U TOO HAD 2 FACE LOTS OF QUESTION IF U WONT TAKE UR WIFE WITH U..
1ST TO THEM U HAV TO ANS Y C DIDNT CAME
THEN IF WIFE WANT TO ATTEND BUT U DIDNT THEN C WIL B ANGRY N PROBLEM AT HOME N ANS HER Y U WONT TAKE HER?
LAST OTHERS WONT BELIEVE UR ANS N WIL MAKE WRONG JUDGEMENT ABT UR WIFE........N CUD B JUDGEMENTAL ABT UR MARRIAGE LIFE... .TAT U BOTH NT HAPPY,NT GO PARTY TOGETHER N SO ON.........
U KNOW PEOPLE..............THEY LOVE GOSSIP
SO NOW ITS UP TO U ....................
I SHOWED U BOTH THE SIDE OF A COIN
U DECIDE
ALL THE BEST
2007-06-18 05:45:52 · answer #9 · answered by raxii 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she really wants to go & you don't take her then yes that would be wrong!!!! But it's ok not to take her if she declines to go. But, sometimes yes means no and no means yes, maybe she really wants you beg her. You know your woman better than anybody, you'll have to figure out what she wants.
2007-06-18 00:53:35 · answer #10 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋