Is it wrong for a guy in a relationship to look at porn?

Question

If you're in a relationship, is it wrong to look at pics of lesbians, squirters, and scat? Or is it just disgusting?

Answer 1

Well, why do you need to?

Porn is very corrosive to a relationship, so you risk a lot just to see two lesbians go after each other with monster dildoes.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

Guys are visual, and porn meets that need for some guys. There has always been pornography, but it's just a lot more readily available than it used to be because of the internet. Frankly, most of the porn I've seen isn't much worse than what's written in some romance novels! Girls fantasize differently, and I wouldn't necessarily consider it "wrong" if a man enjoyed a few peeks now and then. It would only be a concern if he'd rather look at porn at 1 am in the morning instead of creating his own version in bed with you :-)

That said, I personally find the scat stuff revolting. Other porn doesn't bother me, but that scat stuff really hits my "perverted" button. JMHO.

Answer 4

Porn has become more of a behavioral berometer than before the advent of the Internet. It is a click away, and you can be inundated with it. The real question is why would a male of female for that matter who is in a relationship have to turn to porn. It really should not play a part in any relationship unless both parties use porn as a means of stimulating each other as part of foreplay. even then, it is questionable as to what part it does play or should play between partners.

Answer 5

no it's not wrong for a guy to look at porn who's in a relationship. but why don't you look at the porn with your girlfriend? it might be a turn on for the both of you. and watching 2 women go at it is almost every guys dream. but what's sqirters and scat is just really gross unless your into that kind of thing. but to each their own.

Answer 6

I'm married and I watch porn sometimes. I mean, if the person you're in the relationship with doesn't mind, I don't see where it's a problem. Although, if it bothers your partner, I would definately try to limit yourself to how much you watch. Or... at least try to watch it when they're not around. The scat part, though... kinda gross.

Answer 7

I wouldn't say that it is wrong, but I guess it depends on the level of porn or the way it interferes with the relationship...if a guy it just looking at porn and he is still interacting with his significant other, then I think it's ok...but if he is engrossed in it...and it is causing problems in his relationship, then it's not ok...I think men as well as women are slightly curious to porn and in healthy relationships, I've seen couples both watch porn or look at in on the web. I think it all depends on the ppl in the realtionship. If one of the partners has issues with it, then it is causing problems...and maybe it is something that should be toned down.

Answer 8

The females will be like, eeewww gross or your a perv. Personally I dont see the problem with it, if the couple is open minded and confortable with each other you can really open up some possibilties.

Perhaps try introducing her slowly to it, you may find that she enjoys it as much as you do. I guess you could start off by just seeing how she feels about lesbians. Even though its not cheating as such (as there is no female involved) but she may get funny about it.

Answer 9

I don't see a problem with it I have been married for 8 years and both uf us look at porn sometimes together sometimes alone. There is nothing wrong with watching a porn every once in a while but if your addicted you need help.

Answer 10

I would say it's even 1000 times worse for a guy who is NOT in a relationship to look at it, because he is single, and who knows if he can win someone over or not? If NOT, then he should definitely not be looking at the stuff. It will just drive him insane.