How do i move on?

Question

I'm heart-broken, my boyfriend of 2 1/2 years had just finished with me n i dunno what to do. Everything i do, everywhere i go seems to be a reminder of him. I cant eat, sleep. What can i do?

P.S- Please dont be mean i'm pissed off enough. xx

I still love him tho, and he still loves me. Its crazy.

Answer 1

I truly hate this for you. I remember when my fiance and I broke up..it was devestating. I never thought I would recover. The important thing to do is let yourself mourn your loss. It's easier said than done I know but when you feel like crying, remember it's ok to hurt.
Another this is truly take one day at a time. If I made it through an hour without thinking about him or wanting to call him, I would tell myself...okay another hour to go. It seems pathetic but I would literally have to break my days into minutes sometimes trying not to think about him.
I took tylenol pm to sleep and I didn't even try to eat. I know it's hard to see the end of the pain but give it a week..then two weeks and before you know it it's a month. When you hear only time heals pain...it's true.
Good luck and surround yourself with friends.

Answer 2

I sooooo know how you feel.

I was dumped by a girl to whom I was engaged and we were due ot get married to in a few months.

All you can do is have a really, and I mean a really, good cry and try to re-build your life.

Try going out with your friends to a new bar or club that none of you have been to or join a sports club or something.

I really didn't move on until I meet someone else - It didn't last but it was something new.

I then met the girl that was to become my wife and now I am happpily married with two grils and a third on the way.

It just takes time but you aren't going to move on unless you start to live again and do different things.

Good Luck !!!!!

Answer 3

Yes, it is like that after a breakup. But remember that breakups are not usually smooth....they don't happen in one clean shot. It takes time to break up; a couple drifts back together and tries to make it work, you know, before finally throwing in the towel. Perhaps he hasn't just come back around yet. Give him some time.
It is a melancholy feeling, to go places and be reminded of the one you love.But it passes. It passes, typically, when you find a new love, or at least, your heart moves on to other things to focus on, you know.
I don't know how old you are. I don't know how involved your relationship was, whether it was a sexual relationship. In general, though, the feelings you are having do pass. It is like a hangover you are feeling right now.

Answer 4

Miss Freckles, Gosh hon I am very sorry ! Until you are alone you don"t realize how many couples are out there. But sweetie the pain does ease with time. If you have a gift or talent for somthing focus on that cause it helps if you keep your attention on somthing positive ! That"s why I am doing this! Have you invited Jesus into your heart ? You will reap eternal benefits ! Jesus loves you and so do I !

Answer 5

I am so sorry that you have finished. I know the last thing you want to hear is that time is a great healer, plenty more fish in the sea etc, but it really will get easier as time goes on. get together with good friends, they will support you through this difficult time, Good luck

Answer 6

Go out with friends and try to have a good time. I know how your feeling (even if you think no one could possibly know).

The boy isnt worth your time if he doesn't want you then hes not worth the stress. Worrying about him and your situation wont do you any good. Go out, have fun. Maybe give your self a little makeover and meet some new guy friends. Show your ex that you don't need him and show him what hes missing out on!

Answer 7

Well although I never went out with this girl that I was madly in love with, I kind of felt the same way you feel now. I couldnt get her out of my head, every minute of every day I thought of her. (kind of over dramatic but heyy thats love hehe). Eventually after time I just got over her. Now im fine (at the time I was really depressed cos she didnt feel the same way). You've just got to be pro active, go out there and move forward, however much pain you feel at the moment. After a while, you'll feel better. Trust me.
Will

Answer 8

You poor thing
you're hurt and wounded and feeling low
Icecream is calling you and chocolates are so appealing right now
Hon we've all been there
Take it one day at a time
think of it like a train journey and your moving further away from him and closer to your ideal man

Answer 9

i am so sry to hear that i know what u mean. i use to really like this guy he made me love sick everyday><. but one day i finally got over him and i was soooo happy^^. bc i founded another guy.
first each day relax and try realy hard not to think about him i know it is hard much if u try it works. get out more!!!^^got to the movies with your friends, go to the mall,read a book,focus on your school work,take a sport, spent time with your family. each day if u are active u will think less and less about him each day. if u still want to be friends with him then tell him and take it slow, try to hang out with him when u don't have that much feelings for him. all that u need is time, time to relax and met knew ppl.^^good luck

Answer 10

Remember, if you are pissed off then that is a good sign. Don't let him have so much power over you that your heath is at risk. Take back the power he has and show him you are better than him and don't need him to be yourself. in time you will heal and be stronger for it.