Some troubles in general???
OK, I've already mentioned a lot about my ex dropping hints that he wants to get back with me. Sometimes we talk about what would happen if we got back together. Well, I was talking to my parents about his dropping hints and my mo seems fine with it. My dad, on the other hand, starts calling me stupid and tells me that us getting back together in the future is pure bull****! It's hurting me that my dad is thinking this stuff and I am just afraid that if we do get back together (trust me, he has been throwing the hints left and right), he might try anything to harm him. HELP!!!! What do I do if this happens?
2007-06-17 09:10:53 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i spelt mom "mo" sorry, I had to bring that up. my MOM thinks it's ok.
2007-06-17 09:17:18 · update #1
could be your Dad sees something neither you or your Mom do sit down and ask him why he fells this way. he only wants what is best for his baby girl
2007-06-24 23:51:09 · answer #1 · answered by cheri h 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, don't even think about getting back with your ex unless you know exactly why you broke up in the first place and that that problem is now completely fixed. If you don't do this, you'll end up with the same relationship problems again.
Second, your father loves you and wants the very best for you. Trust that maybe he sees something you don't and have a conversation with him about it - you might be surprised by his insight.
2007-06-25 07:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by banana6464 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Regardless of what your dad thinks he should let you learn from your mistakes if he thinks thats what this is going to be...He doesnt know whats going to happen so he should want to be happy for you! As a father he can and should tell you how he feels but in a nicer way a parent shouldn't break down there children and hurt there selm esteem! Thats Wrong!
2007-06-17 09:16:36 · answer #3 · answered by babygrl20052000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
while you're quite serious, you may desire to recover from this, or your relationship won't final. while you're dissatisfied via her style of former fans, or issues that she did with them, this is your subject concerns popping out. i might seem for a e book on jealousy, or on having to have administration in relationships. Her previous is her employer. you have the remarkable to be attentive to if she's had any STD's, yet this is it. If her values and your values are quite very distinctive, it will be (just about) impossible on your relationship to artwork. yet in my honest opinion, while you're having plenty hassle interior the relationship point which you particularly choose counseling, it is not going to artwork whether you study a million books. i'm sorry. this is totally no longer elementary whilst 2 human beings love one yet another yet won't be in a position to make a relationship artwork. this is superb which you manage this now than 10 years and a couple of youngsters later.
2016-10-09 09:56:19 · answer #4 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out here! You dad is calling you stupid for getting back with him because you dad is a guy and knows how guys think. He knows this guy is no good for you so maybe you should ask dad what is it that he doesn't like about your ex? Listen to him.
2007-06-23 08:28:14 · answer #5 · answered by Sondra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on how old you are. If your a minor living under your parents roof, you'd be wise to respect your parents opions. If your and adult living in your own home, ask your parents to respect your wishes. They don't have to like this guy....but they have to respect your freedom of choice. I would advise if you get back together with this guy to take your parent's advise, they are the only ones that will truely have your best intrests at heart. your their daughter, they don't want to see you hurt, agiane.
2007-06-21 16:13:30 · answer #6 · answered by Laura F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋