is there some thing wrong with me?she knows i like her why does she try to make me jealous?and i have rarely talk to her
2007-06-17 21:56:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Are you falsely thinking that you can't live up to her expectations?? What is it that you are afraid of? Whatever it is hon, please get over it. Once you do ask her out and y'all have so much fun, you'll kick yourself for hesitating so long. If she is trying to make you jealous, as you say, it must be b/c she is "wantin' ta get tha show on tha road!" In other words, she wants to be with you. I used to be shy too, and I now feel that my life didn't begin until I overcame it. And the only way you can overcome it is to "jump in and mix and mingle." It's not that hard to do. Been there and dunnit.
2007-06-17 22:08:40 · answer #1 · answered by wildflower 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say it man. Let her know your feelings. At least this way nobody - neither you or her - will go all way just knowing --or 'assuming'.
Perhaps it's not really her point to make you jealous, maybe it is your feelings that's eating you up when you see something you dont want to see. In the first place, both of you are not formally attached into any sort of a boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. And even if she really is trying to make you jealous, she won't be charged guilty for it coz as far as her knowledge goes, she is not by far being pursued (by you).
So again, maybe, just maybe - she knows you like her. But, this doesn't implicate or indicate anything that there's "your feelings" for her to consider. Not until you finally open up to her and both of you are willing to work out something.
About in the state of being shy, it is actually a psychological thing. It's a mentality needed to be worked out yourself. It might help asking yourself and answering why you feeling shy to let her (or someone else you like) to know your feelings? Fear to be denied? In case, just in case it is, I'd say don't let fear control you. You should be the one whose controlling these fears.
You're letting good chances passing up if you keep on hiding in the shades. You're entitled for a try boy. Time to be a man, men. Go for it, say it.
Oh who knows it might just work out well after all.
Wishing you well in the name of love. (Thub thub)
2007-06-17 22:35:11 · answer #2 · answered by J.a.c.q.© 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all,i hope you will bring up courage to talk to her if you really interested on her.since you know she feels the same as you,why not just go up and invite her out? if you did not,i believes that she will be very disappointed. Good luck
2007-06-17 22:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by jessy 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it'll be because she wants you too be fighting over her if you get what i mean.. she wants too see someone liking her would make her feel good.. tell her how you feel and ask her if she wants more and if she does ask her out.. if not then just carry on being friends but keep your feelings for her to yourself.
2007-06-17 22:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by blue_eyed_blonde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1/ ok was there a question?
2/ i dont know you but could be cuz you stated that youre shy
3/ you arent bf and gf so it shouldnt matter
2007-06-17 22:02:46 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
my friend ; if you can ;try and grow some ;today .I'm not being nasty .just trying to ;shake you up a bit .if you don.t ask her out today .IL want to know why .good luck with that .
2007-06-17 22:05:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get some self confidence and ask her out.
2007-06-17 21:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by pilljills 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for her, if u keep standing on the spot and wont even move a single step to her, u will lose her.
2007-06-17 22:00:47 · answer #8 · answered by moonrider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋