this is clearly not a hard and fast rule.....being that a significant amount of guys still do approach women without even thinking...
but overall.....it seems like guys (including myself) are a big bunch of insecure pus sies anymore....
like what is the big deal???? look at alll the questions on here about guys freakin out over how to approach a girl???? it really shouldn't be that hard should it???
people used to do it all the time...so what has happened??
2007-06-17 00:21:15 · 11 answers · asked by justin 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To my way of thinking men have lost there balls. There afraid of rejection. I have never met a woman that i was afraid to talk to. If she blows me off i move on to the next one. It's really very easy. If men would go back to being men with balls and let women see that each one isn't the only one out there men would have a easyer time getting a date. Women know that a lot of men are puss** now so they make fools out of them because they know he will just turn around and come back. Instead of finding another woman.
2007-06-17 00:34:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men are afraid to approach the decent good looking women these days. They just approach the average looking women, thinking that they wont get rejected. Some men think that the good looking women are out of their league, or they think that there is no way that a women like that isnt spoken for.
Most only have the guts to approach a women when theyre drunk, then they make a fool out of themselves.
There is nothing wrong with approaching a nice woman and saying hello, you never know if she is interested. Men look look out for the signs first. Make eye contact, smile and see if she smiles back, if she does thats a good sign, go up to her and say hello.
2007-06-17 01:30:29 · answer #2 · answered by Glamourous_Girl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's because it's the year 2007. Things have changed. Women have become more independent and it isn't a surprise when a woman proposes to a guy or hits on a guy.
2007-06-17 00:29:53 · answer #3 · answered by Aegisshi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its the fear of the unknown how can you be so nervours if you dont even know what the outcome is going to be.Girls spend their time waiting for guys to approach them its sad to see that there are a lot of guys that are not man enought to that.
2007-06-17 00:42:36 · answer #4 · answered by KG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think the Laws have a lot to do with it. You say one thing wrong, and there is four cops trying to push you into their cruiser, and charging you with some petty offence, such as wolf whistle- ling! lol.
2007-06-17 00:31:52 · answer #5 · answered by wheeliebin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what, I was in a same situation like you.
Anyways, Try the following site
http://how-to-approach-girls.blogspot.co...
I think, it can really help you.
Good luck
2007-06-18 04:22:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had the guts of Adam Sandler when it comes to girls.
2007-06-17 00:25:55 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its a shame really, all us girls are just waiting for you guys to make the first move!!! Tut, tut
2007-06-17 00:27:11 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
reputation, self esteem, everything.
idk i think guys like to care more now.
2007-06-17 00:25:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fear of rejection keep them away.
2007-06-17 00:28:17 · answer #10 · answered by Legandivori 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋