How do I get my mojo back? Years ago I never had to chase women, they came to me and due to that, I am not very skilled at the art of "picking up" women. I hate cheesy lines and refuse to do the bar scene. I spend a great deal of time at work and when not at work, I find myself entrenched in my kids lives. The problem is there are not any single women in these areas of my life.
I have tried the online dating scene with no luck. I find it extremely difficult to approach women in public as I hate looking like an idiot.
Don't just tell me to go for it as this is not the answer. Don't tell me to extend myself as I am comfortable with who I am and don't feel a need to stretch. Don't tell me that I have to talk to lot's of women to find one good one because I feel it is degrading to walk around "on the prowl".
2007-06-17 07:41:17 · 5 answers · asked by Am a dad too 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well are you sure you want to date again??/...lol I am just kidding please do not take offense...This seems to be an issue with both men and women that have been through the relationship and kid thing and pretty much my advice would be to get out there more..not necessarily on the prowl just be more open minded when you see someone that you may want to approach, because I think that eventually you will just do it without thinking.......
2007-06-17 08:47:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Heres the thing you know thta sitting at home isn't going to get you a girlfriend, right? The online scened didn't work, so you are going to have to ask yourself what it is you can do. The only way you are going to find a girlfriend is if you get out somehow and make yourself known. And if you are in the vicinity of a pretty women, get the nerve and go talk to her. You don't have to say any cheesy pick up lines, just hi and how are you doing. You have to show confidence. But in order to get a date you are going to have to put yourself out there some how.
2007-06-17 07:58:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry but why not do all the don't says...??
From your wordin your too demandin anyway.... if you don't get out an' about then how the heck do you plan on meetin someone.. go see friends go out for drinks with them...trust me sounds like you got the not lookin vibe down pat...so if go for a beer with the lads you'll hook up as won't be sendin out the prowlin vibe
2007-06-17 07:48:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take your kids to places and do things with them- someone will come around- most of the time I have found they come to you when you aren't looking or trying very hard.
2007-06-17 07:57:41 · answer #4 · answered by cabbagepatchgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how to answer this question. So think of this, if a friend had this same problem, and he asked you for advice, what would you tell him?
2007-06-17 07:45:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋