at the pool today he spent the whole time looking at another female and looked at her more and in a way he never looked at me. what does this mean, what do i do?
2007-06-17 18:13:32 · 8 answers · asked by clemsongirl1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ummmm.... i advise that you have second thoughts on this whole marriage thing. if he is doing this right in front of you it means he has no respect for you. & i can't bear to see a woman get hurt without being warned. just know that a true man who loves you will never look the other direction in your presence. good luck & do what is best for u! =)
2007-06-17 18:23:05 · answer #1 · answered by JustMe♥. 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
The best thing for you to do is talk to him about it. It sounds like you may have some insecurities about your relationship and you definitly dont need those when you plan on going down the aisle. I dont think anyone here can give you real advice on this situation because we dont know him or you and there are two sides to every story. But the first step to a successful relationshop is communication. So, communicate. Tell him how you feel and go from there.
2007-06-17 18:25:26 · answer #2 · answered by MJMGrand 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you are on a diet, you still can look at the menu.
If you are in a serious relationship, you can still look at others. He sees you quite a bit. This other girl was something new, and he was enjoying the view.
If you think that your man should stopp looking at other women, you are in for a shock. There are only two reasons that I man does not check out a good looking woman. One he is gay, or two, he is blind!!
It has nothing to do with his feelings for you. You will have to accept that! Unless he does something else to make you not trust him, do not worry!!
2007-06-17 18:22:18 · answer #3 · answered by fire4511 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
As long as he only looked what does it matter, you can mention it to him but it will only end up in a tiff believe me, all guys perve on other women it's their thing in pools
If it was blatantly obvious then it's dis-respecting you big time and I would let him know in no uncertain terms either..LOL â¥
2007-06-17 18:42:22 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I just had a similar problem . My fiance' was looking at other females . And cheating on me twice from what I know. I broke up with him . what makes matters worse is that I am pregnant with his baby. so you may not want my advice. but if you do contact me . good luck.
2007-06-17 18:21:32 · answer #5 · answered by sugarplumcake22 2 · 1⤊ 3⤋
it sound like you need to let him know how you feel about the
fact that he disrespect you. it may be a sign that you need
to find a new man. if he doing this now, then trust me. if you
marry this man you will be in big trouble.
2007-06-17 18:23:21 · answer #6 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 2⤋
HIm got wandering eyes.
Dump him.
Don't threaten to dump him in hope he will change. Just DO IT!
Threats and complaints won't work on a guy like him. Move on to someone who will think you are his only one.
Good luck.................
2007-06-17 18:27:15 · answer #7 · answered by Ye Olde Caveman 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
SAVE YOUR LIFE.
2007-06-17 20:01:09 · answer #8 · answered by JW van JW 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋