I broke up with my boyfriend last sunday, than asked for him back, he thought about it for 2 days and than said he doesnt want a gf now, tried it, didnt work, wants to stay friends. I said def. but I am leaving for vacation soon and lets hang out when you are free. We are hanging out tomorrow.
Good Sign? or Bad Sign?
Can i still get him back, does he still like me, what can I do to get him back? I really miss him.
We will be going off to two different colleges after I come back from vacation.
2007-06-17 13:13:08 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hey, if this break up came out-of-no-where for him, then he's probably scared. He doesn't want to just hook right back up and then get dumped again.
You need to let him know exactly what you were thinking & feeling when you decided to break up with him. Tell him why you did it and now why you no you made a mistake.
Then, give him some time.
Hang out when you get the chance.
Enjoy that for now.
Until he gets the trust back, he's probably going to be hesitant about this relationship. Be patient. Be his friend. Be there.
Good luck and take care.
2007-06-17 13:18:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Its a good sign. If you guys are meeting again it probably means he still have some feelings for you. But don't pressurize him too much, ask him how he really feels about you and tell him how you really feel about him back and how much you've missed him. Take things slowly. If he still wants a break then give him. Give him all the space he needs but try to stay in constant contact with him. I wish you all the best!
2007-06-17 20:20:20 · answer #2 · answered by sweet_kisses21 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Maybe he needs time to think about why your relationship didn't work out. You might have hurt his feelings. Boys handle their emotions differently then girls. You might find out when you come back from vacation things are all fixed between you too. Or maybe friendship is all he wants right now.
2007-06-17 20:23:34 · answer #3 · answered by h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go to college single. This guy is happy to be broken up. Don't go back to a relationship that wasn't working out. Because it will always end up not working out.
You'll have more fun if you are single and not worrying about getting a phone call every night from your boyfriend. You have more freedom to go out and meet new people to hang out with.
2007-06-17 20:16:08 · answer #4 · answered by Maria B 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Let the boy go. You will be making new friends and will have lots of opportunities for dating new guys. Long-distance relationships, especially ones that are based on high school dating, are impossible to maintain and unrealistic, at best.There is always cheating and the result is bad feelings all around.
2007-06-17 20:18:43 · answer #5 · answered by boogeywoogy 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like he already said he doesnt want a girlfreind. either he is telling the truth or bluffing. only way to get him back ( if there is even a chance ) is to just go about your life and wait for him to come to you. if he doesnt, move on.. i dont think there is anything that you can do at this point. u know?
2007-06-17 20:16:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Its better off that you guys broke up before you go off to college, especially since you are going to 2 different ones. You'll meet so many new people at college and realize that its better if your single.
2007-06-17 20:15:50 · answer #7 · answered by BeachGurl897 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
good sign
why would that be bad
he wants to hang out..
so hang out and maybe he will realize how much he is missing out on .. jusst stay true and dont break up with him this time if you get back together
it was already your fault.. you hurt him and its going to take time
good things come to those who wait
wait for him show him you still love him and you made a mistake by breaking up with him
dont give up and good luck <3
2007-06-17 20:17:25 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
thats a good sign
cuz the more u hang out with him
the more hell realize he likes u
then he might just be more than friends with u
or
he doesnt like u
so u should leave him alone
i mean therez other guys u can find
maybe he like another girl now
i mean u never know
cuz he told u he doesnt wana go out with u again
soo all i wana say now is good luck <3
and
if he likes u back he the rite guy 4 u
2007-06-17 20:15:36 · answer #9 · answered by Jasmine 2 · 0⤊ 3⤋
its probably not going to work out eventually if you're going to two different colleges. find someone to hook up with on vacation lol. maybe that will make you feel better.
2007-06-17 20:16:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋