hello guys how are you?
i have had a few dates now and iam looking for a ggod fathful loyal lover and why cant I find the perfect lover friend etc.
2007-06-17 08:16:09 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well that's difficult to say until we get a good look at you.
Post some full length pics up on a web site and let us know where they are then we will be more able to answer you.
(make sure the pics are both front and back, especially back)
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2007-06-17 08:20:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you have a tick list then there will never be anyone that will meet all your expectations.
Agape means unconditional love the same that was shown by JESUS on the cross.
Unconditional means there are no expectations for love that is given freely.
From your handle I guess you live life with expectations and high opinion of yourself and there is nothing wrong with self esteem, but it can be lonely at the top. Who said fashionable is good, however you do hear Good old fashioned kind of guy.
Are you sure that you are looking in the right places, and if you were are the men in that place willing to take you on. As lover does not indicate committment and the Good men want to commit, and a good sign they want to is that they are committed to something already.
Even Jesus said who said I am Good there is only one that is good and that is GOD. That is from the man who never sinned.
I pray you get saved and learn what "LOVE" is that there is one man who loved you before you were born, JESUS.
TRY A GOSPEL PREACHING CHURCH.
2007-06-17 08:50:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hello :)
I can't see a reason for you NOT finding a lover. Maybe you are just impatient, or maybe you are trying too hard to find one. I have noticed this over and over again; people that try to find lovers/partners never have any luck, and those who don't try always seem to meet someone just by chance.
I also think people can sense if they meet someone and this person i "desperate" to hook up. That can be deterring to anyone, it sort of destroys the game if you know what I mean.
So try not to worry about it, live happily and meet lots of different people and I'm sure someone is going to pop up when you least expect it. Good luck!
2007-06-17 08:27:11 · answer #3 · answered by Sara T 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are a woman....it is largely up to the woman to control the speed and direction of a relationship. She has her foot on the brakes, you know. You must locate a man that is worthy of your attention...first, find him. Then use your womanly wiles to captiviate him and make him yours. Half the fun, maybe most of the fun, is in the chase.
Are there any worthwhile men in your day to day existence that you come into contact with, who would be appropriate prospects, such as age and marital status? If not, I would suggest expanding your existence to include Internet dating sites; go to places where you are more likely to meet available men in your age group.
2007-06-17 08:24:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Topshopcitybeachbabe.Well Miss T,S,C,B,B from what I hear and see, good faithful loyal anything is next to impossible to find out there ! I am a 47 year old shut in and it sounds sad and crazy out there ! But there has to be some truehearted guys left out there. God bless you in your search, I will say a prayer for you !
2007-06-17 08:36:38 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi honey. I don't think Yahoo! Answers is a very good place to try finding a lover. You'll meet Mr. Right soon. Good luck.
2007-06-17 08:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, stop chomping at the bit and hoping every guy you meet is gonna be the one. Things will happen and you will meet him when the time is right. In the meantime have fun being a single girl, cos that probably won't last!!
2007-06-17 08:20:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's hard to find anyone of any quality anymore. My last girlfriend was a phony and fake if ever there was one. I can relate to what you're saying and the situation you are in.
If I had answers I'd have another girlfriend now and I'd share my secret with you....I'd probably be wealthy too.....if I wanted wealth, which I don't.
:)
2007-06-17 08:21:16 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, don't feel bad. I have been in this same situation before. But the best advice that I can give you is that if a guy really likes you and he's really digging your style, then let him come after you don't chase after him because that will make you seem desperate.
2007-06-17 08:23:56 · answer #9 · answered by B.E.A.Bootiful Brittany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Love comes naturally to those who dont seek it, usually.
Maybe you are being too critical in your search?
Sometimes first impressions ARE wrong.
I know it hurts but just try to have fun with dating and that perfect person WILL find you.
Best of luck!
2007-06-17 08:20:17 · answer #10 · answered by Amber J 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋