Family & Relationships - 17 June 2007

2007-06-17 09:29:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So there is this guy that likes me, and I like him, And we've recently gotten to know each other well, but he is moving out of the country in 3 months, would it be worth it to start somthing?

2007-06-17 09:26:19 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Once and for all, could some very intelligent, honest guy please tell me what the deal is with the "scale" when grading girls. Each number is a level of attractiveness? Please interpret for me. Thanks, everyone!

2007-06-17 09:25:21 · 11 answers · asked by sudoku_crazed 1 in Singles & Dating

I doubt I will, but my fiance and I were considering running off to get married because of the stress it's causing on us. (Ex: parents making plans without mentioning them to us, parents arguing over money issues, etc.) One drawback to running away is the non-refundable $300 I paid to book a photographer. Another is that although I'm sure it would be fun at the time, I think I would eventually regret it. I wouldn't have pictures and such to show others from our wedding or look back upon. If you ran away, let me know if you regretted it, or if you didn't run away but were considering it, tell me why you changed your mind. Thanks!

2007-06-17 09:25:18 · 8 answers · asked by jlg_jdf 2 in Weddings

I am 14 and have never had a boyfriend before. I am kinda shy and I live in a small town. Sometimes I don't feel ready for a boyfriend. I really don't want a boyfriend right now. I am too busy with friends and family. I feel that I am abnormal because SO MANY girls want a boyfriend and they can't stop thinking about getting a boyfriend. Am I normal?? I do have alot of crushes but I don't want anything more. Were any of you like this at my age?? When was your first bf or gf?? Thanks.

2007-06-17 09:25:07 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been married for three years and have a wonderful son. However, my mother in law is a very large speed bump in our marriage and often causes strain. I refuse to be around her or allow my son around her but never tell my husband he can not see his mother. When we first got married she advised him not to tell me everything and that it was alright to have affairs out of our marriage. That's what she was taught (hence why she's twice divorced for cheating). I know he'd never do this but I was outraged. I've often asked her to not have my son around her daughter who is back living with her, but has been in prison and is back in to drugs and she refused to do so, so he no longer goes over and we pretty much have nothing to do with her. Trying to talk to her has had no effect. I feel bad that my husband is stuck in the middle but feel I am only looking out for my sons and my best interests. What can I do to stop the strain on our marriage?

2007-06-17 09:15:59 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been with this guy for over a year. we havent been dating the whole time, but we have pretty much been together. He is the only guy i wanna be with & basically the only one i even think about. we have sex & all that & we are basically together & most people look at it that way. We talked about why don't date one time and he said we get along better when we don't date but i still wish we were officially together. how can i get him to ask me out officially?

2007-06-17 09:11:28 · 10 answers · asked by ayebaybay 1 in Singles & Dating

Some troubles in general???
OK, I've already mentioned a lot about my ex dropping hints that he wants to get back with me. Sometimes we talk about what would happen if we got back together. Well, I was talking to my parents about his dropping hints and my mo seems fine with it. My dad, on the other hand, starts calling me stupid and tells me that us getting back together in the future is pure bull****! It's hurting me that my dad is thinking this stuff and I am just afraid that if we do get back together (trust me, he has been throwing the hints left and right), he might try anything to harm him. HELP!!!! What do I do if this happens?

2007-06-17 09:10:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My fiancee of 2 years is a photographer. During the latter part of our relationship, we've been having a lot of trust issues. Started with him (texting and emailing ex-girlfriends, friends and past clients) in a graphic sexual nature. I found out and I admit I dug up some old friends and did the same (tit for tat)...I admit, I wrong. We talked, cried, yelled and decided to move forward. One chick in particular, left a huge thorn in my side. Seems like she had a special "hold" on him, like he just couldn't leave her alone and HAD to talk to her. I found out that she had sent him some graphic sexual photos and we had it out again. A month passed, and one day before we had a show to do, he got up EARLY, like 8am to email her just to say "Hey" and tell her that he had a show to do. Fight again. Thought that was the end of it. Well, Friday, we had a scheduled shoot at 1pm. He went to the store to get some photos developed at 10:30, he says the girl called him then and said she wanted to

2007-06-17 09:07:32 · 12 answers · asked by monique718 2 in Singles & Dating

my wife and i separated. haven't talked to her. lawyers involved and things are getting ugle. real ugly. i know she loves me but she has emotional problems. one day she told me she loved me so much and the next she's going to an attorney. we've had no closure just spit, attorneys, and garbage. i tried to be civil but she started bad mouthing me as soon as she left. there's no need for that. just move on. we've had no closure and i know she's angry and also know that she loved me more than anyone she was with but she's very angry over something she did and seems like she's taking it out on me through the divorce. like i said there hasn't been any closure just i love you to death and angry hurtful attorneys and divorce. seems to me when all this settles down both of us are going to be like, what the heck just happened. i still love them. what do you think?

2007-06-17 09:01:24 · 5 answers · asked by golf4everdude 1 in Marriage & Divorce

NEED MORE ADVICEEEEE.
helpppp...

this guy told me he likes me , but i said we have to get to know eachother before we start a relationship. but he knows i think hes cute and i like him. but, he always talks about other girls to me..like how he was flirting with them.
what does this mean,, i know you arent him, but i just need ideas, and please no "ASK HIM" comments.
10 pts to best!
thankyouthankyouthankyou♥

2007-06-17 08:59:33 · 22 answers · asked by sweetheart--xo 2 in Singles & Dating

okay so today is Fathers Day and were gnna go 2 my grandparents house for like 5 min and that dont like me so i didnt want to go! my dad said okay at first then my brother started SCREAMING and saying i was a brat so my dad said i had to come, but my little sister knew i hated thier negative attitude and how they always LIE about me so she stuck up for me! i didnt even ask her 2 but she did. my dad was soooo pissed he said in a loud voice, not yelling, 'fine she can stay im sick of talking to her' so im at home now, was i being a brat by not wanting to go?? because before you answer, know that they LIE about me!!

2007-06-17 08:54:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Would you move in with three college girls. your a male with a professional job, but you don't have much cash. you find postings on the internet, but the one with the location you're looking for only comes through with the college girls. now, you don't know them, if they're reliable, or party girls, but you really do need an apartment at that price. do you do it?

2007-06-17 08:51:55 · 6 answers · asked by steveo 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so I need some advice my husband is on the interent maybe on the interent 4-6 times a day sometimes less, but hes not like on it all the time. He talks to various people, some women, some men and just says they are his friends. The internet doesnt seem to interfering with our relationship or any of his everyday duties. He talks about some of these people every now and then but it seems like he and internet life and a real like and in his real life im his wife. He works so much that he really doesn't have much time to be on the computer or do much of anything. Nonone calls for him or anything like that. I saw a message where he was telling one of his guy friends that this girl he met on there is awesome but thats all he said about her. Is it possible to have an internet life and a real life? And could this be whats happening, since his internet seems to be completely separate from his his internet life? Is it possible to have a flirty personality and think that your just being nice?

2007-06-17 08:48:48 · 8 answers · asked by renee_0102 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, so i've been sorta kinda been seeing this guy for the last few months. he's the sweetest guy in the world and REALLY likes me and i've began feeling the same way about him, so i was thinking of inviting him to my summer house for a weekend. i've already mentioned it in passing to him on the phone.

my parents are debating it, my mom leaning more to the yes side than my dad. everyone else i've asked about it said i should definitely invite him. but i'm scared that the whole thing will be totally awkward, because the most time we've spent w/ each other is a few hours. we haven't even been on a lot of dates because he goes to a different school than i do.

should i invite him and risk totaly awkwardness but the chance that i will have the time of my life, or not invite him at all?

2007-06-17 08:48:23 · 6 answers · asked by pooty 1 in Singles & Dating

Almost 3 yaers when she left.

2007-06-17 08:47:14 · 6 answers · asked by e76jc 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm heart-broken, my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years had just finished with me n i dunno what to do. Everything i do, everywhere i go seems to be a reminder of him. I cant eat, sleep. What can i do?

P.S- Please dont be mean i'm pissed off enough. xx

2007-06-17 08:46:53 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

so theirs this boy that i went out with 2 years ago we were going out for 1 or 2 months and i really loved him but we had to break p because he was moving to arizona. he came last summer and we were just friends because he only came for a few weeks. so he came back like last month and he was going to stay and live here so he asked me back out and of course i said yes cuz i still love him we were going out for two weeks but he saw this boy hug me so he broke up with me and i still love him and he told my best friend that if i want to go out with him i have to **** him should i do it? i mean i really love him and everything and i knoe that im going to wear protection but i dont know wear to get it or how much it is or how to use it. can uy guys tell me please im really confused

2007-06-17 08:43:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-17 08:42:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Thank's for trying to help me out! The details are a bit too long to fit into this box, so I linked it here:
http://nick.klim.googlepages.com/halo
Thank you SO much for all of your help, I really, genuinely appreciate it.

2007-06-17 08:41:37 · 3 answers · asked by GiantFan 1 in Singles & Dating

I havent recieved one for about 10 years, they mean so much more than emails or text.

2007-06-17 08:40:16 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

why do men anoeingly leave the toilet seat up and don't bother putting it down when they are finished when they know there are woman in the house?

2007-06-17 08:38:32 · 31 answers · asked by baby dust for me 5 in Marriage & Divorce

is it ok to walk around the house naked when my boy friends or friends are there? i do it right now, but people tell me not to. wat should i do?

2007-06-17 08:37:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a really screwed up situation.

A few days ago, best friend, whom I've known for 10 years, asked me to set-up a date with a guy friend, whom I've personally known and mentored for 7 years. I agreed to help her because she's really shy around guys.

Before I could arrange the date, I went on a blind date that was arranged by my best friend's brother. And guess who was my blind date? The guy who I've mentored for the last several years! Do I love him? Yes, because he's the first guy I've met who is not a chauvanistic idiot like all the other men I've dated. He doesn't see me as a trophy. Plus, we have the same interests and stuff.

The only problem I have with going to the next level is the fact my friend really loves him, AND she trusted me to set up a date between her and him. I told this guy about the situation and how she feels about him.

Both this guy and my friend have been with me through thick and thin. I don't want to lose either of them! Please help!

2007-06-17 08:34:59 · 9 answers · asked by Curious Student 2 in Singles & Dating

I don't know what has gotten into me recently. I love the whole white van man thing. I'm really attracted to gorgeous scaffolders, builders, electricians and things.

Does anybody know why this is? I want a boyfriend with a van! It's really strange. Maybe something to do with my ex working in an office and things didn't work out.

I know this is a really weird question but does anybody know why I'm attracted to these men so much? All of a sudden too? Any girls in the same situation?!

2007-06-17 08:32:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 08:31:12 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I cheated on my fiance with my ex. I knew my ex would tell on me (in the past she has shown she is crazy and had the balls to do it). She warned me that she would and I kept talking to her. She even showed me that she had emails we had sent to each other. I told her if she wanted to tell my fiance to go ahread and tell her what she wanted, just don't tell her parents. I think I subconsciously wanted out.

So I have tried to talk to my ex again. She won't talk to me. She is dating a guy, says she is happy and doesn't want anything to do with me.

Why would she tell on me to break up my engagement if she didn't want me?

2007-06-17 08:23:30 · 17 answers · asked by Alex J 3 in Singles & Dating

So my dad has man boobs and always trys to dance like shakira and just looks pathetic. Do you think he is gay? If not why is he doing this?

2007-06-17 08:19:29 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have been dating my bf for almost a year now and I love him to death!!! I have been in relationships before where I was "in love" but nothing like this. Well, he is European (and muslim) and he has a completely different culture than me. Sometimes he treats me like a princess and tells me all the things I want to hear, but a greater percentage of the time he is talking down to me (such as pulling all the bad things out of my past and throwing them in my face) or just calling me stupid or immature when he knows im not perfect and dont like to be called those names. Its just plain and simple: rude. Well ive tried to talk to him about it several several times (every time we fight). He tells me he'll try harder to respect me and he's "sorry". Well, for a while now Ive just been dealing with it but lately im not sure if i want to stick around for that kind of verbal abuse anymore... Once again hes a great guy and someone who I would totally consider marrying other than this one issue. ???

2007-06-17 08:19:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hello guys how are you?

i have had a few dates now and iam looking for a ggod fathful loyal lover and why cant I find the perfect lover friend etc.

2007-06-17 08:16:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating