Family & Relationships - 21 June 2007

I have been married 4 yrs and seperated for 2 of those 4 yrs.I married my college sweet heart unaware her had problems with porn.It caused issues in our sex life because he was watching everyday , he was having trouble lasting more than 5- 10 min's while in bed with me and this was very unpleasurable for me.Also this was very different from the sex life we enjoyed prior to marriage.I asked him to tone it down a bit that made things worse causing fights.I got pregnant and while checking up on my parents house experienced pain tried calling home 7 times no answer had to call 911.I lost the baby and it took hospital an hour to get him on phone.He lied said he was sleeping but was in fact watching porn as i found out when i checked commputer history.Hubby wants to try again after 2 yrs but i think i want a divorce.I was fine these last 2 yrs till he called to say he wanted to try again.Now i wonder what i did wrong?I was always open to him sexually and trying new things.So why?

2007-06-21 14:42:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

This kid that is like my best friend is coming to plyos but he isnt that good and kind of unalthetic. I am sort of afraid hes not gonna be able to play... but idk how to get him good

2007-06-21 14:39:41 · 1 answers · asked by Kahley 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 14:36:57 · 9 answers · asked by smiley 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok now I'm a young woman. I wanna know if I have to pay for a date? Shouldn't a man pay, I mean he IS the man right? So he should pay. But I just don't feel comfortable with him paying for everything. So do you guys think that I should split the bill? I say that if he isn't gonna pay he's not even worth my time! Right???

2007-06-21 14:35:49 · 33 answers · asked by ? 3 in Singles & Dating

inconspicious. I am otherwise great!

2007-06-21 14:34:00 · 11 answers · asked by smiley 3 in Singles & Dating

My husband is currently deployed in the Army. I found one thing that keeps my mind off our situation is to chat with other people online. Would you consider it unfaithful to chat with random guys? My husband says he doesn't mind as long as I'm careful.

2007-06-21 14:32:24 · 31 answers · asked by jenni4math 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hispanic men like to stare at blondes and other women, too. And, nonhispanic men tend to stare, too.

2007-06-21 14:32:11 · 10 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 14:31:47 · 8 answers · asked by zippy 1 in Singles & Dating

After a long day of work and her having a long day of taking care of the kids. She is not in the mood to often. Saying she is tired, wants to sleep etc...Can anyone give me some pointers here?

She does not like sex in the morning, or in the middle of the night either. I have been taking care of myslef so to speak, but that is not sexual cotnact with a person, although self love can be very good...

HELP!
I am starving for sex !

2007-06-21 14:27:19 · 27 answers · asked by Bugsy_Siegel 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think that couples should set aside time away from the kids? I think it's healthy, but I get a lot of resistance from my mate. It only infuriates me and I end up feeling like our relationship is not that important anymore. Sometimes I end up feeling some resentment because I am ridiculed for wanting it. I am going out of my mind... please help!

2007-06-21 14:26:32 · 2 answers · asked by ♫Problem Child♫ 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am a virgin & I have phone sex with my gf almost everyday.
When we have sex for real will it be harder to function?

2007-06-21 14:26:29 · 6 answers · asked by PixieStix 2 in Singles & Dating

my parents ALWAYS yell, find things wrong with me and DESTROY my confidence and ANYTIME i try to have a nice reasonable talk they say quit overreacting or should we put you in counseling? and i literally HAVE to be perfect...anytime i get something for about 4 months they'll say didn't i JUST get you that how could you even ask for something else...my younger sister is treated like an angel...it makes me cry and feel bad i'm only going to be a sophmore..WHAT DO I DO??? PLEASE HELP!!

thank you!

GO YANKEES
27 in 07!

2007-06-21 14:25:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

My g/f of 4 months has two kids and is going through the final stages of a divorce. She is working two jobs to make ends meet. This means that every free weekend we have without the kids, she is working and it is ruining our relationship. She gets up at 4:30 am on Saturday and it ruins our Fri and Sat nights. I pretty much live with them. Since I make very good money, I want to help her out so she doesn't have to work 2 jobs but she will not accept it. While I admire this in a way that she is not a golddigger, it is destroying our relationship and she is too stubborn to take any money. She says she has bills to pay and kids to take care of. If we are going to be together for the long term then I want us to do things together, including money, but she won't do it. I think she is never going to rely on another man because of her first husband. I think out of pride she'd rather lose me than accept my help. Any ideas? How long do I do this for? I don't want to wait indefinitely.

2007-06-21 14:24:20 · 10 answers · asked by trayl65 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 4 years doesn't want to sleep with me. We didn't have the greatest sex life while dating, he claimed to be "uncomfortable" because we were not married. Silly me thought once we were married he would feel more comfortable. The first few years he acted like I was the nympho who just wanted it too much.....He was happy with once a month, I was only asking for his attention once a week. After a year of counceling he agreed maybe something wasn't right and now he just says he doens't know whats wrong with him. I can't live the rest of my life feeling undesired. Do I stay married?

2007-06-21 14:21:39 · 24 answers · asked by Julie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I will be asking my girlfriend to marry me soon, even do I already have an Idea on how to, I would like to get some more Ideas on how I should do the hole proposal, I wanna get out of the ordinary, no dinner and the ring on the wine glass or anything usual like that! Open to suggestions!

2007-06-21 14:21:09 · 49 answers · asked by Isrl 1 in Weddings

I have just started a long distance relationship with someone. It's not ideal but we like eachother a lot. We want to see eachother as much as possible and maybe move closer to make this work. I get fears, though, of other girls he will meet in the meantime. As great a girl as I think I am, I know I can't compete with anyone local to him. It's scares me. What can I do to calm down about it? How can I just relax and let things happen as they will? I just get full of anxiety... thanks!

oh... i had a previous relationships where i was cheated on. this guy doesn't seem like that...

2007-06-21 14:17:58 · 12 answers · asked by Sophie 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband was divorced when I met him. His x is a total witch. She kicked him out, they have 2 daughters, and now we have one together. She is ALWAYS trying to stir the pot and cause trouble, and just behaves nasty at all times. I take excellent loving care of their girls when they are here, and my husband is an examplary husband. But that doesn't stop her from constantly leaving him nasty stupid messages wich are totally off base and usually 100% untrue. Always accusing him of not being a good dad..... blah blah blah. How do we deal with this jealous petty vindictive witch? I just don't want her crap to affect me, I want to be a 'duck' and let it roll off my back. But easier said than done.

2007-06-21 14:17:54 · 29 answers · asked by luvinstayinhome 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm a single mother of 2 who has been forced to live with my mother in law for over 5 years. My marriage of 7 years will be finalized soon. My M-i-law has decided to pay for the ex's lawyers because they dont' want me to move out of town with the kids. No custody agreement has been delt with as of yet. I have no money for lawyers, and legal aid will not help me. I fear that through her monetary influence I will lose my kids. Any advice? I know she has no claim on the kids, but the ex is her puppet and will give them up to her if he wins custody.

2007-06-21 14:14:55 · 8 answers · asked by adgmonkey 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-21 14:12:04 · 11 answers · asked by anonymiss 2 in Singles & Dating

Would you lie or tell the whole truth?
Why or why not?
Thanks
And I will choose a best answer.

2007-06-21 14:10:26 · 21 answers · asked by Tammy848 2 in Singles & Dating

Do you say "is it worth while" or "is it worth wild?"

2007-06-21 14:08:31 · 44 answers · asked by karenjahn44 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-21 14:07:05 · 11 answers · asked by nellie 216 2 in Family

why is it that a womn who i show so much love to treats me like ****? i really need to know...

2007-06-21 14:04:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-21 13:59:09 · 8 answers · asked by RoseMary 2 in Singles & Dating

I love my husband very much but I am never in the mood for sex, do you have any ideas on what I can do to remedy this problem? Also, this is WAY out of character for me!

2007-06-21 13:55:30 · 12 answers · asked by Sexy Mama 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-21 13:53:57 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Has society and media taken the true meaning out of marriage? Yes. Marriage is honorable in Gods eyes but so many people decide not to wait and engage in pre-marital affairs. What is wrong with practicing abstainence or remaining pure until marriage?

2007-06-21 13:53:26 · 11 answers · asked by Flyingprincez 2 in Marriage & Divorce

What's the most extreme age difference between couples you've ever heard of?

2007-06-21 13:45:08 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There is this guy that i've liked for about 10 months and he says that he likes me too and has liked me for about the same amount of time. Me and him hang out and have fun but he still hasnt asked me out. I realli like him a lot but im just wondering should I keep on hoping that something will happen or should I just give up?

2007-06-21 13:41:43 · 4 answers · asked by crzygirl536 2 in Singles & Dating

How true is this and they just know how u feel without telling them? or do u have to tell them?

2007-06-21 13:39:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating