i wanted to get rid of my marriage relationship but feel week or under confident to break up , any advice?

Question

its being 8yrs,reached to this situation nearly each month but last 2yrs are worse and don,t know how to get out of emotional teroma or fear of break up wants someone should do it for me

Answer 1

The only reason God gives us for divorce is adultery. So if your spouse has not done that, you don't have the reason required. You should do what ever you can to improve your relationship and stick with the promises you made when you said your vows.

Answer 2

The reason why is important not because your heart does not quiver anymore for that person but for the right reasons. You have to count the cost, seek help maybe from a therapist. My wife just left me, I have lost everything, everything I could offer someone, a house, new cars, furniture, and now I have to file bankruptcy and Im losing the house and why????
I cant get a real answer from her. Sometimes I just wished she said it was someone else so I can have peace of mind.
If you can work it out do it, and if not you have to tell that person and move on. its not fair for you and its not fair for the other person. spare that person and yourself some agony and future hurt and do the right thing, whatever that is.....

Answer 3

You have only two choices #1 Stay and be miserable and unhappy or #2 Just the opposite of #1*.....

Answer 4

you cannot keep lying to ur partner. if u dont love him, tell him. dont start up imaginary problems to try to get to the point and end it. honesty is an important factor in a relationship.

Answer 5

unless he is a terrible man, you should try and work the marriage out. there had to be love when you married him so give it a try and see where it goes.