Family & Relationships - 17 June 2007

I would not earn his son's respect if I did not go to all his baseball games and such. I know I needed to do it, but I was not raised this way and I wanted more time to adjust. He was very demanding towards me and would always fight with me because of his son........I came back to my country to distance myself from the situation and think all over it. I told him I am willing to go back but he still wants me to think the way he and his family does, not giving me room to be myself. His daughter told me a lot of bad things about him because she was jealous of me being there and it seems he does not see that. How to convince him that I am willing to do but that love is free and it takes time to adjust and it takes TWO TO TANGO? We are not young anymore, and despite the differences I am willing to make it work, but he has to want that to. He makes things hard for both of us...and he told me if I don't share the same interests they can do very little for me. Is this American culture?
Help!

2007-06-17 08:13:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i mean a tomboy girl?would they even date them?

2007-06-17 08:13:21 · 15 answers · asked by truth set free 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a close friend who mother is black and father is brazilian everywhere she goes guys and some girls are all over her.She has beautiful tanned/brown complection the butt brazilian and black girls are known for hazel eyes and long black wavy hair these girls i know hate her and are always trying to fight her calling her ugly and making fun of her for being mixed she let them tear her self esteem to shreads i don't know what to say to her

2007-06-17 08:08:03 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i really like this kid! and he has a girlfriend! but i still really like him! he goes to my camp so i see him for like 8 hours every week day! i dont know wut to do! should i try to make him jelous!? wut should i do?? HELP!

2007-06-17 08:07:48 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My 3 year old daughter and 1 year old son are flower girl and ring bearer in an upcoming friends wedding....they don't want a pillow for the rings, so i could use some other suggestions and ideas...also, he's too young to walk down alone, but if he walks with my daughter she can't throw petals....any ideas or suggestions would be helpful...be creative, cause i am not...oh, the bride and groom are open to anything.....

2007-06-17 08:07:06 · 9 answers · asked by Teha4 3 in Weddings

i have this feeling for this guy that ive been dating. and how can i really tell if i truley do love him or not? and make sure that im not mistaking love

2007-06-17 08:05:53 · 19 answers · asked by ilove you 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 08:05:46 · 3 answers · asked by krissy 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 08:04:54 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

to tell someone.that; is know longer with us .or perhape.s you have not seen them;for many year.s .what would you say to them .

2007-06-17 08:04:22 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

if your talking to a guy on the phone and he masturbates while hes talking to you is that weird or is that normal? whats your oppinion on this? i dont know what to think....

2007-06-17 08:03:45 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 08:03:30 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a guy who ive been talking to and have no romantic link to what so ever just got out of a long relationship and had a hard life so im interested in him but don't act like i am in front of him. he tells his sister he is afraid of me. but his sister says don't take it the wrong way because he's afraid in a good way. now im a grown *** woman and this crap makes no dang sense to me does it to you???

2007-06-17 08:01:40 · 7 answers · asked by appledumplin 2 in Singles & Dating

appearance and personality.

2007-06-17 08:00:09 · 31 answers · asked by luu 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 07:56:19 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Well, my boyfriend told me that he thinks he liked this girl more then me and not to worry about it. ((but it was his ex-girlfriend)) So, of course I worried about it and talked to her about it. ((like any normal girl would do.)) she told me that she didn't like him and I wouldn't have to worry about her ever liking him. So, me and him were on the phone and I was waiting for the perfect moment to tell him that I talked to her, but her brother called yelling at him for liking his sister. So, he asked me what I said to her and I told him everything. I apologized so many times and he kept saying "it's okay don't worry about it." So ten minutes later he yelled at me saying I backstabbed him and that he couldn't trust me, but this already happened to us once and we broke up and got back together cause he wanted me. So now its been 2 weeks and I still have so many feelings for him. What should I say to him to get us back together? I've said sorry and everything. maybe you have a better plan.

2007-06-17 07:55:55 · 8 answers · asked by Amelia G 2 in Singles & Dating

im pretty stressed at the moment, and just feel like i need so many answers.

the thing is i want to be with my boyfriend, but sometimes i feel like i dont love him, where before i used to be so sure i was (was that just the infactuation zone) but then i get really unhappy at the thourght of not being with him. i care for him and i never want to hurt him, i would do anything for our relationship to be how it used to be.

the thing is what is love? and how do we know were in it?

recently ive had some hardship with friends. do i need to work that back up again? i just need someone to talk to besides my boyfriend sometimes.

sometimes i feel like my boyfriend is going of me to, when i confront him about it hes very supportive and tells me its not the case

im scared of being without him and scared of being with him. whattts up with that.

i need help guys, just some friendly advice....

2007-06-17 07:55:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was with this guy for a couple of years. We lived together as if married. One day I came home to find out that my home wasnt my home anymore. He took away the only thing I had , my whole life was devoted to him and my kids. I left his sorry butt and he has made my life HELL everysince. Is it worng to want him to pay for the destruction of my life? And for him not getting the picture that love don"t live here no more? He will never feel the way I do ...... I just want him to feel my anger, hate, despaire, sorrow.....!

2007-06-17 07:54:36 · 16 answers · asked by kitty69freak 1 in Singles & Dating

psychic readings???? I have had 4 readings and 3 of them were right on the money and the 4th well went off track and told me something different, and well I know that it can be pretty expensive , but why is it that expensive, only a true psychic reader doesnt charge , do you agree ??? or disagree????

2007-06-17 07:51:26 · 7 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend thinks he's not afraid of anything.
So he challenged me to scare him.

I can't think of anything to scare him bad
enough to like make him cry or pee himself.

What is something really scary that I
could do to scare his pants off extremely bad?

2007-06-17 07:48:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 07:45:38 · 6 answers · asked by xoxo 1 in Singles & Dating

Make a long story short, i was good friends with this guy for 7 years- no kissy- just friends- he stopped talking/hanging out with me when he was with his girlfriend. Its been 2 years and now he sends me IM messages all the time. He says we should hang out, or he'll be like what are you doing tonight? I always have plans because i plan in advance.
He never makes plans or calls yet he keeps saying we should hang out.
I kinda feel like hes talking to me cause hes bored and has no friends now,, and i dont want him back as a friend so fast after what he did
what do u think?

2007-06-17 07:45:17 · 9 answers · asked by Jetglam 1 in Friends

i met this lad on the internet we've spoken over msn and by the phone and he wants to meet. only problem is im 16 and hes 20. and i no hes not some old man aswel coz ive sin him on webcam etc. i want to meet up then again im worried about meeting

2007-06-17 07:44:05 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

She lightly hits my back, and she waves. We are going to China together, and she is a little weird (Yet I am weird too. lmao), but she has a boyfriend. What does this mean? Help.

2007-06-17 07:43:12 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How do I get my mojo back? Years ago I never had to chase women, they came to me and due to that, I am not very skilled at the art of "picking up" women. I hate cheesy lines and refuse to do the bar scene. I spend a great deal of time at work and when not at work, I find myself entrenched in my kids lives. The problem is there are not any single women in these areas of my life.

I have tried the online dating scene with no luck. I find it extremely difficult to approach women in public as I hate looking like an idiot.

Don't just tell me to go for it as this is not the answer. Don't tell me to extend myself as I am comfortable with who I am and don't feel a need to stretch. Don't tell me that I have to talk to lot's of women to find one good one because I feel it is degrading to walk around "on the prowl".

2007-06-17 07:41:17 · 5 answers · asked by Am a dad too 2 in Singles & Dating

Every time I go out with sum1 they brake up with me 4 no reason!And everytime I go out with sum1 I get depressed

2007-06-17 07:39:56 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Me and her was in a verbal fight once about my ex..but then we both appologized...but then she started to text me weird stuff lik "I am fat"and stuf like that i tell her she is beautiful she says i lie but every one is like she is trying to get your attention cause she likes you but she has a bf..how is this true idk but could she possibly like me?

2007-06-17 07:38:48 · 9 answers · asked by wanttolpve 4 in Friends

my boyfriend and i have been dating for 1 year. one night he asked me to have sex with him. i wasnt sure.im not sure if i know him as wellas i think i do or i dont know if he has any diseases.

2007-06-17 07:33:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

just wondering what Ur opinion is.

2007-06-17 07:31:34 · 21 answers · asked by surfer_ade_uk 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend keeps flirting with me, then telling me im too young for him after leading me on for like 2 hours and i start to think he likes me for real this time and everybody says he is going to ask me out. he is always doing this. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!PS- im in 7th grade. he is in 8 or 9th.

2007-06-17 07:31:06 · 4 answers · asked by Lil' Heartbreaker 1 in Singles & Dating

what would you do without love?

2007-06-17 07:27:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating