Family & Relationships - 21 June 2007

Why does it seem like teenage girls are spanked alot more than teenage boys? It's like they stop getting spanked once they become teenagers, but us girls still get spankings
for years after. My mom says it's because teen girls need it more and that spanking works better on teenage girls than teenage boys. I'm not really complaing, I just want to know what everyone else thinks why this is.

2007-06-21 09:32:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Sat alone with my delicate tears rolling down my cheeks
My arms wrapped tighly around my quivering legs
Reminising the moments when I saw your hatred
As your fist grew closer to my innocent face
I shivered and begged you to stay

''Dont go, I love you''

As long as you know that
You can hurt me again
With your hatred growing
As I block your exit

''Don't leave me like this, please, lets talk''

I raise my shaking hands above my face
Protecting myself from a painful beating
He became my addiction
I let him, i begged him, i made him..
STAY
Over and over
Just so i wasnt alone
Each time i stopped him leaving
He would raise his fist
He would grit his teeth
He would push me to a wal;
Door, or floor
Using his force to make me weak.
Some memories were nice.
But they grew to an incredible anger.
And left myself becoming an
empty shell, left alone with nothing.

Memories scar
I miss him.
But he beat me
He hated me
Never loved me
He lied.

2007-06-21 09:30:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

We are planning a wedding in September. We have a special romantic place "down by the creek". Actually it is in the creek but there is a large dry flat rock place in the middle. No water around it and very easy to get to. It will be a late afternoon wedding. Both of us barefoot, his pants rolled up and my dress hem up from water.
It will be very small with only 10-15 people there. We are planning a large reception\party when we return from honeymoon 3 days after. But I still want it decorated at creek. Nothing hugh but romantic and great for pix.
The only idea I really have is white ballons w\helium on strings at different leanth from ground up, to make it appear they are floating all around us.

2007-06-21 09:30:01 · 10 answers · asked by gignfrogs 1 in Weddings

I have a friend named Frank who is married to a woman he doesn't love anymore, and she doesn't love him anymore either. They've been together for 10 yrs, and have a 7 y/o daughter. He stays with her because of his daughter, and he knows if he divorces her, she'll move far away and he won't see her anymore. So he stays for his daughter. Their relationship seems irretrievably broken, since she has cheated on him. He can't stand the thought of not seeing his daughter every day, and he can't stand the thought of continueing to live with a woman in a loveless marriage. What to do?

2007-06-21 09:22:41 · 24 answers · asked by cnjard 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-21 09:22:06 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

in some cases, flattened breast due to breast feeding and stretch marks due to child bearing.

2007-06-21 09:19:20 · 21 answers · asked by ogechi c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My sister doesn't really respect boundaries. She comes over late at night without calling. Then I feel I have to ask her to stay. She and her kids treat my house at times like it theirs and I feel unable to say anything. I am afraid of hurting people's feelings. She calls over and over when I don't answer the phone and calls late at night. Her kids are also not respectful a lot of time and are pushy. I have an extremely hard time setting boundaries. I love my family and want them in my life, but I don't want people just coming over whenever they want to and asking for stuff. It makes me really nervous and unhappy a great deal of the time. Also, I am afraid it is going to ruin my marriage.

2007-06-21 09:18:56 · 1 answers · asked by Havingnofun 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

sometimes when we have sex..... my hubby seems to beat me... what makes a man go so quickly? it like maybe 5 mins... its not a all the time problem...and i have had this problem with other men even my ex hubby...i dont understand it.......or am i just havin the problem of climaxing?

2007-06-21 09:18:50 · 17 answers · asked by misty p 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My wife reads these military fourms and gets this idea in her head that if I'm not talking to her then I'm cheating on her. It gets so frustating and I'm growing tired of it.

2007-06-21 09:18:17 · 30 answers · asked by Black Superman 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was having sex last night with one girl, and accidently said her sister's name. She looked at me funny, but we continued and finished. She didn't say anything. What should I do?
FYI her sister and I had sex before too.

2007-06-21 09:16:57 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi! The screenwriter again.

I'm also interested in finding out reasons why you have, or why you would break up with your husband or boyfriend.

I'm really trying to find something more unusual than cheating. I'm kind of looking for something unusual but believable for my next screenplay.

Thanks!

2007-06-21 09:15:31 · 26 answers · asked by billyrayhombre09 3 in Singles & Dating

For the women: Did your fiance go to a strip club for his bachelor party? If yes, how did you feel about it?

For the men: Did you go to a strip club for your bachelor party or for a friends bachelor party? If yes what goes on there?

2007-06-21 09:13:24 · 28 answers · asked by Heart 1 in Weddings

Hello, i'm a single parent and have a very successful job. Thing is, 2 years ago i was approached by a man whom i fell in love with... we love each other very much.
Problem is; he's married. Since he's got children too, he doesn't want to leave his wife - which i understand.
However, we recently decided to have a child together. I would live alone with our baby and my kid from an earlier marriage, he would visit us as much as possible.
He recently turned around to me and said: how am i gonna tell my kids that there is another brother/sister out there, brought into this world by another woman than their mother?
I think that's a very delicate question.
Should we still have a baby together?

2007-06-21 09:12:44 · 25 answers · asked by Lucy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

why do you want,,want,,want,, so much from a relationship but never give in return ,,you want the man to be romantic,,caring,,funny,,passionate,,, and give you full attention,, but the second he stops you think he doesnt care and you go out and cheat on him,,, you women are sad little souls,,, thats why men decide to cheat and play women because you cant see or appreciate a good man when you see one....

you make @ssholes out of good men and still have the nerve to b i t c h about it.....
women have no honor or self worth .. your all just a bunch of insecure air heads,,,,

so i will continue to play women for what thier worth,, and thats a dime...

good day..

2007-06-21 09:08:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Theres this guy that likes me alot and I thought that I like him too..but for some reason I havent really been feeling that attraced to him anymore.
Ive already told him that I like him..but now I just want to be friends...I dont want to lead him on or confuse him and so I dont know how to go about telling him these things.
Its an awkward situation because I dont want to hurt his feelings.

Were suppost to hang out this weekend but I really dont want too


We hung out last weekend and kissed and I just didnt feel anything yah know!

Grrr.what should I do?

2007-06-21 09:07:53 · 14 answers · asked by bArBiE 1 in Singles & Dating

Lately I don't know what has been going on with my boyfriend. He will be so clingy one week and then the next week comes around and I won't hear from him. He is sending me mixed signals that I don't know how to interpret. I am afraid to talk to him in fear he will reject me, yet waiting for him to come to me isn't working either. Why is he acting this way. And what should I do? :(

2007-06-21 09:05:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My ex-husband has sole physical and legal custody of our 15 year old daughter. He moved due to job reasons and left her in his mother's care.

He has sold the home in which my daughter and her grandmother were staying.

I live in another state.

Now, the issue of where my daughter is going to live has to be decided.

My ex-husband has been leaving me voicemails and I have been deleting them.

I am thinking of calling him to see what the next steps are for my daughter.

I am open to have her come and stay with me. I don't know how open she is to that though.

The conversations with my ex-husband don't go very far because he is still focused on us getting back together.

I am unsure if I should call him or just let he and my daughter decide what they want to do.

I have let him know repeatedly that I am open to our daughter coming to stay with me.

2007-06-21 09:04:01 · 21 answers · asked by Stareyes 5 in Marriage & Divorce

We only recently started talking and now with the second conversation he asks me how sexually open I am. I respond and tell him that I don't feel comfortable answering that question.. (mainly bc I am not sexually active.) Then he tells me that he has a high sex drive and needs someone who can keep up with him.. Do you think that it was strange that he asked this only with the second conversation?

2007-06-21 09:03:34 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 09:02:55 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-21 09:02:29 · 18 answers · asked by shawna w 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i want to make something for my aunt who is getting married in 10 days. something special & that she'll love. any ideas? thanks!

2007-06-21 09:01:16 · 14 answers · asked by dinos_go_rawr_x3 1 in Weddings

2007-06-21 08:57:52 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a poor, working student duped into being maid-of-honor, someone got a good idea for an inexspensive yet meaningful present for bridezilla mother-of-two?

2007-06-21 08:57:45 · 11 answers · asked by Wonderment 4 in Weddings

2007-06-21 08:57:19 · 14 answers · asked by Zac V 1 in Weddings

Hello everyone. I have bit of a dillema here. My father, who is in his mid-sixties, was diagnosed with cancer last year. To help him, I moved into his house with my husband and 2 daughters aged 12 and 9. However, my 12 year old daughter has just said she has to get out of the house - and prefebebly go back to our own house. She's only able to take a shower once or twice a week, so my father can have one every day, and she says that his constant moaning, complaining about life, wanting to kill himself, and exposing his illness to her is tiring and scaring her. She says that every day, her being quiet and shy, he forces her to listen to this, and also gives her little privacy, even though she has her own room. She and I are too scared to hurt my father, and he doesn't physically hurt or harm her, and I feel I can't leave him. I have little other family here. Should I listen to my daughter and move out, or stay with my father?

2007-06-21 08:56:02 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

This guy that's been my friend for a while wants to be buddies with benefits. The thing I used to have feelings for him but I don't anymore. I always have wanted to kiss him and all that other stuff...so I am down to do it. I'm just scared I'm going to get back some feelings for him..what do I do? Oh to you guys umm if you want a girl to be your buddy with benefits is it possible you might like her?

2007-06-21 08:55:59 · 10 answers · asked by Jelly2007 1 in Singles & Dating

especially when the women come out of the woodwork after you.

It's a curse to be married.

2007-06-21 08:53:26 · 44 answers · asked by ? 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-21 08:53:10 · 8 answers · asked by Zac V 1 in Weddings

What would most guys do? Discretely pursue the "better" girl to see if it can work out, right? Be honest.

2007-06-21 08:51:31 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I was really considering joining the United States Marine Core. Long story short I wanted to join back in HS (4yrs ago) but my parents talk me out of it. Which is good in sense I wanted to join infantry back then with my friends(2 of them past away in 2005). But now my other friends are going and I am having a hard time getting my parents to back me up. They say “people like us don’t go to the military” its mostly because we come from a family with money. But to me serving ones country is more then money its pride and joy. Has anyone had this? Lack ness of support? I know boot camp is really really hard and it makes me second guess myself but I am sure I can make it with my parents support.

2007-06-21 08:50:24 · 11 answers · asked by ViperKilla 5 in Family