why the people we meet on chat behave this way,until we meet them,they care a lot about us and once we give them a chance then all of a sudden they stop contacting us and try to avoid with out exactly telling us what went wrong and we go on thinking about the incidents that went wrong between both ...
2007-06-17 07:13:50 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Because they are fake. They want you to think they are this macho man, but in reality, they are this 40 year old scrawny man. They are afraid of the riducule and possibly jail time for pretending to be a 16 year old lover. My advice: stay away. you never know who actually is behind the screen.
2007-06-17 07:18:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweety,
People you meet on chat only show you the best side of them. And you only show them the best side of you. You have a chance to think about what you say. You can stop those immediate, knee-jerk reactions from happening online.
Chances are, that these people were not right for you from the beginning. Perhaps, there was a part of you that you weren't showing them and it couldn't be avoided once they met you. So now they feel disheartened because you are not the person they thought you were.
Try meeting people another way. Get out of the house, and find a hobby that you like doing. Join a professional organization, visit your local library, or take classes at your local community college. These are great ways of meeting people.
2007-06-17 14:21:03 · answer #2 · answered by mj69catz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you're looking for romance online, what do you expect?
You're communicating with someone you know nothing about,
except what they tell you. This person is totally anonymous
and can say anything they like about themselves. Try the old
fashion way of dateing, meet someone in the flesh, get to know them, let them get to know you. Use patience and com-
passion. Take you're time. Date-ing and romance shouldn't
be like going through a McDonald's Drive thru. If that IS what
you want, then you shouldn't expect your romance to last longer than it takes to eat your Happy Meal.
2007-06-17 14:24:23 · answer #3 · answered by greynwise 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People tend to build up the person they are chatting with and when they meet the person they are usually disappointed. It is perhaps a mutual thing or perhaps some people give misleading information.
2007-06-17 14:22:19 · answer #4 · answered by don n 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps it has something to do with the fact that you don't stop talking long enough for another person to say anything.
I know that's how you talk, because that is how you write.
Learn something about punctuation and capitol letters and get back to us.
2007-06-17 14:18:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because on d chat they can live out their fantasy & not take any consequence from their action. in real life, they r just not ready for d responsibility. nothing wrong with u at all. blame it on cause & effect.
2007-06-17 14:20:35 · answer #6 · answered by mismatch 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We'll all come across jokers once in a while. Don't let them get to you, there are many more fish in the sea.
2007-06-17 14:19:13 · answer #7 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe after u meet them everything changes cause its not a mystery to what each other looks like
2007-06-17 14:18:37 · answer #8 · answered by paultoledo34 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mabey you are scary looking?
2007-06-17 14:18:30 · answer #9 · answered by unit663 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋