I've been with this guy for a little over 2 weeks, we kinda rushed into it and I feel like i've known him forever. We're very comfortable with each other and we seem to have very similar personalities. lately though, I started having some doubts. Even though there are things that I like in him, there are also things that I don't like. For example, he's not really a healthy person, he eats way too much of fried foods. That really kills me because I'm more of a healthy eater. So, I'm trying to figure out if I should stay with him and see where it goes or if I should give up before it gets any further. I mean, if i stay would it be possible to change him?
2007-06-17 13:05:50 · 10 answers · asked by ozo2004 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, I've told him about my concerns but he doesn't seem to care. He's not fat but his midsection is really flabby, which I'm not used to at all. He doesn't want to change just yet. Keep in mind he's only 20.
p.s. I'll be 20 this summer.
2007-06-17 13:12:30 · update #1
I think you should stay a little longer..
no one is perfect including you..
do you ever think he may not like
some things about you?!?!like being TOO healthy?
or whatever else...I don't think you should "go"
just for that reason...if you truely like him try &&
make it work there's alot of worse things he could
be doing....like pot perhaps..smoking...drugs..
but goodluck my dear!! :D I hope you don't let him go he maybe a keeper you never know...
2007-06-17 13:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by manda102285 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its way too early to freak out on stuff like that, those sorts of things are water under the bridge in established relationships. Its still too early to gauge if you guys have a chance or not, and i doubt you would really ruin a potenial relationship over something as small as eating habits.
Also there is nothing written in stone to say he wont see things a little your way in the future, dont be scared of such small things
2007-06-17 13:11:04 · answer #2 · answered by ChAtMaN 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should stay with him, if you dont like the fact that he eats fast food shove a salad down is d*amn throat. If he still wants to eat unhealthy punch him in the face and knife his as* nobody likes a little pus*y who cant eat healthy.
2007-06-17 13:13:21 · answer #3 · answered by Zachary T 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why break up with him just because of what he eats? Unless he is overwait shouldent matter much. But try talking to him about it you could probably change him.
2007-06-17 13:09:31 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems that small thing interrupt your realtionship.
He can't live his life by your orders/wishes
GET OVER IT
2007-06-21 05:09:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think someone's diet is a suffiecient reason to stop dating someone. It sounds kind of superficial.
2007-06-17 13:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not broken so you shouldn't try and fix him. Tell him your concrens and see what he says. Then if he can't make some changes... Go.
2007-06-17 13:09:52 · answer #7 · answered by Knight-of-God 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stay. If he does anything wrong to you leave him.
2007-06-17 13:09:05 · answer #8 · answered by Xiao G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my boyfriend says you a f*cking ***** , you want to dump a guy bc of what he eats...
2007-06-17 13:11:45 · answer #9 · answered by rebecca j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just stay.
2007-06-17 13:08:23 · answer #10 · answered by Kai 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋