well... im just sorta usin this as a way to vent my feelings... so its free points basically... but...
im extremely happy with my gf and we love eachother i rarely was told that a girl liked me before we started dating but now all kinds of girls are telling me they like me and stuff... the most unnerving case though was when this girl i barely know started sayin she loves me... and i honestly dont know the first thing about her... and now shes trying to break me and my gf up... it just makes me angry that people would be so selfish.... and why do people only like other people when theyre taken?
2007-06-17 22:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by skitz 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just post your comments or w/e plz...
2007-06-17 22:55:09 · update #1
i find that guys paid no attention to me at all until i got with my bf...then heaps of guys would confess they used to like me and stuff...but im happy with my bf and have been with him almost one and a half yrs.
and i just came to the conclusion that my bf makes me happy and he just makes me glow and maybe other ppl want to be happy to or are attracted to the glow...who knows ?
all i care about now is being happy together with my bf =)
2007-06-17 23:10:26 · answer #1 · answered by ` crystal tears . 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like she's jealous of your girlfriend, or just the type of woman who loves to kill relationships just to prove to herself she can. How do you know this girl? I'd suggest getting her out of your life if at all possible. Also, don't try to hide this from your girlfriend, or she'll think you had reason to hide it. Let her know how much this girl is annoying you, & how uncomfortable her presence in your lives makes you. If you work with her, I'd recommend either looking for a new job if this is just some minimum wage gig, or letting her know she's sexually harassing you & you will involve the management if she doesn't cease.
As for why people always want other people when they're taken, it goes back to the old saying "you always want what you can't have". That's why there are older men who want younger women & vice versa, people having affairs, etc. She knows she can't have you, so that makes you a challenge, & for some reason, women seem to love a challenge. Though I don't pursue them, there are women who are married or dating men steadily who I've had crushes on & would gladly date under better circumstances. I think that's happened to everyone at some point in time. Just remember what a good thing you have, & don't jeopardize it for this woman. Luckily, that doesn't sound as though it will be a problem, & your girlfriend is fortunate for that.
2007-06-18 06:03:09 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell this girl to hit the road, and that you are in love with your gf.
When you are dating someone, it makes other girls think that you must be worthy . Just as in looking for jobs, if you have one you are more likely to be hired for another one.
2007-06-18 05:57:18 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone wants what they can't have, it's tempting it's like the forbiden fruit..
Plus it makes things more challenging if those girls are into that kind of stuff.
2007-06-18 07:01:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
because being taken makes you off-limits, and girls want what they aren't allowed to have.
2007-06-18 05:55:44 · answer #5 · answered by internetnooborlyyarly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they are jealous because they always liked you and you are dating someone else
2007-06-18 05:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Kyle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋