My girlfriend Sherri found a post that my ex put on here asking why he cant be with me. He is just the oddest, I have told him so many times that he has anxiety and he still just acts like he has no clue what the problem is. He is upset that I date, but he told me to. I asked if we would get back together and he said he did not know. Now, he makes it sound as if its me moving on. He comes over to see me, phones and says he loves me... He is all over the board! Why is he being so thick?
2007-06-17 21:27:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Look up his question, why cant I be with my girl, I believe it is
2007-06-17 21:35:13 · update #1
I read his question, and posted an answer telling him to talk to you. And get help. He needs it. If you love him, (he makes you sound like an angel) stick by him and make sure he gets help.
He sounds really scared that becasue its going so right, it will hurt so much if it goes wrong, his fear is causing him to pre-empt your break up and send you away. This paranoia will spill over into the rest of his life before long. He could end up agoraphobic, obsessive compulsive. (check this out, I'm not a doctor but...) I've heard that if schizophrenia is going to come out in someone, 25 ish is the age it will start to show....
You know him better, if he's just a nutter, get away and stay away! If he's unstable he's a dangerous stalker in the making!!!!!
2007-06-17 22:26:43 · answer #1 · answered by Wonderwoman 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
More than likely it was an encounter with "Sleep Paralysis" and not anything paranormal. This can be a quite frightening experience but it does pass.I have also had this experience and also had the sensation of a presence in the room with me. I was completely terrified and frozen with fear. The presence had a sinister laugh. I thought someone had broken into my room and was trying to kill me. Sleep paralysis is not a condition or evidence of being haunted or possessed though sometimes dark forces can use this as a means to try to control you or possess you. That is rare. Many individuals have this experience and it can come without warning, there is not any one particular way to avoid having this occurrence. You just have to ride it out. A very good book I recommend is "The Terror that Comes In The Night" by David J Hufford. He talks about this as well as other experiences people claim to have at night. Take care.
2016-05-18 06:50:05 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Be careful of what you ask for." That's the old saying, and it is true. He wanted his freedom, now he has it and he found out that the grass wasn't so green on the oher side of the fence. Now he thinks that he can just come back and everything will be the way it was. Too late, he messed up and now he will have to pay the price!!
2007-06-17 21:36:14 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like he doesnt know what he really wants.
Only you know in your heart if its best to go back and try again or to move on from him.
He may need your help, and if you do go back to him, i wouldnt assume its gonna be an easy ride
and to answer why hes being so thick... hes a man!! =P
just kidding.. honest
Good Luck x
2007-06-17 21:34:49 · answer #4 · answered by ritrittep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He isn't sure yet. he did experience love with you, and may have anxiety at commitments to you.
Give him his own rope. He refers to you, so remain friendly.
Boys are slower than girls at this, and he may come around to you, recognize love, and say this is it.
He may remain anxious like "Woody Allen".
He is inexperienced, and it is causing you anxiety.
2007-06-17 21:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Marissa Di 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe because he just love your companion and use to all the routine.But at the same time he's not being mature as drop the subject once and for all
2007-06-17 21:37:00 · answer #6 · answered by Kay 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
run away and have a nice life @ ur wish
2007-06-17 21:36:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Run as fast as you can away from this nut!
2007-06-17 21:32:14 · answer #8 · answered by poison_angel32 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think he's either bi-polar or a martyr!
2007-06-17 21:35:23 · answer #9 · answered by ßỰŦŤΣЯ§! Guess who's back...for now! 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could be he don't want to loose you
2007-06-17 21:53:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋