Ok i have know this guy for years but never had feelings for him, but than one night we stayed up talking all night and this continued for weeks just talking no kissing. Than the kissing came than we slept togther. Now feelings are involed I asked him what he wanted adn he said he dose not know right now! We ar etlaking tonight any tips? I know he care but not sure how to not sound like i ma forcing him into a relationship. I just do not want to get hurt. thanks for the help.
2007-06-17 22:14:46 · 6 answers · asked by sweetness 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The friends with benefits relationships can cause a lot of heartache if you don't go into it with the right frame of mind. This is never meant to be a relationship. He just wants you to be nice to hium and give him sex. You are not going to be his girlfriend, so before you get hurt and worse, you need to back off a bit.
2007-06-17 22:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U see its difficult! When u are friends with benefits atleast one person starts to feel things that they shouldnt be! But just be honest with him! Tell him that u never meant to feel things but u r now starting to care a lot about him and u want to take things further with him. Then see what he says! If he doesnt want anything with u then maybe u should stop messing around for a while till u get over the feelings. Ive been in the same position and thats what we did
2007-06-18 05:27:37 · answer #2 · answered by Stacey-Lee 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have your standards and Have your self respect.
He doesn't to be serious with you. He is playing you and he knows how to manipulate you.
Do get out of it, because no good will come from this unless you show him how to respect you.
Please, do get out of this unhealthy one before you get too attach to this guy. Its not worth it. Don't waste your time and energy.
Best wishes to you my dear.
2007-06-18 05:30:40 · answer #3 · answered by Maroon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just leap like a leap frog.just like you have been leaping around for years now.leap and leap over to the other side.or putting it another way shake and shake off.
2007-06-18 05:20:52 · answer #4 · answered by bestofyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say I love you and see how he reacts. If he says it back great. If he runs away his loss
2007-06-18 06:15:18 · answer #5 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
fat chance. good luck with that one.
2007-06-18 05:50:17 · answer #6 · answered by keith_19798@yahoo.com 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋