Family & Relationships - 17 June 2007

Constant grunts, constant remarks, no cuddling, untouchable, grumpy....
Dependable, good provider....
I am dead inside?
Any help?

2007-06-17 07:27:08 · 15 answers · asked by aggie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well this is my daughters screen name so dont be fooled . but ya know i have four boys 25 22 21 and 18 and a daughter who is not bilogically mine. my daughter called me like 12 00 0clock none of the boys called me yet and they will well at least two of them. but i never get anything as in likke there mother they took her out to eat
they all work ;although one is in sc headed for iraq. one works for nj transit the 18 yr old probably does not make too much money and my oldest hes strugglin so this i understand . but what i dont get is they will find the time and make the sacrafice to give ther mother something but i never ever get a thing maybe a phone call from 2 or 3 of them and thats fine but i wonder why?
i always give them somthing for there birthday and christmas and i never get a thing its more hurtful then it is being expectant of a gift that i dont get a thing ever

2007-06-17 07:25:11 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

The guy i am currently talking to is not divorced yet he has been seperated from his wife for almost 2 yrs. but hasn't filed for a divorce...
he has no kids with her are any ties to her they just have to get a divorce...
Should i continue talkin to him... he says he loves me and i love him too.. we haven't had sex or anything... he says he wants to marry me and start a family together since he has no kids.. but he's still married what should i do? please help should i leave him alone or what? answer quickly...

2007-06-17 07:18:14 · 24 answers · asked by nikkiblue 1 in Singles & Dating

this is a bad situation my daughter is 25, an three kids, financee in jail, he will be out in 30days, he his the father of two of the kids, she said she loves him an will stand by him, been with him back an forth 6yrs. now she met someone esle an has to listen to him an no one esle, willing to leave her kids if has to just to make him happy, an if she doesn't let him have total control , he yell's at her, she don't want to be alone, thats why she is with him, he has total control on her, has her not even listen to her mother an father, we would love to find a way to break them up for the better of it, she is a pretty girl, 5ft. 4in ,118lbs. long blonde hair, blue eyes, an could have a better guy, can any one help with an answer please

2007-06-17 07:18:13 · 17 answers · asked by NEED HELP 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

why the people we meet on chat behave this way,until we meet them,they care a lot about us and once we give them a chance then all of a sudden they stop contacting us and try to avoid with out exactly telling us what went wrong and we go on thinking about the incidents that went wrong between both ...

2007-06-17 07:13:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

does your partner hang up the phone when you argue ? if so which one of you is it man or woman how mad does it make you?
my reason for asking is that hubbie and i have been rowing all day he keeps hanging up on me and he is making me very very mad you see he is at muse concert and im at home he wont be home till about 1 am and dont have his keys should i lock him and his mate out and go to bed early ???????

2007-06-17 07:13:12 · 11 answers · asked by smurfette 3 in Marriage & Divorce

hi after a couple of **** ups i have had to review my asking out technique.

i reckon i need the following,

girls status ie single

a rapport and interest

humour

and her name

these to me are all green lights have i missed anything ?

2007-06-17 07:08:44 · 8 answers · asked by SIMON T 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 07:07:25 · 20 answers · asked by Nuf J 4 in Family

If my grandmas boyfriend said bad things about my (dead) grandpa, and make racial remarks to my sister and talks smack about everyone in the family to other family members in the family is my mom justified in my sister home early from her summer stay at grandmas house? And should we confront my grandma on what hes doing to us? They have been together for six years. ADVICE PLEASE!!!

2007-06-17 07:03:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

basically i wont make this long

my friends called me up said they called me earlier and also said that they were at lakeside . then she said sike and that they were having a sleepover i was like okay thats coool then she said youve been punked and they were laughing i was like ok stupid bitches cuz they pissed me off it wasnt even funny! so then they asked me if i could come out and hang out i said no they said they would come to my place to pick up their magazine that i had i was like ok but they never came

i think that is so immature and thats stupid theyre already old enough to be saying youve been punked and they made me mad too!!!! they are 16 im 15 well anyways i just needed to get this out so am i being to mad even though they were just joking?

2007-06-17 07:03:18 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This morning I got up and got my 2 children and 3 step children ready for church. My Boyfriends son was giving me a heard time about anything I would ask him to do. I went in the room and ask his father to assist me with his son he screamead and yelled at me like a maniac because I woke him up, then he told me to pack my sh*t and get out. Well I went ahead and went to church with the kids and when I got home he tried to hug me Im sorry but remember he kicked me out so we faught and faught and faught now he blames all of it on me and I guess we are finished after 4 years, I havent been on my own in 4 years and he is kicking me out knowing I have only a part time job (because I have to take care of his kids and mine during the day so I cant work full time) I have no where to go with my 2 children and he dont care. What should I do Im very scraed all advice welcomed.

2007-06-17 07:02:09 · 17 answers · asked by shorty 2 in Family

i have a girlfriend of 4 years she has 2 kids and i have 2 kids but her family takes hers and does things with them and lets them spend the night with them all the time but not mine i fill this is wrong do you think im wrong to fill this way what should i do

2007-06-17 06:59:02 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This new girl just started to work at Wal-mart the other week (where I work) and we have been talking alot duing break and after work about our lives and stuff. She is a really sweet girl who is really in a tough situation right now and I want to help her in any way I can. She is currently 3 months pregnant by her boyfriend who doesn't even want the baby and wants her to have an abortion. She tells me that he's mean and abussive to her and she's afraid she's gonna loose this baby if she stays with him ,but she don't see a way out. I have quickly grown to care for her and want to offer her more than just my friendship. We have discussed her coming to live with me where she would be safe and cared for and I would love her and her baby just as my own sense I don't have any kids and am not sure if I can have kids due to a past medical condition. I have prayed about this and feel that God may be bringing us together for a reason. (Don't answer yet, more details coming)

2007-06-17 06:57:02 · 13 answers · asked by ski26er 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-17 06:56:42 · 15 answers · asked by greeneyes 1 in Marriage & Divorce

being cruel to your girl and seeing (making) her cry, or being gentle and loving with her and making her feel safe?

2007-06-17 06:56:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

He broke my heart, and replaced me with another girl, when I was so good to him. Even the way he broke up was bad.


Anyway all I'm wishing is to make him regret (not get revenge) I just want him to see how stupid he was for doing that


how do I do it in a mature way?

2007-06-17 06:54:48 · 35 answers · asked by leave me alone 1 in Singles & Dating

anyone here go to Labay Middle School in houston tx?

2007-06-17 06:53:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My mum and dad moved away last year to another country and i am 19 and decided to stay behind with my older brother 22 and my little sister 14. My lil sis was upset when they left but she did not want to go with her we all live together, and i recenlty noticed on my computer that she had been entering chat rooms and she has been talking to men like 19 year olds and people saying that they her age and there were some quite alarming comments that they had left her and one said they were going to meet up i am really worried i have tried taling to her but i just cant get through to her. any advice what i can do???

2007-06-17 06:47:58 · 26 answers · asked by Rushton 3 in Family

He says he doesn't care about days like this. He didn't even spend mothers day with is own mother he just spent it with his girlfriend. I don't understand. To me that is so wrong. It's like he has no respect for anyone. All he thinks about is himself. Why?

2007-06-17 06:46:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am married with 2 girls and work full time , and I need some alone time , but my hubby thinks that I just need to spend time with our girls, thats my alone time, I have to dissagree with him
I mean I just want alone time to watch a movie and get my nails done , and just try to relax from my busy life ,, what do you think, about that 10-points for the best answer....

2007-06-17 06:44:57 · 26 answers · asked by E.M. 4 in Family

What do you think about this and has it worked? seems everyone has dated multiple times before getting married or in the right permanent relationship.
Does dating many times increase your security or self-esteem?
I am 19 and in my first ever relationship with an older girl who has also never dated. We've dated for about 1.5 years. When things are complicated, I wonder if its because we've never dated before. It brings out a possessive quality in us and makes us prone to insecurity. Yet, we want to marry no matter what when we can. Not jbecause we dont want to date another person but because we love each other. Any people out there besides me that want to date and marry one person in life?I hope I'm not messed up for thinking that even one relationship in the past can hurt the person u end up with and ur chastity. I waited for the right one. Am I a dreamer? idealist? idiot? I should also mention that how I was raised and my culture plays a part. Ex: Parents never had any baggage

2007-06-17 06:41:16 · 8 answers · asked by thepboy57 1 in Singles & Dating

My Mother and Father are separated and I live with my Mom, I only see my Dad on Christmas and Thanksgiving. He only calls me during those times and the rest of the year I do not hear from him. My b-day is right after Thanksgiving so he doesn’t even bother to call then. I didn’t go to his house for Christmas last year and I think he still has my present; he never did bring it up. He refuses to pay child support so every month we get a check (forced from him by the court system) for $100 plus we get his yearly tax return. I called him a few day ago to see how he was and let him know that I used the tax return money to pay for my class trip to New York, and buy my school Jacket, I also told him how my grades were (all A's all year 4.0 and #1 out of 582 in my class) and he didn’t have any response to this.

2007-06-17 06:40:31 · 6 answers · asked by schs_gurrl 3 in Family

does he deserve a text message saying happy fathers day, when he never really acted like a father?

2007-06-17 06:35:12 · 9 answers · asked by Aiden 4 in Family

i just want to know whos in a long term relationship like myself AND what youv figured out over the time youv been with that person.

oh and how long youv been with them

2007-06-17 06:34:54 · 8 answers · asked by ahhhhhh 1 in Singles & Dating

What about several lap dances? What if your husband came home smelling of two dollar perfume?

2007-06-17 06:33:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-17 06:32:44 · 16 answers · asked by Tyler H 1 in Singles & Dating

Ever since I we have been together my father has always voiced that he did not like my husband. Recently My father did a background check on him (which I feel is none of his buisness) and did not like what he found. I know his past, and I dont hold it against him, however my father has been calling around trying to "recruit" family members to talk me into leaving him and/or finding a way to take our son away. I told him that until he can respect my decisions as an adult he was to stay away from my family, and I do not talk to him any more. Does anyone have any ideas to help this situation? I hate that my son is growing up not knowing his grandfather or grandmother on my side. Help?

2007-06-17 06:25:57 · 24 answers · asked by angela 3 in Family

We've been dating for 4 years. He hasn't propose to me yet. Today he told me he is planning to buy himself a new car next year. But when I asked when will he marry me, he said he doesn't know. He said he loves me, but he's not ready to marry. I'm 33 now and he's 34. He never take me to see his parents. Should I wait him or just break up with him? I feel that he just doésn't want to marry me. He just dare not to break up with me.

2007-06-17 06:24:02 · 10 answers · asked by Chad 1 in Singles & Dating

We talked alot over text. and i am going to start talking to him online,.

2007-06-17 06:22:46 · 5 answers · asked by Amanda Mae 1 in Singles & Dating

sex? I mean to me usually it's no big deal. I would rather get up and get movin because sex fires me up. It is very rare when I feel the need to be cuddled. (I do, however, still like to be with him.)

2007-06-17 06:20:59 · 16 answers · asked by wildwillow 3 in Marriage & Divorce