My boyfriend has dumped me but i want him back. We still love each other, its complicated but he wont talk to me, i've tried telling him how i feel but he wont reply. I dont want to lose him, i cant live without him. How can i win him round? xx
2007-06-17 22:16:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just so you know, neither of us cheated, i have issues, things that have upset me and when i'm down i take these things out on him, and its not fair on him. i've said hurtful things that i dont mean, but he said he cant take no more. xx
2007-06-17 23:03:38 · update #1
''If you love something let it go free. If it doesn't come back, you never had it. If it comes back, love it forever.''
2007-06-17 22:30:33 · answer #1 · answered by ritrittep 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly I feel for you...My partner and I split for 11 weeks...it was 11 weeks of hell for me and I don't think it was a picnic for him (although I didn't know that at the time).
Occasionally for the first 9 weeks he told me that he didn't want to get back together although he still loved me... I was trying everything I could to get him back, letters, texts, friends passing on messages and his family telling him to get back with me...He dumped me cus he panicked incase somewhere along in time that I might hurt him emotionally as he had been hurt before and couldn't go through that again...
After 9 weeks I was emotionally strained and took a breather while I planned my next move as I felt that I was fighting a loosing battle, I was considering giving up on him to keep my sanity...Two weeks went passed in quiet....then one morning at 1.15am he phoned to ask if I would have him back...We are still together...
What im trying to say is even if he says he still loves you and that is the truth, it doesn't mean he will come back to you until he thinks it is the right time for him...no matter what you or anyone else does or says...or he might choose not to come back...sadly only he can make this decision and as long as you have got your message through how you feel then there is nothing else you can do but wait...
2007-06-17 22:38:38 · answer #2 · answered by Elaine N 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you don't want to hear this but it's the only thing that will work.you are going to leave him alone and don't call him or go where you no he is. i no your in a lot of pain and you feel you can't go on without him.you can and you will if you want him back and the only way that will happen is if he doesn't see you around .if he doesn't see you then he will be wondering what you are doing and who you are doing it with.just because he broke it off with you does not mean he stopped caring for you.the key here is jealous you will need to get him jealous it works every time but if you don't do it right then don't do it at all. you won't die if you stay away from him,if you do this right he will come back to you.
2007-06-18 00:50:11 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You say you still love each other, but how do you know that you are in a two way street? Sad fact is, you can't win back someone you love if they don't love you.
Good luck!
2007-06-17 22:25:11 · answer #4 · answered by hedgeybear 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe this is not something you CAN do. You should ask yourself why he broke off the relationship. If you both have issues that can't be fixed, maybe he can't come back. Basically, what I'm trying to say is that you need to address why the relationship ended. If you can show that you're willing to fix the problem (or already have) you can tell him that you want to be back with him and that things will be different.
With guys, it's something he has to want as well.
2007-06-17 22:23:12 · answer #5 · answered by mmatthews000 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
depends on the reason
1) if it was something you did that hurt him, them its going to be tough, you have to win back trust
2) If its a matter of him, them there's nothing you can do about it, live ur life as Friends , be there but don't wait for him. Someday he might want you back but maybe not.
2007-06-17 22:25:19 · answer #6 · answered by alex 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sadly, you can't. Hold your head up and move on. In a year's time, your life will be different. If you're meant to be with this person, you will. Don't waste your life chasing him though. All that does is make someone run further in the opposite direction.
2007-06-17 22:20:33 · answer #7 · answered by Pixxxie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-04-13 04:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by Sandra 4 · 23⤊ 0⤋
1st: you let him be. Let him cool off
2nd: you Live your life and DO NOT Worry over things that is not in your control.
Why: because of he wants to be with you, he will be with you. IF he Choose not to be with you. Then its time you look the other way.
3rd: You have you own time and space to think things through.
4th: Work on yourself and Love yourself more.
Then: you'll discover how beautiful you are.
5th: Realize that you can not force some one to love you and be with you if they do not want
Lastly: i suggest you go out and make more friends. Be prepared that he might not want to be with you
I wish you the Best
Good Luck Huni
2007-06-17 22:23:11 · answer #9 · answered by Maroon 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but love is a two way street. If he really loved you he would still be with you o atleast tell you where you stand. I know its difficult to lose someone you love but thats life...we cant always have what we want..and at the end when we get what we want, we realise its not what we wanted in the first place...
Keep your chin up girl...good luck
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