My b/f and I have had been previously dating for about 9 months,(with no sex envolved, and we are both virgins)... we broke up when we had to go to different colleges, other than the distance problem the only other problem we had was the occaisonally communication issues. So after 3 months we got back together and it lasted for 1 month, but i basically broke it off, because I didn't like the amount of girls he was hanging out with at school. Now after 6 months of being broken up and us not dating other ppl, he asked me out again, and I do still love him alot and I know he loves me alot also, but I think we may have exhuasted our time together, what do you think?
2007-06-17 18:43:19 · 7 answers · asked by sb41288 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Break it off. Long distance relationships are difficult enough...jealousy and a rocky past aren't usually signs of a good relationship.
If you are really really IN LOVE with him and think he's worth the time, effort, communication, loyalty, and commitment that a long distance relationship requires, by all means, it's your life and your future. If it's not going anywhere, it's not worth your trouble..enjoy being in college and being SINGLE!
2007-06-17 18:47:01 · answer #1 · answered by victoria 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't exhaust your time, you exhaust each other. It sounds like you have a really strong bond and shouldn't blow it off. On the other hand it takes a lot of trust to maintain a long-distance relationship, and if you don't trust his hanging out with other girls, then your relationship is in trouble. Last I heard, "hanging out" was platonic. If you have to control his platonic relationships then you're going to have a difficult life together.
2007-06-17 18:53:08 · answer #2 · answered by Houyhnhnm 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
college relationships are hard. i know because I am in college and my boyfriend goes to the Portland State University and I got to the Art Institute of Portland and it's hard not seeing at least twice a week. I would stay away from long distance relationships...they never work out and it's too much stress trying to stay together. I would dump him because he sounds like he's wearing thin on you.
2007-06-17 18:49:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Going to different colleges is very hard for a couple. You may do better to give each other the freedom to date others. If it is meant to be, eventually it will happen. If you both meet someone else, then it just wasn't in your future.
2007-06-17 18:49:48 · answer #4 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
relationships like that are so hard. i would follow your heart, but think about the future...
...like can you really see it going somewhere? do you have the same goals and dreams?
and it's awesome that your virgins. stay that way till your married!
2007-06-17 18:46:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to get a life and stop worrying about him.
2007-06-17 18:48:10 · answer #6 · answered by walchung 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give it another try.. its not possible to conclude anything as of now. give this relationship of urs another go n this time give it ur best. best of luck!
2007-06-17 18:47:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋