im pretty stressed at the moment, and just feel like i need so many answers.
the thing is i want to be with my boyfriend, but sometimes i feel like i dont love him, where before i used to be so sure i was (was that just the infactuation zone) but then i get really unhappy at the thourght of not being with him. i care for him and i never want to hurt him, i would do anything for our relationship to be how it used to be.
the thing is what is love? and how do we know were in it?
recently ive had some hardship with friends. do i need to work that back up again? i just need someone to talk to besides my boyfriend sometimes.
sometimes i feel like my boyfriend is going of me to, when i confront him about it hes very supportive and tells me its not the case
im scared of being without him and scared of being with him. whattts up with that.
i need help guys, just some friendly advice....
2007-06-17 07:55:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
also, i think im a bit scared of commitment because im scared that this is like my whole life mapped out for me. although i would never ever cheat on him.
also what are some ides to keep our relationship happy?
2007-06-17 07:59:13 · update #1
You seem very confused and the way to clear it up is to keep communicating open-if you got tooo many issues you need to consider getting yourself together before ionvolvong another in that drama.
"Now That’s Love"
I know what love is like:
Truly loving someone is giving them the freedom to love you or not
Truly loving yourself is choosing to be with someone who uses that freedom to love you
Yea, now that’s love
Copyright© 2006, by Arene
2007-06-17 08:02:37 · answer #1 · answered by Arene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that is called infatuation. I hate to break it to you, but love is more genuine with friends - a great friend will be with you no matter what, you respect each others' space, and you can call them up at two AM crying and they'll drive over with ice cream. If you can get that with a boyfriend, then you've got the best foundation for love.
The chemicals making you feel "love" are dying, so the best way you can bond closer would be to go out and do stuff. Something new, not just movies or whatever. Go and sign up for you to both volunteer, or go biking, or whatever. I promise it'll help. :) And go spend a girl's night out. You always need your friends.
2007-06-17 08:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by Yuki 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SAID
the thing is what is love? and how do we know were in it?
I SAY
You sound very young.... Love is an adult thing.... grow up, honest.... relax more.... be aware that you are still growng up.
Undecision of that calibre means only one thing.... You still dont know what you REALLY want !
2007-06-17 08:03:18 · answer #3 · answered by RED-CHROME 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋