Family & Relationships - 21 June 2007

get married? did you give him an ultimatum? do you think he really wants to marry you for the right reasons?

2007-06-21 08:13:44 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I am attracted towards a Girl.
The Girl seems to have no interest towards me.
The Girl's Sister is attracted to me
but i have no interest towards her sister.

someone for sure will be hurt.. now what to do?

2007-06-21 08:12:31 · 8 answers · asked by Radico 1 in Singles & Dating

Boys in their early teens are very curious about women and sex. I have no son myself but I wonder if living in a family where a boy sometimes sees his mother naked can cause him to get a desire for his mothers body and get excited , or is there no such risk ?
I mean usually they get excited from seeing a naked body but can it happen if it is his mother he is seeing naked ?
Do you know if such problems occurs ?

2007-06-21 08:12:16 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Yep a question just as simple as that.

I've never been in love, and am curious as to what I may be missing.

2007-06-21 08:05:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Do you think lilac and silver would work for wedding colors? The girls would be in lilac and the guys vests would be silver. I can't decide which purple would look best. I have narrowed it down to these colors from Davids Bridal:
Hyacinth
Victorian Lilac
Lilac
Light Peri

Also what could you do for the flowers?

2007-06-21 08:04:50 · 16 answers · asked by Molly SH 4 in Weddings

For my wedding I want the colors to be white and tourquiose with zebra print accents.

The only things that are zebra print are the pew ribbons, the ribbons on the bouquets, the groomsmens vest, the bridesmaids shoes & a couple other little things.

2007-06-21 08:03:24 · 28 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Weddings

My wedding colors are dark purple (like grape or eggplant), lavender, silver and white (of course).

I thought I would have my bridesmaids where the dark purple and my maid of honor wear lavender but now I am not sure. My wedding is in the summer. What about the mothers? Maybe silver?

I know I (we) want the groomsmen to wear black tuxes with silver ties and vests, but what about the groom? I am thinking maybe he should wear white? Then what about the ring bearer and best man? Do they wear the same as the groomsmen?
I also will have daughter (age 3 at that time) as the flower girl, and my 3 teenage nieces as hostesses.

I guess I am not good at this coordinating thind! Any help is appreciated!

2007-06-21 08:02:33 · 13 answers · asked by decrucian 2 in Weddings

gave him a woman's instead of the man's. Because it's past the 90day policy they have a bougus policy that I can exchange it for double the credit.....

He's happy with the ring, but I'm mad they messed up and won't bend the rules to fix the issue. Should I just keep the ring he has (it's probably like 2 mm instead of 3 or mm) or should I just find another suitable ring? We get married 7-14-07.

And guys...do you suppose he's REALLY happy or just putting up a front?

2007-06-21 08:00:49 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 in Weddings

We want to get married at a couples only resort...any suggestions from anyone who has been to one??

2007-06-21 08:00:34 · 8 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Weddings

Who do you blame, instead of yourself?


Do you realise now/ or after the fact that it is all your fault?

2007-06-21 07:54:46 · 2 answers · asked by Still*Perfect 4 in Singles & Dating

I am 21 yrs old still in college and hubby is 25 yrs old works for insurance company only been married 3.7 months before he filed for divorce.Long story short we took 4 month break before marriage his idea(i am sure he was not innocent during the break) and i had a fling ex.bf and got married unaware i was pregnant w/ ex.bf child hence pending divorce.He took 90% percent of furniture whe he left and then came back and stole my clothing/shoes(thank goodness my jewlery was in safe in wall that i never gave him combo for) except for what was in laudry room but left his 2 dogs.Police told me all i could do was file a report so i did.I move out of the house end out next week so house can be sold i told my hubby this and asked for my stolen clothing/stuff back he said prove it?
At this point do i ignore him and his nasty messages?

2007-06-21 07:51:43 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Me and my stepfather have never got along and I find it dumb to put him on my wedding invitation if he's not even important to me. My mom wants people to know that she's married but I'm not sure if its ok to put Mr. and Mrs. (my moms name), because I think it's suppose to go Mr. and Mrs. (my stepfathers name). HELP!

2007-06-21 07:51:33 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My fiancé and I are getting married next month and are paying for the entire wedding ourselves. Unfortunately, this means that we are on a very tight budget. Last week, we received two RSVPs from distant relatives, who we’ve only seen once in the last six years. The invitations were clearly addressed to the couple (Mr. and Mrs. XYZ), however, they RSVP’ed for the entire family. This is a problem because we cannot afford to have the entire family, so grinning and bearing it is not an option. How do we politely tell them that we are on a tight budget and have therefore only invited them and not the entire family? Is it better to call them or write them a letter? How should we word it?

2007-06-21 07:47:43 · 21 answers · asked by Jenn1e 1 in Weddings

2007-06-21 07:39:58 · 27 answers · asked by MsNic 4 in Singles & Dating

We are looking for an economical wedding but want it still to be classy and fun.

2007-06-21 07:39:44 · 8 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

See i like older guys but im not sure hw old is too old. Im a Marinei would rather date a cavilian than an enlisty. Guys in the military make relationship way too hard and guys not in the military are to scared to date female Marine. what do u think?

2007-06-21 07:39:03 · 41 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 07:37:10 · 6 answers · asked by xadralix 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-21 07:35:51 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I moved to VA to be with what I thought was a good guy.I was wrong. I guess i'm just wondering are there really any sincere guys out there or is it all about the booty. I cant seem to find the right one. I want to find that special someone. Someone who won't cheat and who actually cares about me for me. If so let me know I'd love to talk lol

2007-06-21 07:33:55 · 11 answers · asked by Chicago gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now.. Exclusively. There is a "family get together" that he has to go to Saturday, and he hasn't asked me to go with him. I know that it's still early in the relationship, but I have met alot of his family already. Do you think that he may not be ready for that, or is there maybe something more to it? How would I even approach asking him why I wasn't invited by him? Of should I even say anything, and just go pound some beers with the girls and just right it off?

2007-06-21 07:31:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some people describe me as girly and stuff like that. i'm not the type of girly that wears like pink and shiny stuff every day though. I have a boyfriend right now, but I'm wondering if guys are annoyed by girly girls.

2007-06-21 07:30:21 · 20 answers · asked by me. 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 07:29:36 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Because of new child support laws and the constant battering of my ex. and the court system( jailed every other month) even though I paid the support regular as required. Do i have any avenues now, children grown up, still it wasnt right and I feel I'm not the only one, Please help.

2007-06-21 07:26:39 · 16 answers · asked by Barry B 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and if you do, then why don't people respect them? at least the vast majority of people (when they get divorce don't give a S*(&^% about them! why have them if it means nothing?

2007-06-21 07:23:15 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

say the truth no one will tell.

2007-06-21 07:18:29 · 39 answers · asked by ¸.•*♥P!cαŘα §☼Ňαd☼Řα♥*•.D®eαMe® 6 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok, I just finished posting one question about how my ex-wife handles our kids' bedtimes at her place but let me try another one now. My ex and I are tired together for life because we have 2 kids, ages 6 and 10. She holds a lot of resentment towards me because of how our lives have turned out. I think she is genuinely unhappy with herself and her own life so she takes it out on me whenever she has a chance. Our 50-50 custody has always been around her work and school schedule and I have done many things to try to help her when she asks. However, the fact remains that if I bring up an issue of how she is doing something it becomes a fight. She seems to be more of the emotional one and I deal with more of the facts. Example, she said she does more driving when it comes to getting the kids to me. I mapped how much driving we do and it turned out that I was actually putting in about 50 miles more per week than she. So, how do we mediate these problems without an attorney?

2007-06-21 07:18:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My fiance's mother remarried to a guy that lives in a big nice borderline-mansion in West Virginia which is only about 20 minutes away from where we are getting married. I would like to have a casual rehearsal dinner at their house. I am wondering, who all is supposed to be there? The people participating in my wedding are: bride, groom, best man, maid of honor, 2 groomsmen, 2 bridesmaids, 2 ushers, 1 preacher, my dad to walk me down, our moms to light unity candles. Should all these people be there, and is there anyone else necessary such as the guitarist, or pianist?

2007-06-21 07:17:32 · 13 answers · asked by Linz ♥ VT 4 in Weddings

Does anyone have a funny or horrible story of something that happened to you or someone you know at a wedding?

2007-06-21 07:17:29 · 16 answers · asked by angel 3 in Weddings

Me and my husband have been separated for almost a month. He hasn't filed for the divorce yet and he created a myspace profile and put the he's single. I created a fake one n he accepted me as a friend... to make story short he has been saying bad things about me to the gurl i created on myspace. He sed that he came out of a terrible relationship and that he's really happy, that I had problems n dat he also did but that I was just out of control!! I'm so hurt by what he wrote I know I should move on but I don't understand why he's writing bad things of me after we agreed to let the marriage go in peace. Could it be that he's just sayin it to feel better or could it really be true?? I never cheated on him, the reason why we're separated is cuz he sed I nagged n b*tched alot but dats about it.. I always cooked n cleaned. I jus don't get it.

2007-06-21 07:10:22 · 33 answers · asked by Lily 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i am travelling to another country . i have my cousin friend in that counitry.i want to give him gift what gift should i give him not so expensive gift i dont have that much money (i am amle hi is also male)

2007-06-21 06:59:37 · 3 answers · asked by dante 1 in Other - Family & Relationships