We only recently started talking and now with the second conversation he asks me how sexually open I am. I respond and tell him that I don't feel comfortable answering that question.. (mainly bc I am not sexually active.) Then he tells me that he has a high sex drive and needs someone who can keep up with him.. Do you think that it was strange that he asked this only with the second conversation?
2007-06-21 09:03:34 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He is interested in you as a thing not as a person. Look for someone else to talk to. You deserve better.
2007-06-21 09:06:17 · answer #1 · answered by jewelsthomas 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Obviously his sex life is very important to him, thats why he brought it up so quickly. Now the fact that you're not sexually active probably means that you won't be able to "keep up" with him. Rather than have an awkward conversation about how you're NOT active - maybe just say "I don't think I'll be able to keep up with you" then smile, and walk away.
2007-06-21 09:08:14 · answer #2 · answered by Miss Erin 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't find it strange that he would ask you that. Especially if you make him feel so comfortable that he feels he can be open and up front with you. If you aren't sexually active just tell him. If you think he's moving way to fast just tell him. If he can't accept your feeling, then it's time to move on!
2007-06-21 10:58:22 · answer #3 · answered by J S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he's pretty forward with yeah. If you're not sexually active this is def not the guy for you. I would tell him that I'm not talking to him about this after just two conversations maybe after you get to know each other a little better but come on it sounds to me like he just can't wait to get into your pants.
2007-06-21 09:07:19 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was uncouth, but he is just testing the waters, and whatever he lacks in tact he may make up for in other qualities you find attractive. If you find that he's moving along too quickly for you though, it's incumbent on you to let him know that. Life's hard enough as it is without being uncomfortable in your social life too. If he can't respect that then he's not the guy for you. Good luck to you.
2007-06-21 09:14:29 · answer #5 · answered by Captain S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know a few people who are direct like that and typically it is because they are looking for someone who is as open about these things as they are. After all, dating is about finding others with similar interests and compatible personalities. If his direct approach makes you uneasy, it's better to discover this early on.
2007-06-21 09:16:35 · answer #6 · answered by RzAOne 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy is just being honest. He likes to get his freak on...frequently. So he was testing the waters to see if you & he would be compatible in that regard. He probably doesn't want to (what he would probably view as) "waste time" with someone who doesn't put out.
If sex is has a different priority with you, that's fine, too. Move along & don't waste YOUR time with him.
2007-06-21 09:09:12 · answer #7 · answered by person 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Great to get that out in the open. If it aint your thing, yall are not compatible.
Too many times I have waited too long, then find out a girl is either inexperienced or not as open to their sexual side as me.
2007-06-21 09:11:28 · answer #8 · answered by dick_ache 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, he said it bluntly and you still have doubt what he wants? Come on he wants someone who will not beat around the bush and just have sex PERIOD. So all you have to do now is decide wether you want to or not.
Men are simple why woman complicate things I do not understand.
2007-06-21 09:12:53 · answer #9 · answered by methodos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have done that at all. I think that was inappropriate to ask you that. Especially with only a second conversation.
2007-06-21 09:09:17 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋