Why would she do this if she didn't want me???

Question

I cheated on my fiance with my ex. I knew my ex would tell on me (in the past she has shown she is crazy and had the balls to do it). She warned me that she would and I kept talking to her. She even showed me that she had emails we had sent to each other. I told her if she wanted to tell my fiance to go ahread and tell her what she wanted, just don't tell her parents. I think I subconsciously wanted out.

So I have tried to talk to my ex again. She won't talk to me. She is dating a guy, says she is happy and doesn't want anything to do with me.

Why would she tell on me to break up my engagement if she didn't want me?

I tried to talk to the ex Girlfriend again. Sorry for the mixup

Answer 1

She`s crazy. You said so yourself.

Answer 2

Why did you do what you did with an ex that you knew perfectly well she's crazy? I honestly don't get it. Put yourself in you exfiance's shoes..how would you feel? Your ex gf is just full of resentment and is doing this for some kind of revenge on you because she is not the one (yeah...likes she's worth, piece of looser) , some girls refuse to let go on an ex. Let me tell you, you stay away completely from these loosers, they don't care about destroying other's happiness, simply because they are not happy.
Honestly, I would have done exactly what your ex did. You are weak, not trustful, and you killed the love. The doubt will always stay even if you continue this relationship, but I really doubt your ex will come back to you. I respect if she does, but believe me, the trust will never be there and for "guys" like you allow the ex gfs be your shadow. I am sorry to say this, but you did not have enough pants to respect your fiance, how are you going to respect a wife?
You probably can see all the poison this ex gf put on you, simply because you allowed it. Sorry, man. I feel sad knowing there are weak men out there.
Have the pants now to let your exfiance be happy with a man that earns her respect.

Answer 3

Cause you're stupid. Your ex seems to be a complete ***** and you were only the sucker she played. She never really wanted you, you were just a fun toy for awhile that she eventually got bored of.

You obviously aren't ready to get married. You need to grow up and ask yourself if you are really ready for marriage, cause when your life is a soap opera, you shouldn't be running to those wedding bells.

Answer 4

Are you serious you said that she is crazy so why are you trying to make sense out of what she is doing.She is not crazy you are.What you should do is find out what your feelings is for this crazy chick and go with it.Also to answer your question some times a person just wants their revenge.

Answer 5

I think that at that moment maybe she did have feelings for you but later on she must have realized if you cheated on your fiance with her, why wouldn't you cheat on her? Makes sense. So she realized the best thing to do was to move on.

Answer 6

that shouldn't be your question. the real question is why would you have sex with her knowing that she would tell on you? and plus why would you be engaged to a woman if you know deep down that she isn't the one? bro you gotta think if you are going to lay a ring on a woman's finger. now you look stupid cause she is with someone other dude and your engagement isn't looking too good right now. dude, let it go you f*cked up.. you got played.

Answer 7

She probably thinks the best revenge for a bad relationship with you is for you to have no relationship at all. You said it yourself she is crazy...why would you expect anything more than craziness out of her?

Answer 8

Well she might just not want to see you be happy if she's like that or she is maybe jealous of her and has completed her assingment! If you really loved your fiancé you wouldn't have cheated on her thats really low.

Answer 9

I think the question is Why did you cheat in the first place?

Answer 10

She probably feels for your fiance, that's why she wanted to tell.