i met this girl online and we have talked for 3 months now on the phone and the internet and for some reason she never can find time to see me wat do u think i should do i really like her
2007-06-21 01:33:15 · 10 answers · asked by shottafire 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, did u see her pic? i think she is really shy.. And thinks that when you'll c her you wont like her, cause she thinks that she's not pretty or something... its a usual thing for a girl.. Good luck =]
2007-06-21 01:36:54 · answer #1 · answered by Nina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself this: Does she like you as much as you like her? There could be a number of reasons why she doesn't want you to come visit her. Perhaps she simply doesn't like you that much. Perhaps she's ashamed of her looks...may have embellished her description a bit. Maybe she's embarrassed about any people she's living with. Maybe she's just uncomfortable with the whole online dating scenario in general. You've got to find out why she doesn't want you to come out. The only way to do this is ask her. Don't ask through e-mail or IM. She could be lying through her teeth, and you wouldn't be able to detect it. Instead, give her a call and ask her. Whatever she says, you can analyze the tone and wavelength of her voice to determine whether or not it's the truth. How does she sound? Is she hesitating? Is she meek about it, or straightforward? Stuttering? A lot of "ums" in between her words? These are just a few things to listen for when you hear her talk, to help you figure it out.
2007-06-21 08:42:06 · answer #2 · answered by Niko? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave her alone and move on. In fact... how about leaving the internet, and go out to find a girl in real life, close by??? That's what people did for thousands of years before the web, you know. Otherwise you can't force somene to like you, dude. It just doesn't work that way.
Forget her, and move on. Clean and simple.
~ Jon
2007-06-21 09:06:42 · answer #3 · answered by Jonathan Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you mean see u w/ a webcam or u in person? Either way you can't really blame her its just not afe to show yourself to some dude you met on the net (hey that rhymes!). 3mos. may seem like a long time but it really isnt. Ask her flat out why she wont let u c her and respect her reasons.
GoOd LuCk
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XOXO
2007-06-21 08:38:05 · answer #4 · answered by Sweetest Chocolate 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's not being honest to you, Forget her because if she was sincere she would want to meet you. maybe she exaggerated about the way she looks or something. It's been 3 months and she doesn't want to meet you? She's hiding something! You're probably a real nice person and you don't have to be waiting on her.
2007-06-21 08:38:43 · answer #5 · answered by anae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to stop contacting her and see her reaction. If she does not contact u, then ....move on, buddy.There's 100's of females out there. I just can't get enough of them.
2007-06-21 08:38:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you know what she looks like? and are ou certain shes who she says she is? if so she may just be shy....or shes just not interested in getting intimate
2007-06-21 08:41:06 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe shes fat or somthing? or maybe shes really a man. LOL
2007-06-21 08:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Jill knows best 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Forget about her there are too many negatives ~~
2007-06-21 08:35:39 · answer #9 · answered by burning brightly 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
back off and leave her alone, if she wants to renew the friendship she will
2007-06-21 08:35:39 · answer #10 · answered by ticonderoga1186 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋