Family & Relationships - 21 June 2007

Would it bother you if your boyfriend was going on sites and messaging other woman? (and i've noticed a trend of big booties and boobs lol) My boyfriend and I have been in a serious committed relationship for over a year. I recently discovered that he has been going on random sites and talking to girls. They are all from the USA (he's in canada) and his profiles all say he's in a relationship... but sometimes he gets kinda flirty. This bothers me even though I know he would never cheat on me or anything. I just want to know if it's normal to get jealous over something like this and if you would say something to your boyfriend about it?

2007-06-21 06:59:26 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My Husband's friend since childhood makes me feel.. Horrible.

At a glance, he is nice. But every single time I see him, he talks about how he hates everything I am.. " I could never be with a really feminine girl, I'd feel like I would break her... I don't like blounde people.. I hate big boobs... I don't like people from the south.. I could never be with someone who made dinner every night..." Stupid reasons! But, I let it go- he is my hubby's friend , not mine.. Last weekend, We where at a baptism and when my hubby's friend have me a hug goodbye... HE GRABBED MY BUTT!
not a wondering hand, he grabbed my whole butt! I was in shock and I didn't know what to do! after we got home, I told my hubby. He said he would talk to him, but- I still feel so uncomfortable. We have a graduation and a wedding to go to this weekend- He's going to be there. I've never been in a situation like this.
I know it's going to be tense after my hubby talks to this guy.

2007-06-21 06:54:43 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I have been with my fiance for 4 years. My in-laws all live 13 hours away ,except my fiances sister who lives in my town about 13 blocks away. I have only talked on the phone with Future MIL when she has sent my daughter gifts and I have called her to thank her for them. I have met her 4 times, during visits. She was there when her son popped the question.My mom in law is a hateful person who hates my fiances dad with a passion. Well she called my one sis-in-law and told her she needed to call me and talk some sense into me, b/c I forgot to invite her husbands "folks". They were never on any list I was given, so I just said "great I will send them one." THen she got upset because we havent asked her to pay for anything. (how are we supposed to know, if she doesnt offer), and she isnt involved in ANY decision making in this wedding. She is somewhat childish, and miserable. Its really gotten me down. How do I deal with her, without being a horrible daughter in law?

2007-06-21 06:49:30 · 19 answers · asked by Mrs. 26 3 in Weddings

On father's day my step daughter came over and I noticed something different. They both were playing in the pool and I was making lunch, when I kept hearing my husband telling her No! I went to see what was going on and I noticed her trying to kiss her father on the mouth. She kept saying kiss me like you kiss (my name)? He got out of the pool and came inside. We talked about this strange behavior and we were wondering is this normal? Is it for attention? She has a new step- father is something going on in her home we don't know??? Or is it just a young girl loving her daddy?

2007-06-21 06:48:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Well this guy asked me to be his girlfriend and I told him I didn't want a boyfriend right now. My friend told me she saw him looking depressed by his locker with his head resting on his arm from the time she left for lunch and back. I also saw him sulking in the hallway. She asked him what was wrong and he said he was upset about me rejecting him. The weird thing is I NEVER met this guy before. I remember seeing him a few times in the cafeteria, but Iv'e never spoken to him. I don't get it. If he barely knows me then why is he getting so upset?

2007-06-21 06:48:05 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have a gf i love her alot but its long distance and i realy realy like tis other girl and i know she duz too i wanna b wit her but i dnt wanna leave ta other girl im goin out with because i f i leave my gf for her id want my gf back and i love her but idk its been like foreva since weve seen eachother and the girl tat bi like is in my town and i could see her everyday wat should i do

2007-06-21 06:43:19 · 1 answers · asked by *MARCUS* 1 in Singles & Dating

I love my boyfriend more than anything else and I'm ready to have sex, but my mind keeps going to people who say they regret sex in high school, why? I don't get it

2007-06-21 06:39:40 · 35 answers · asked by Lindsey 2 in Singles & Dating

my wedding is in 4 months i need a dj and photography and more money. i was just thinking about playing music on our own because the place where we are having a wedding reception has a computer system that can play music on speakers built in the ceiling and as for the photography get one for the ceremony and then have the guest take the pictures at the reception.

2007-06-21 06:39:11 · 28 answers · asked by rhiannon r 2 in Weddings

This is in the state of Florida

2007-06-21 06:32:18 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when attending a wedding AND the bridal shower, do you just bring one gift, or would each occasion require a gift?

2007-06-21 06:30:43 · 13 answers · asked by cristol e 3 in Weddings

If I invite my co-workers to my wedding (which I've only known for 3 months because I am new to the company, but I really like these girls), do I have to invite their significant others as well? they are either have a husband or a serious bf. Or is it okay to omit their other half since there will be a few of them to keep other company.

Thanks!

P.S. I have never met their other half before.

2007-06-21 06:28:49 · 11 answers · asked by Vesper 1 in Weddings

I like this guy a lot and he shows all the classic signs of liking me. We text often and talk on the phone too. But we're not dating.

2007-06-21 06:27:47 · 6 answers · asked by FavoredbyU 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok well I know this guy and have for awhile..But I am not 100% sure if he likes me...We talk and hang out and he stares at me and smiles alot...but I don't know...Ok like take the song by billy gilman I think she likes me just replace all the shes with hes and scratch out the hole kiss thing...I just need help!!! Tell me what I should do..Should I ask him..or should I wait..or get a friend to do it.

2007-06-21 06:24:10 · 7 answers · asked by ashley J 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 06:23:50 · 7 answers · asked by Ari's Mom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok so I started messing around with this girl about two months ago. Everything was good at first we talked and saw eachother everyday. Finally we had sex after that our "relationship" went down hill she started to become very mean to me. I would brush it off and not respond but one day she just really pissed me off and I told her I didnt want to be around her she responded how many days I said I will call you when I'm ready so the next day she didnt call me and wake me up like she would normally do so I called her she said hi how are you I responded fine and I saw her that same day. Everything seemed to be fine until the next day she didnt answer or call me yesterday was my birthday and she didnt even call to say happy birthday. i called her and she texted me Stop I responded what do u mean whats wrong with you and she said just let it go Im not in the mood for your sh!t dont keep calling me I responded I dont understand but ok. what should I do? I really care for her

2007-06-21 06:23:37 · 19 answers · asked by EAZY 3 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend is the best guy I know. I've never been more in love and more willing to want to start a future (marriage) with someone.

His one downfall is that he use to have a gambling problem. He had bad finanacial problems b/c of it; but is in the process of getting his life back together.

I love him, but he's never seeked professional help. I'm a little concerned this "problem" will start again. I DO believe people can beat their addicitions, I DON'T believe they can do them WITHOUT professional help.,

What should I do? I'm scared both ways. I'm scared that if I dump him, I'll be making the biggest mistake of my life. I'm also scared that if I stay, we will just ended up divorced if we get married?

What should I do? I've been with him for 3 years. We have so much love and so much history?

We are in our mid-20's.

2007-06-21 06:22:27 · 18 answers · asked by Answer Girl 2007 5 in Marriage & Divorce

In a nutshell.
I had 3 credit cards that she did not know about. I opened in both our names. I opened a myspace acct just to see what the hype was all about. Logged in once never again. She found out about it. I was playing an online video game 4+ hours a night and on the weekends. So these are the things that she says caused a trust issue with her.
Said she started talking to her "friend" talking about his marital problems and her marital problems. She says she felt neglected and disconnected for the last 4 years. All her girlfriends are saying that they don't blame her for talking to another guy. I feel like I can't trust her anymore. Now the coworker does work in another division and they are not in the same office, but they do travel together to meetings out of town with other coworkers. Is it fair for me to ask her to cut ties? I am obsessed with checking her text messages and cell phone bill help!

2007-06-21 06:21:43 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I was at the local mall with my wife, who frankly is a little too tall. Anyway, she has brought Jesus Christ into our household, and for that I am always grateful. She is a great tickler.

Sorry, I digress.

We were at the mall and walked past a sporting goods store. I saw a brand new golf club that would just have been a fantastic addition to my club set.

However, the only credit card either of us had on that trip was with my wife. I asked her to let me have the card, and she refused!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Then she said something about clothes for the kids, blah blah blah. The kids get all of the attention! What about me?

Basically, the weekend was ruined. Every time she started talking to me about anything after that golf club purchase refusal incident, I started to choke up. She did ask once what was wrong, and I told her that if she didn't know, then she didn't deserve to know.

Should I wait for her to apologize, or should I take the first step and ask for an apology?

2007-06-21 06:16:52 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-21 06:15:38 · 26 answers · asked by R0ty 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 06:15:27 · 10 answers · asked by Airreal K 2 in Friends

I've been a friend to the bride for 18yrs. 2 wks. before the wedding I was told by my partner that his daughter didn't want me there and her excuse was honoring her biological mother in this way. The Bride & Groom paid for everything themselves so nobody could have a say in what happeded. Now the wedding is over and my partner has told me that his daughter still wants me in her life but she has yet to talk to me herself. I'm very upset that after 18yrs of being called the other mom, that someone could do this to me. I don't know how to get over this so that we can all be one big happy family again. Or should I just chalk it up as a loss and get on with my life.

2007-06-21 06:12:23 · 12 answers · asked by labattgirl32 1 in Weddings

I am having a dilemma. My fiance and I introduced my best friend (Ali) to his best friend (Mike) 3 years ago. In that time, Mike has tried to leave Ali 6 times, and each time, they say, "We are going to start over, and see how it works. If it does, it does, and if it doesn't, oh well." Recently, Mike told Ali that he doesn't know if he loves her the way he should, and sees her more as a friend. And, with this, they still are holding their location for their wedding, in May. Again, they are going to "start over".

To me, "starting over", means putting the engagement ring in the box and really start over. We told both of them individually we are stepping down from thier wedding, because we don't believe two people should be getting married who don't love each other, and certainly don't take respect and commitment seriously.

I feel awful, but I can't help people who don't want to help themselves. We really want to be there for them, but don't know how. Any suggestions?

2007-06-21 06:09:39 · 18 answers · asked by gapchic400 1 in Weddings

Honestly, it's quite pathetic.
I am 16 and I have an 18 year old boyfriend, we are in a long distance relationship. Neither of us have ever been unfaithful in any way.
My mother, and sister, are persistent cheaters. And I asked them, and their excuses are very unrealistic, and silly. I would just like some other points of view, and maybe some insight on how to avoid it.
Thankyou. :]

2007-06-21 06:04:16 · 24 answers · asked by Osie Coca Cola 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Is this wierd? i kinda feel bad for her. she is very good looking, very sweet and innocent. she has just waited to date the right guy. Do u think that maybe she has social issues or is she a gem?

2007-06-21 06:03:39 · 37 answers · asked by Steven Colbert 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had an excellent Fathers Day with my daughter. We had a nice buffet brunch together and then we saw the new Fantastic 4 movie which we both liked.

2007-06-21 05:52:15 · 8 answers · asked by paul s 4 in Family

We are going to scatter his ashes next week and I just feel that it is the last thing to do and I feel there is no point in keeping wearing my wedding ring. I am trying to accept that I am not married any more and he isn't coming back. I am 49 and I don't want another man, I still love my husband very much and miss him dreadfully, but I have to stop being a martyr to all of this.

2007-06-21 05:50:00 · 49 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

It was my daughters 2nd Birthday last Saturday & we were suppose to have a BBQ at the house but because the weather was so crap we had to make other arrangements, apart from family there was only our friends Scott and Ciaras' daughter coming, I phoned Ciara the day before & told her where the party was going to be & to be there at 1pm that was ok

On Saturday morning the car was playing up so my partner had to take it to a mechanic & he phoned Scott at 9.30am to tell him the party would be at 2pm instead of 1pm but he didn't answer so he text him the details. At 1.30 I got a message from Ciara asking where we were & I told her that Jonathan had txt Scott to tell him the new time, she went mental & txt me back that they were away to McDonalds as her child was starving, I havn't heard from them since

Scott is our Best Man in October & they seem to have taken the hump with us, we did nothing wrong so i dont see why we should do the running

What do you think we should do

2007-06-21 05:47:44 · 18 answers · asked by ✿Regina Felangie✿ 5 in Friends

was married in maine, now live in virginia. {residents} would it be quicker to file in virginia or go back to maine and get it even though i'd have to be a resident there. i want out, so does she. no one wants to contest

2007-06-21 05:43:15 · 6 answers · asked by bullhillroad 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I've known this girl for 11-12 years and I’ve only found out when I was 10 that I had feelings for her, not just any feelings, feelings that make me feel so different inside when I think about her. Me at first I thought these feelings would go away, I was definitely wrong about that. As the years past the feelings I had for her begun to become stronger and stronger, now I can’t stop thinking about her and it hearts inside. I recently told one of my friends who is a close friend to her to ask her if she would even think about going out with me and she said that she can only like me as a friend. Me I don’t know if I can accept that because the feelings I have for her are making me crazy and to know that I can’t tell her how I feel also hearts inside me, and I don’t know what to do anymore I’ve tried to forget about her but I can’t help but think about her it makes me feel happy and sad at the same time.

2007-06-21 05:43:06 · 10 answers · asked by The EsO 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Why would it matter if I slept with a lot of guys if I know I'm clean ?

2007-06-21 05:40:06 · 50 answers · asked by shnitle 2 in Singles & Dating