My bf's ex gf (actually they lived together for years) is trying to befriend me. Showing the whole world that she's too kind that she is still befriending me even I have her bf now. I am just scared to trust coz after all the bad words she told my bf's family, friends and officemates, (such as m a flirt...i have a kid etc.) It became too hard for me to get their approval for the relationship...it took me 2 years to finally make them believe that its not me that girl keeps on telling. they don't even talk to me before....slowly i got their trust...and make them like me....but i've gone through real hardships...and now she can see m ok with the family and friends,she's befriending me...what should i do...actually i can't
hide the fact that i wanted to close the issue but she keeps on going where we are and following us...befriending everyone close to me and to my bf...to show that she's better than me..
2007-06-17 21:40:27 · 5 answers · asked by prettyMe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
"Keep your friends close, and your enemies closer." Watch her like a hawk. She may be regretting losing her bf. Do not under any circumstances tell her anything about your relationship, or anything that is private in your life. She has already spoken badly about you before, don't give her any ammunition.
I would handle it like this: Just be polite, and nice to her. You do not have to be her friend just because someone else is. Don't include her in any of your plans, or let her get too close to you or your boyfriend. I have a feeling that she may be up to no good.
2007-06-17 21:53:33 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why should you need the approval of your bf ex girlfriend for anything.she shouldn"t be part of your present relationship for anything.talk to your BF about it.if he is not willing to talk about it and take necessary steps together with you to put an end to that.then leave him when you are ready.after all the world knows how you have tried for years by tolerating their **** which no one will even take in the first place. show the world your evidences(if you have them) and make very big noise about it which will disgrace them.but know that once you are out,she will move back in.you know they have been using signs to communicate.even playing music in places for each other. i wont accept her friendship if i were you.remember once bitten twice shy.he shouldn"t jump into a new friendship if he has unsettled business with the ex.
2007-06-17 21:53:27 · answer #2 · answered by bestofyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No u need to talk to ur bf!!! he cant be friends with his ex gf! U can never be friends with ex's if ur in a relationship cause one will always want to get back together while the other wont! It sounds like she is after ur man! U need to do something to stop this from happening! Be honest with ur bf! Tell u about ur fears and what she did to make the family think horrible things about u! If he loves u and respects u he will stop talking to his ex! They cant be friends and no matter who he is with they will need to stop talking to eachother!
2007-06-17 21:46:54 · answer #3 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say she is up to no good. She has changed her tactics and will stab you in the back every chance she gets. If I were you I would talk to my bf and ask him to tell her that he would prefer she didn't follow the two of you around and that it is over between them and to get lost.
2007-06-17 21:47:52 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell the girl you dont want to be friends with her. dunno...why you'd want to anyway unless she's someone you really like and admire. just tell her to piss off
2007-06-17 21:44:21 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋