I have been dating this guy for a couple of weeks now.. Exclusively. There is a "family get together" that he has to go to Saturday, and he hasn't asked me to go with him. I know that it's still early in the relationship, but I have met alot of his family already. Do you think that he may not be ready for that, or is there maybe something more to it? How would I even approach asking him why I wasn't invited by him? Of should I even say anything, and just go pound some beers with the girls and just right it off?
2007-06-21 07:31:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i don't think u should say something. since he didn't invite u why don't u the night off and go out with ur gfs just like u said. i f i were u i wouldn't worry about it.
2007-06-21 07:40:11 · answer #1 · answered by ivelisse 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him invite you. If this happens in a few months, then ask questions. Go pound beers with the girls and laugh about it. Good idea.
2007-06-21 14:34:42 · answer #2 · answered by Challah back Girl... 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Really it has been two weeks get over yourself. It is a family get together meaning family only. Or maybe your just one of his many GF's. Could be playing you?.
I think you need to consider that you have been dating a short time and at this moment he is not sure if it going to last long enough to introduce you to all his family.
2007-06-21 14:36:19 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would let it go and have fun with the girls. When I was dating my husband, he had a "family get together" and I wondered why i was not invited. Later when he got back, I asked. It turns out no wives or girlfriends attended. It was immediate family only.
2007-06-21 14:37:52 · answer #4 · answered by Carmen S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is just not ready for it..to formally introduce you to her family as her fiancee (or future wife). It's not that he is not serious with you.. its just that is not prepared to answer questions or discuss your relationship with his families.. yet. . You've ust been dating for couple of weeks, and that's not that long enough to know each other. Wait a little more time, probably couple of months and see what happens.
2007-06-21 14:43:54 · answer #5 · answered by pinaytechie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's only been a couple of weeks. He probably just wants to spend time with his family. Go do something on your own.
2007-06-21 14:36:18 · answer #6 · answered by RedRabbit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him, "Hey, you hadn't mentioned me coming with you on Saturday, did you want some company or is it just a family thing?" That way, he has the option of saying that it is just for family and nobody's feelings are hurt.
2007-06-21 14:36:09 · answer #7 · answered by Cute Chica 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just isnt comfortable with that just yet. Just go pound some beers with the girls and forget about it.
2007-06-21 14:35:19 · answer #8 · answered by bellesnail 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i would leave it alone and let him ask you if he wants you to go. But i really wouldn't go pound beers with the girls either.
2007-06-21 14:39:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he mite not be ready give him time and if he doesn't want u 2 come he mite be uncomfortable still about u meeting his family just chill out and give time.
2007-06-21 14:41:26 · answer #10 · answered by Confused 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋