Family & Relationships - 21 June 2007

My best friend and I have the same problem. Both of our husbands want sex all the time. If they get it once a day they want it twice. If they get it three times an a day a forth time would be great. We've both been maried for years. Sex has always been frequent but nothing like this. We both has surgeries so that we could not have any more children. Could that be the difference and is this normal?

2007-06-21 02:02:01 · 22 answers · asked by reggieg 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Who looks better beyonce or rihanna

2007-06-21 02:00:25 · 13 answers · asked by jackie B 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you despised your husbands touch after something he did but feel so bad for him right now cause he is injured and can't take care of himself so you take care of him in all ways and would like your marriage to work but you know, like really know you despise him and he refuses to go to counceling with you. To top it off you have come to realize you have strong feelings for someone else someone who would treat you right, would you still try to stay in your marriage like i'm trying too. I just would rather have my marriage work but he is just making me so depressed.

2007-06-21 01:59:00 · 22 answers · asked by bluenile 2 in Marriage & Divorce

The ladies in the wedding decided that we're all going to go to a strip club together. it's a large group comprised mostly of married or dating couples. I don't want to go, as I have no interest and the entire concept makes me uncomfortable, but my wife REALLY wants to go. (but won't go without me.)
I don't even know what the "proper protocol" for a strip club is, let alone what the rules would be when going WITH your wife.

also, for reference: I don't know if the club is "topless" or "totally nude" but I do know that all the performers are women. apparently nobody thinks that men waving their junk around is sexy. (thank god)

2007-06-21 01:55:07 · 26 answers · asked by just the 2 of us 1 in Weddings

hey!

I was just wondering what you guys think of girls who are intelligent? would you rather date a girl who is a bit dim, or someone who is intelligent and you can have a good conversation with?
or do you just go for looks?

2007-06-21 01:53:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you were on your deathbed, and married, but you had been having an affair with someone else for some time, would you tell your husband/wife before you died? Or take the chance of them finding out after you've passed?

2007-06-21 01:52:26 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

A friend of mine was married for 8 years and has 2 children. He has now been divorced from his wife for about 2 years. She has custody, but he sees the kids one night a week and has them every other weekend. He lives in a one room apartment, it's not like he's living large. He was ordered to pay 250$/month child support, he wanted that amount just attached to his wages. However, the 250 was more than the 55% limit that they can take directly from his wages. Well, now his ex-wife is taking him to court for the difference between the 55% and the 250$. He doesn't have this money. He barely has enough money to feed himself, but his lawyer is telling him that there's nothing he can do and he will be going to jail. Anyone have any advice?

2007-06-21 01:51:02 · 16 answers · asked by NikkiLyco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got an invitation to a bridal shower that included a little poem that sweetly requested money rather than gifts. When I was a bride (38 years ago) that would have been unthinkable, but maybe etiquette has changed. HELP.

2007-06-21 01:50:37 · 26 answers · asked by amiejay 1 in Weddings

how can i find out if my wife is cheating on me

2007-06-21 01:45:29 · 45 answers · asked by robert251694 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Blondes,brunetts,redheads
thongs,french knickers,G-string
blue, green or brown eyes
and add anything on you fancy

2007-06-21 01:44:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I think this is the biggest scam EVER that boys have come up with to get what they want from girls. It is so one-sided, designed to get just what they want without giving ANYTHING. Who agrees with me?

2007-06-21 01:42:28 · 14 answers · asked by MJ 5 in Singles & Dating

* Otherwise it will be cut short.
* If no response from the female, as she gets her self distracted by other things & thoughts, that can cause the whole sex session to be abandoned by her male.
* SO WAKE UP LADIES, I am blowing my whistle!!!!

2007-06-21 01:41:00 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband and i are separating. We do love each other but i don't think that enough. He puts his mother and father, ex-wife and 3 kids, his brothers and his mates in front of me and our 2 year old daughter all the time. I take care of everything he needs (money, kids, and everything). i never get any help from his emotionally or finacially. he thinks giving me another baby is giving me what i want. i don't know if this is worth fighting for, as he doesn't seem to want to fight for our marriage either. I recently started working to make things better, now they just have gotten worse. i don't know what to do. M

2007-06-21 01:40:18 · 6 answers · asked by Melissa O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

We, my husband and I, do not. We can give opinions to eachother, but ultimately if either of us wanted to dye our skin purple and go naked, we have that no matter what the opinion of the other is. You've got to let your partner be his or herself in the marriage! Agree or disagree?

2007-06-21 01:38:32 · 24 answers · asked by qwertatious 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If so why?

2007-06-21 01:37:44 · 58 answers · asked by Dreamer 4 in Singles & Dating

i met this girl online and we have talked for 3 months now on the phone and the internet and for some reason she never can find time to see me wat do u think i should do i really like her

2007-06-21 01:33:15 · 10 answers · asked by shottafire 1 in Singles & Dating

My guy has this friend (Female). I do trust her and I do trust him but how do I solve a situation like this.

Last night my guy and I were spending our time together and his friend called. She called a few times cause this guy was at her house I guess her brother left him there.. Anyway, after a few hours of calls going back and fourth she called again and he ended up going to see her at about 2:30am telling me he would be back in 15-20 mins. At 3:45am he comes home and obviously I am not happy... He gets mad at me for getting mad at him and we get into a fight. Do you think I had a right to get mad? No he didn't call and he didn't come back home to tell me he was going to be there for a little bit. She only lives 5 mins away.

2007-06-21 01:31:39 · 16 answers · asked by movu101779 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I think they are.

2007-06-21 01:29:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi! I want to do something special to turn my hisband on. I want to make him real hot if you know what i mean!?! What can I do to innitiate and turn him on? Tie him up, dress sexy?!?! Come on - be creative!

2007-06-21 01:16:56 · 25 answers · asked by girlygirl 4 in Marriage & Divorce

What do you think of this name?

2007-06-21 01:05:44 · 11 answers · asked by iloveanairforcesoldier 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm really sorry to ask this please don't ignore my ridiculous question.yahoo answer is a site to ask what one doesn't know.is it right that female sexual organ has two seeable holes?one for sex and the other for urinate.

2007-06-21 01:02:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if an ugly friend of you asked you if he/she is ugly, what you gonna tell him/her?:
the truth and make him/her miserable?
lies and make him/her happy

2007-06-21 01:01:34 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's this woman I know and see constantly and she has a chest that is incredible. She is so well endowed that the buttons on her shirt look like they're constantly about to break. I'm not trying to be a perv but it's hard not to admire.

2007-06-21 00:59:46 · 18 answers · asked by gh0st 3 in Singles & Dating

Example- My other half and I work seperate shifts, to save money on childcare costs. I never get to see him because when I get off, he's at work and when he comes home, I'm usually asleep. I happened to be up last night when he got home because he came home early. I said..... "oh hi, you're here. We can watch some tv together before I go to sleep". He says... "I like to play my game (referring to a video game) as early as possible. I would rather play my game." My feelings were hurt pretty good because he comes home after work and plays almost every night and he also plays during the day when my child is napping. Bottom line, he gets his time to play. Much more than the amount of time we actually get together during the week. I'm pretty sure I'll have a bad day cause I woke up sad. I'm a good girl and deserve at least 20 minutes of attention once in a while. Not sure what it'll take to make him realize but that sort of thing is heartbreaking.

2007-06-21 00:58:22 · 16 answers · asked by quintons_mommy2004 3 in Marriage & Divorce

sugar-coated words:

u know wut i mean guys..

2007-06-21 00:54:23 · 19 answers · asked by moniqluvshawn 3 in Singles & Dating

to his ex and there is a possibility that I am pregnant (1 week late). Can he go to the courts and stop paying his ex, or does he have to wait until the baby is born? I know a child is one thing that will stop one from having to pay alimony, along with marriage, ect... (and no this pregnancy was not planned as a way for him to stop paying.) but I am not sure if he can go to the courts with the baby still in the womb, or if he has to wait for the birth as proof.

2007-06-21 00:48:46 · 10 answers · asked by bar_merch 2 in Marriage & Divorce

A lady calls the police to report her husband is missing. The police arrive and ask for a description. She tells them he's 6 foot 2 inches tall, blonde wavy hair and has a smile that makes everybody love him. The police then go to the next door neighbour to verify this report and the lady next door tells the police, "You can't believe her. He's 5 foot 4 inches tall, has no hair and he wears a perpetual frown on his face." The neighbour then goes and asks the lady why she gave the police such a false report. She replies, "Just because I reported him missing, doesn't mean I wanted him back!"

2007-06-21 00:44:08 · 28 answers · asked by Soul Reason 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 00:42:04 · 7 answers · asked by mozart_475 1 in Singles & Dating

I split up from my ex about a month ago. I'm missing him terribly even though he was a good-fer-nuthin, and I just feel really empty. I always try to be everything I can for my partners, but I've never been good enough and it's always ended in disaster. Now I'm just feeling really rubbish. It seems like life has a point if there's someone to share it with. I have really low-self esteem, and my friends are telling me that I should spend time alone and get to love myself first. But the one thing that makes me happy is making other people happy and gaining their love.

So why does it keep going wrong? I give everything I have, build a person up, support them, excite them, entertain them, love them, spoil them... And it makes me feel so good to get their love in return.

But now I am alone and I just have myself to give love to. Which I don't find easy cos I don't really like myself. I just want someone to love me :-(

2007-06-21 00:32:09 · 23 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3 in Singles & Dating

i mean he has refused to takecare of you,and have no mum,relatives are no where to help you in life. how do you survive.

2007-06-21 00:19:21 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family