Family & Relationships - 17 June 2007

i like this guy. a lot actually. except...hes 21, and im 16. i know theres an age gap, and ive tried not to think about him..but hes just incredibly attractive to me. he works with me and i just met him on friday. how do i talk to him, and how do i get him to like me like that too? i talked to him and he was so nice and cute and he kept coming over to where i was sitting. what do i do? and yes, i do understand the risks and consequences of liking someone that much older than me.

please help. i really need it.

2007-06-17 13:30:42 · 46 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 13:28:39 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I get really turned on when my husband is rough with me. I love it when he gives me orders (open your mouth, get on your knee, ect.) When he pulls my hair the harder the better. Holds me down, or even calls me a s*** while we are having sex. I lose my mind...To be honest this is almost the only way I enjoy it at all. He has told me that he feels uncomfortable doing it, and he only does it because he knows I like it. Well, that kinda took the fun out of it for me, but my question is why would anyone like being treated badly. And Why would I have fantasies about other guys doing things to me. I feel like a freak. What is wrong with me?

2007-06-17 13:23:10 · 15 answers · asked by smurfette 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-17 13:21:41 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my friend spent the night and my brother and my friend started to like eachother. i dont know what to do? my brother is 18 and my friend is 14.


after i fell asleep, my brother started flirting and i dnt really want him going out with her cause hes WAY to "experienced" for her

2007-06-17 13:21:39 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

isn't it discusting and horrifying
it really scares me
I hate watching old people have sex, hope I never do either

2007-06-17 13:20:40 · 4 answers · asked by jml 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

Today is a sad day for many of us that may have lost our best friend . Don't let it be a sad day. Hes in a better place . What is your most cherished memory of your Dad?

2007-06-17 13:20:25 · 9 answers · asked by lilly l 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

This is what happens....


I met my best friend Karen a year ago, everything was going great, I had a best friend and all my life was under contro.

But in the past months I discover that I had fallen in love with her so now I'm so confused ecause i feel that she likes me too because she hugs me alot and I feel like a romantic mood instead of a friendly mood.

What Should I do?

2007-06-17 13:20:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

It is supposed to be a treasured word, but it has been spoiled by the youth.

2007-06-17 13:17:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

control their partners money or the main household expenses?

I've heard of women having their husbands direct deposit their paychecks into their joint account and then the women letting the spouse only use a certain amount each week.

Opinions? Is this OK? What do you think?

I'm not meaning treating these men like children either. I'm talking this is a fair relationship, but maybe the man is bad with money, paying bills on time or is too busy to manage the assets. The women contributes equally too

2007-06-17 13:15:21 · 17 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Does society cause them to be like this or is it just the way they are?

2007-06-17 13:15:08 · 68 answers · asked by Desperate Loser 5 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 13:13:57 · 6 answers · asked by im feelin this 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 13:13:26 · 2 answers · asked by marina 1 in Family

I broke up with my boyfriend last sunday, than asked for him back, he thought about it for 2 days and than said he doesnt want a gf now, tried it, didnt work, wants to stay friends. I said def. but I am leaving for vacation soon and lets hang out when you are free. We are hanging out tomorrow.

Good Sign? or Bad Sign?

Can i still get him back, does he still like me, what can I do to get him back? I really miss him.

We will be going off to two different colleges after I come back from vacation.

2007-06-17 13:13:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In your opinion, is infidelity in any form the same, or is there any difference in the degree of severity. Is online infidelity, meaning through chat and email less offensive, or is it emotional or the physical act of infidelity/

2007-06-17 13:11:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been getting different signals from a guy I've been seeing. We were supposed to hang out on Friday, me, him, and his sis. He called his sis & told her he was going to pick me up & take me out to a party he decided to have. I told him I'd call & let him know if I would go. I called, & he didn't pick up the phone nor did he call the rest of the night. Yesterday I called & told him "Look, I'm feeling pressured by your sister to jump into something real serious. But I think you're a cool guy, I like you, & I don't want to have to go through her to hang out with you." He agreed & said we shouldn't have to go through her. We talked & he asked me to call him back. I did, & asked if he wanted to hang. He said yeah, that he was going to pick up a friend & then he'd call me when he got his friend. I told him if he didn't want to come, he didn't have to, & he said "no no no I want to." Long story short, he didn't call at all. I don't get it!

2007-06-17 13:10:03 · 3 answers · asked by bhanphrionsa 2 in Singles & Dating

In your opinion, is infidelity in any form the same, or is there any difference in the degree of severity. Is online infidelity, meaning through chat and email less offensive, or is it emotional or the physical act of infidelity/

2007-06-17 13:09:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-17 13:09:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

THAT IS THE MAJOR CAUSE OF ARGUMENTS AND DIVORCE in RELATIONSHIPS WHICH ONE WOULD IT BE and explain why?

2007-06-17 13:08:30 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a extremelty handsome guy on campus. After a couple interactions with him, he started to say he loves me etc. I am conservative and didn't give in to his advance though I am actually very attracted to him. I want to know him more and wait to see if we could have a relationship before sleeping with him. But his attraction to me is so strong, it is almost unlikely to just be friends. He has to try very hard not to lose control around me. The whole class seems watching what was happening between us. Meanwhile, another girl who looks like me started to work on him and he slept with her. I felt hurt right now. Obviously he still strongly attracted to me, and kept watching me during the class and never paid attention to the other girl. Everybody said the guy is using the other girl to get over his sex urge: he has to work with on the group project and cannot afford to lose control. Some said I should have made my move fast, because I didn't the other girl took the chance and got him.

2007-06-17 13:08:13 · 23 answers · asked by Jayjay 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been with this guy for a little over 2 weeks, we kinda rushed into it and I feel like i've known him forever. We're very comfortable with each other and we seem to have very similar personalities. lately though, I started having some doubts. Even though there are things that I like in him, there are also things that I don't like. For example, he's not really a healthy person, he eats way too much of fried foods. That really kills me because I'm more of a healthy eater. So, I'm trying to figure out if I should stay with him and see where it goes or if I should give up before it gets any further. I mean, if i stay would it be possible to change him?

2007-06-17 13:05:50 · 10 answers · asked by ozo2004 2 in Singles & Dating

Are you remorseful? What made you think it was a good idea at the time?

2007-06-17 13:03:50 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-17 13:01:14 · 12 answers · asked by msmccan 1 in Singles & Dating

Why are poeple so quick to fall in love with eachother. Shouldn't their be a long period of "falling in-like". I have so many buddies that date a girl, they tell eachother they love one another (after just a few dates) and then BAM they break-up. Isn't better to take it slow. It should be a slow romance and sweet courting before the "I love you part", right? You can be very romantic and do romantic things with out rushing into the words I love you.
This is how it should go....
Meet that special person. Fall in-like. Date for a while (like a year or two). Sometime in that year or so of dating then the "I love you" part comes up. Do all kinds of romantic and sweet things for eachother. Spend as much time as possible just getting to know eachother and the families. Then if it is time and your both ready, get married and after a couple of years have kids.
Whats all the rushing around for??

2007-06-17 13:00:59 · 6 answers · asked by Knight-of-God 3 in Singles & Dating

What can i do thats fun before i sleep ?

2007-06-17 12:58:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

last night i went to a party and my boyfriend was there. we sat down together and laughed and made jokes, but then we talked with our other friends. it was getting dark, and some of my friends were flirting with him, causing him not to talk to me as much. well me, my best friend and her crush finally were alone together and everyone was talking but my boyfriend, and we kept asking him whats wrong. he was pissed and really sad and he kept saying nothing. finally i found out that he thought i was going to break up with him because everyone was flirting with him, and he new it made me mad, and he was trying to get away from all those girls. when it was time to go, he hugged me, but i was still at the party. he called me and said he was sorry for being a jerk, and he loves me so much. he kept texting me, today AND yesterday saying i didnt even know how much he loves me, and he loves me sososososo much, and he'll never break up with me. i guess im trying to ask, does he really truly love me

2007-06-17 12:55:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 12:55:40 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Have you ever "fallen for" or became "in-like" with someone you met online somewhere or even on YA. Just curious.

2007-06-17 12:53:18 · 5 answers · asked by Knight-of-God 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

If you're in a relationship, is it wrong to look at pics of lesbians, squirters, and scat? Or is it just disgusting?

2007-06-17 12:52:48 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

we all have them! i'll pick the one i think is the MOST embarassing for best answer.

2007-06-17 12:50:14 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating