2007-06-17 06:56:42 · 15 answers · asked by greeneyes 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
While misunderstood by many, such as some of the above answerers, domestic discipline is not an unhealthy arrangement, provided that both parties are participating consensually. When most people think about spanking between adults, then immediately think of sex. This is a product of ignorance and a lack of available education about our lifestyles. Most people just can't swallow that anyone would choose this way to live, so they brand it as abuse or the works of mental cases.
My roommate answers to me when she misbehaves, which is the arrangement that she asked for. She accepts it, and I'm willing to hold her accountable, so all is good.
2007-06-17 12:23:50 · answer #1 · answered by baka_otaku30 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
1. You spank children. Not adults.
2. If you are into this sexually then that is your cup of tea but it
should not be questioned about regarding misbehaving or insulting him.
3. Can you define misbehaving or insulting. THis is very childish. But spanking is for children.
2007-06-17 07:10:34 · answer #2 · answered by sassylyn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Umm....no! Not me personally. But that depends on what you're into.
Personally, I find that demeaning and degrading. I'm a woman, not a child! You don't 'spank' me for doing something wrong. We argue it out and then have sex afterwards to make up!
But some women like to be dominated and don't mind that. They think it's 'kinky' or something. I'm not into that, so I would have a problem with it.
Does the woman get to 'spank' the husband if he forgets to take out the trash or insults *her*???
That's the only way I'd accept that arrangement. I think there are more adult ways to deal with arguments. Leave the kinky stuff in the bedroom!
2007-06-17 07:02:26 · answer #3 · answered by hrgirl1701 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Only if I were being naughty.
Otherwise its just disrespectful and demeaning. I am not a child. But I don't believe spanking children anyway...that's a whole other topic though.
2007-06-17 08:02:28 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way in hell would he even try!! Now, if you two are roll playing or trying something sexually (s&m)....then that's your business. But spanking a grown woman as punishment (like you do to a child) is disrespectful and degrading.
2007-06-17 07:10:42 · answer #5 · answered by You Don't Know Me! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! thats classed as an assault, it's even a criminal offense.And you would be perfectly within your rights to call the Police.
2007-06-17 07:02:27 · answer #6 · answered by conranger1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is a right time and place for that and that is not it. That is just humiliating and controling.
2007-06-17 08:12:30 · answer #7 · answered by Neka 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I myself never quite saw the intrigue....so NO.
But there are others who get tingly just thinking about it.....................
Me--I'd rather have a glass of champagne if I want the tingly....
2007-06-17 07:05:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
My man spanks me in bed. :)~
2007-06-17 07:04:05 · answer #9 · answered by moo shell 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
what ever floats your boat,as long as its a bit of fun. to each there own.
2007-06-17 07:04:02 · answer #10 · answered by derrycat69er 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋