I moved to VA to be with what I thought was a good guy.I was wrong. I guess i'm just wondering are there really any sincere guys out there or is it all about the booty. I cant seem to find the right one. I want to find that special someone. Someone who won't cheat and who actually cares about me for me. If so let me know I'd love to talk lol
2007-06-21 07:33:55 · 11 answers · asked by Chicago gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
To everyone who says im ignoring the good guys please e-mail me or IM me and let me know who you all are than. cuz i'm not. I'm no shallow I'm not all about looks
2007-06-21 08:21:25 · update #1
Sure there are - I just found one . . .
2007-06-21 07:37:00 · answer #1 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course there are you just have to stay away from all the posers. The "hot" guys are usually A holes so and a lot of nice guys wont go hit on you but rather be your friend first. Then you have to look into their personality and know if they are worth taking because the good guy will be looking into you as well. A true nice guy will honor your morals, treat you with the utmost respect, care for you no matter what and of course make you happy always. We are out there, you just have to not be picky and look on whats inside a lot because thats what matters in a long term relationship. Good looks catch the eye but a GOOD personality catches the heart ;)
2007-06-21 14:46:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ryan S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you gave some of the guys that pay you attention rather then brushing them off to get at the hot guy then you would find that special someone. Have you not noticed that the hot guys are gay, married, or just have a super -ego that makes them treat women like toy's or garbage bags. Maybe it is time to look past the glasses and the chubbiness and give these other guys a break.
2007-06-21 14:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are good guys. You call them "nerds".
If you can't find a good guy, it's because you won't take a look at the guys that are good guys because for you they aren't what you're looking for. Maybe they're not so tall, buff, tanned, and having a great time partying and womanizing. Maybe they're a little reclusive socially because they aren't well accepted by women.
If you can't find a good guy (i.e. nerd), then maybe you need to be a little less judgmental about what you're looking at and for. Quit worrying about impressing your girlfriends with how hot your guy is and start looking for a guy with a steady job who looks like he is willing to help out around the house instead of being out partying all the time.
There are millions of guys out there like this that are going dateless because women like you are busy turning them down 24/7. Swallow your pride and call a few of them up. I guarantee 10 years from now when your husband is at home with you and the kids mowing the lawn and helping them with their homework and paying the bills you will be thankful.
2007-06-21 14:43:21 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hear I am but I'm picky then hell a clean freak, hate clutter don't like dirty dishes to lie around in the sink , home cook meals not microwaveable, feel me and the list go on ... I'm not looking for a cook house keeper nor a mother just a sincere lady that can handle her biz's .. and can meet me half way..
2007-06-21 14:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think there are. It can take a while to find someone that you like and is good to you. Sometimes you have to date a lot of frogs before you find a prince. That is just part of life, because there are so many different types of people out there!
2007-06-21 14:43:40 · answer #6 · answered by georgiapeachntx 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your eyes, we are all over the place. I gotta agree with what the first guy said, you're probably ignoring them.
2007-06-21 14:39:00 · answer #7 · answered by Gary F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't solicit in here,babe. Too many wackos and dudes that are lookin for one thing only.
2007-06-21 14:39:40 · answer #8 · answered by calderking 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you know its your fault you didn't get the good ones. You ignored them .
2007-06-21 14:36:40 · answer #9 · answered by DAIMAKU 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm a good guy :)
2007-06-21 19:08:14 · answer #10 · answered by Niceguy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋