Ok well were do i start me and her were just hangin out at her house and we were laughing and having a blast Untill we got a call saying that her bf was in the hospitel because her ex bf and some of his friends jumped him. She was freaking out We didnt have a car Because we are 14 and dont have our licanse So we got a ride from my brother and we were running and crying at the same time and we found his room....We broke down crying he was brusied up swollin lip bleeding head You name it! She didnt want to go anywere All she wanted to do was stay there with her bf. But we had to go home when we made it there her ex bf left a message and said he was not sorry and he told her he would get her back . She was going crazy she started to throw things and said she was going to kill him but i calmed her down, what should she do next? please help!
2007-06-17 17:45:48 · 31 answers · asked by James Dean Girl <3 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he was walking to our house to see her and he heard people folloing him he started to run but he didnt run fast enough =[
2007-06-17 17:46:10 · update #1
Phone the police!!! Press charges against your friends ex and get a restraining order so he can't hurt your friend!!
2007-06-19 06:44:07 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope your friend saved the message. she can use that when she lets the police know what he has said. i hope that her bf files some charges on the guy that did that to him. she needs to let her parents know what is going on and see about a protective order agains her ex bf. if she makes some type of report about it, then if he does try something , then the police will handle it better than if there were no report for the call.
2007-06-18 00:51:43 · answer #2 · answered by Latino Heat 4ever 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Save the message!!!! Call the police. It sounds like the ex means what he is saying. Press Charges and make sure that her current BF does the same...Good Luck!!
2007-06-18 00:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by Kimmie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust Me, if I was the boyfriends mother I would press charges and sue the other boys parents for my child's hospital bill. Your friend needs to tell her parents what is going on if they don't know! ( How could they not). I would get a restraining order against her Ex boyfriend and stay away from him because you never know, he could end up hurting your friend. Good Luck.
2007-06-18 00:51:07 · answer #4 · answered by jnnfchar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops! Ask if they could kind of supervise your area tonight. If they are caught tresspassing, press charges!
Tell your boyfriend to press charges too!
Don't you let your friend hurt him. Tempting, I know, but if you want this to go to a legal status, then you don't want anything against your friend.
Also, tell your parents/older siblings.
I know some people may not think this is serious because of your age, but you must not take this lightly because someone could get seriously hurt (again).
2007-06-18 00:51:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would suck. Tell her to talk to her parents, let the authorities know, and make sure the problem does not escalate. You don't want anyone else getting hurt. See if she can get a restraining order, and definitely do not go near him. I hope you can figure things out.
2007-06-18 00:51:22 · answer #6 · answered by Some Random Dude 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG!!! you should keep the message as proof and you should and go immediatley to the police and u guys should probably tell your parents. Watch out though! make sure that he does not find out ! i hope that helped evn though it was short. but your such a good friend for being with her and not leaving her!! :) i hope everything turns out good. and hopefully ur friends bf gets better
2007-06-18 00:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by wwechick28 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off you need to contact your parents tell them what happened then your parents will decide if it's a good idea to go to the cops or wether they want to handle that problem themselves. But my suggestion is that you or I mean your friend go with your parents and go to the cops before this problem with your friend's ex gets out of hand.
2007-06-18 00:55:15 · answer #8 · answered by D S♦T♦A♦R♦S 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
14 !!! That is way to much drama & danger for a 14 year old girl!!! As her friend you should encourage her to find another type of BF or none at all. Keep on messing with those kinds of guys and she may be the one in the hospital or dead!!!!!! You should stay away to!
2007-06-18 00:48:17 · answer #9 · answered by char__c is a good cooker 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't know this is serious. I don't know are you guys going to report this to the police? Because I think you should or and get that paper that say that he can't come near her or her boyfriend or anyone ells that he may hurt or hell be put in jail, or that if anything happens to them, I'll be his fault and he'll be put in jail.
2007-06-18 00:55:21 · answer #10 · answered by superstar 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋