I am confused about whether this boy likes me. We have only known each other 3 weeks and on wed he kissed me for the first time, we saw each other again on thursday and he was cooler but he still held myhand while walking and put his arm around me at the nightclub but he was definietly cooler. Didnt kiss me but was attentive ish.
Then friday he turned up at my work just to kiss me before he went away with the lads for a weekend away in scotland. He texted me once on sat nothing exciting no kisses etc.. I replied and since then not heard anything.
Am i over reacting at the lack of texts and coolness on thursday, is it posible he is just busy with the boys and i shld chill and that thursday he was feeling awkward as didnt know how i felt.
Or is he having second thoughts
An objective opinion about what is going on in his head would be good.
2007-06-17 00:22:07 · 10 answers · asked by confused 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It seems like he likes you. Do you like him? He is probably wanting you to make some moves on him too. It's really boring if you're the only one making the moves and the other person does nothing. He's probably wondering if you like him. Don't buy too much into the texting. He probably prefers a more direct method of communication.
You need to make some moves on him. So the next time you see him, put your lips on his and your hands down below. If he likes you, he'll be into it and it'll get hot. You two sound very English.
2007-06-17 00:37:19 · answer #1 · answered by DF25 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dear confused, Boy have I been in your shoes, the unknown certainty, the confusion and I am a man. After 3 weeks you had your first kiss must have been heaven for you and the holding your hand and putting a protective arm around you in the night club (which psychologically is saying she is with me).
He might have felt a bit embarrassed about kissing you in front of group of people, but at least he was attentive. He came to your work "just" to kiss you goodbye before he went away with his friends, that says a lot, it says that somewhere in side he cares for you enough to take that trip just for a kiss and to let you know he was going away.
Text messages are, I feel intrusive and can not truly emphasise how one really feels, he could be writing it in one way, IE ( I am missing you) you could be reading it another (he doesn't care), but remember he was with his friends and may have not privacy to send more than he wanted.
No one can give and objective opinion of what is going on in his mind, only he can tell you that. I know what it is like to be waiting for either a text message or a personal call. Try and continue with your life and it is possible he may get in touch when he feels ready, but waiting puts your life on hold, that is not good. Let cupid play his on arrow and see what happens. Good like
2007-06-17 00:56:34 · answer #2 · answered by David Wilson 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is currently thinking whether he wants to go on with you or not... But I can tell you for certain that he is not very attracted or crazy to you in the first place... He likes you most def but he must be really saying to himself "She is really nice and sweet but I am not actualy feeling intense"
He must be having second thoughts of course as he doesn't want this thing get more serious than he wants... (So that nobody hurts...)
So all these words were just to say "wait and see" and "hope for the best"
2007-06-17 00:35:34 · answer #3 · answered by Can G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 11:30:09 · answer #4 · answered by lacue 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he is having second thoughts, perhaps you scared him of by being a typical girl and over analyzing every single pointless detail, but thats not just you its every girl in the world
2007-06-17 01:27:44 · answer #5 · answered by coopsradar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him a wildly passionate kiss next time. Also, make sure your breath is really minty. He'll get the idea.
2007-06-17 00:27:16 · answer #6 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he likes you..it´s just that I think he is like you uncertain of your feelings..have you showed him how you feel...maybe you should go to him and just kiss him to show him you want this and give him some attention...
2007-06-17 00:27:51 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He probably does like you. don't be pushy and over eager.hes probably just busy but hold thumbs maybe he doesn't want to seem desperate to get with you
2007-06-17 01:13:17 · answer #8 · answered by Melodé 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmmm i think that hes worried about wat u think of him and he mite think hes taking it to fast for u. dont worry about it and maybe hold his hand or kiss him on the cheek and see how he reacts. i really think hes just being careful and trying not to take it to fast.
2007-06-17 00:29:10 · answer #9 · answered by blondey91 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he does like you but that's just my opinion
2007-06-17 00:26:33 · answer #10 · answered by ☆♫♥Seиsaтioиal™♥♫☆ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋