Family & Relationships - 21 June 2007

Do I have a sex addiction*?

2007-06-21 12:32:29 · 10 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 in Marriage & Divorce

i got into a big argument with a friend about this, so guys, what do you prefer?

2007-06-21 12:32:10 · 18 answers · asked by sarah 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiancee is white, and I've never dated a black guy. Do you think it makes sense to ask him to let me get this out of the way? I should have the experience right? Does this seem like a reasonable thing to ask? Maybe a threesome with a couple guys....but then I'm completely his.....

2007-06-21 12:30:54 · 17 answers · asked by Lane 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am going to be 50 years old in december. I have no desire for sex. When i get the urge i usally just let it go. I find women very attractive, especially a nice small set of breast. However i do not have a woman in my life. No i am not gay! It is i just dont have the normal urge. When i do date, The ladies i meet want to do it (Intercourse) alot. And that is just not me. Heck the last time i was in bed i couldn't get it up. She was fairly attractive and wasn't turned on i guess, even after going down on her for 3 hours.; So whats wrong with me.? I am getting so depressed that i am thinking of worse. If all you have is a stupid comment then do not reply because i will report you. I need answers, and i can not afford a doctor.. I do try to eat well and exercise but it is not always possible because i am a driver. average weight and normal size. also you can check out my profile and message me.

2007-06-21 12:30:24 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i live in the uk. it's 12.30am here. i'm boiling. it is so hot. i'm sat in my underwear. i have all the windows open.

is it hot where you are?

is anybody cold?

where are you in the world?

2007-06-21 12:30:17 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a boyfriend that i've bee with for about 2 or so years. he is nice most of the time but when we do argue about something he get very opinonated , head strong and sometimes curses at me. My question to everybody is would you date a person who goes to AA meetings? my boyfriends been going 13 years.

2007-06-21 12:30:08 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Do I have a sex addiction*?

2007-06-21 12:30:04 · 6 answers · asked by dca2003311@yahoo.com 7 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 12:27:03 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have dated a few guys that would be considered nice guys; the type of guy that almost always is only friends with a girl because they see him more as a friend. The guy that is romantic and sweet and spoils you rotten. Maybe could even be considered the 'nerdy' guy.

But they always seem to know that if they didn't have me, since they had such trouble getting a girlfriend before me, that they might be alone for awhile if we didn't work out.

So they end up meeting a girl that is interested in them when they are still with me and end up kind of cheating just so they can have this back-up plan.

Is this common or did I just draw the short straw?

ps.. i really don't think I wasn't giving them enough attention. I'm a dorky kinda girl that likes to spoil my guy with candy and flowers, too.

2007-06-21 12:26:52 · 2 answers · asked by Glitter Berry 3 in Singles & Dating

It was a stupid argument, I was shocked he hit me. Now I feel like crap because I got him back with a couple shots. He's my little brother and means the world to me. I would do anything for that guy.
Im 25 , he's 16. So that makes me feel even worse about the situation.

I feel bad and never dreamed of ever getting in a fight with him. He did hit me first and my emotions got the best of me.
What should I have done different in that situation?

2007-06-21 12:26:24 · 22 answers · asked by WhiteSox 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 12:26:05 · 10 answers · asked by rs2577 1 in Weddings

Many people think I'm too modern, or too feministic, but I think the first date should be paid buy whoever asked who out. At the bare minimum, each person should pay for him/herself. After that, I think a nice alternation should be set up where the male pays for one date, and the female pays for the next. Sure, going Dutch is fine, but that just feels impersonal. Maybe it's just me, but always going strict Dutch make me feel like the other person wouldn't have my back in a tight situation. I don't know, but I want to hear other's HONEST opinions. Do many ladies of today still expect the guy to pay their way? Do the males of today feel insulted not paying, or having to pay everytime? Please let me know. I really want to know how much America's viewpoints on dating have changed over the past few decades.

2007-06-21 12:23:55 · 9 answers · asked by iceprincessk7 2 in Singles & Dating

There was some bad stuff going on when I was little; spankings, having to change/use the bathroom w/doors open (so she could always see what I was doing), and when my parents split her wrath focused on how I was the cause of all her problems (she said my dad loved me more than her).

As I've gotten older, I've tried to forgive and put it behind me while at the same time reaching out to her. The rude awakening came when I was planning my wedding - she had nothing to do with it. Nothing. She showed up - that's it.

Over the years, I keep trying but to no avail. I'm tired of it.
I felt rejected by her when I was a child because I did nothing right, and I still feel this way - but talking about it w/her turns into about her and her fears.
I've been to counseling and was told to act as tho she was dead, but that seems so cruel. I want her to reach out to me for once!

Is that too much to ask?
Please don't be cruel with the answers - I'm serious about this.

2007-06-21 12:23:46 · 10 answers · asked by Done 6 in Family

2007-06-21 12:23:40 · 4 answers · asked by Marie 2 in Weddings

2007-06-21 12:19:16 · 33 answers · asked by fastcobrar93 1 in Singles & Dating

please be nice. i'm new to all this.

2007-06-21 12:17:59 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've never had a one night stand but I haven't had sex since my ex & I broke up. I don't want any attachments & I don't want the guy to call me the next day. Is it common to feel this way? Should I allow myself to just do it?


FYI: I'd use protection.

2007-06-21 12:14:19 · 23 answers · asked by Angela 3 in Singles & Dating

what are some signs that a guy is interested? please help me. i dont know if hes interested in me and i really like him, and i just cant stop thinkin about him. so can yall please help me?

2007-06-21 12:13:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok
u know when ur in a relationship,
and u decide to hav sex,
how do u go about knowing if the person ur gonna do it with has an std???
cuz when i get older im gonna hav sex, (of course)
and i dont want to get an std(s)

2007-06-21 12:13:09 · 20 answers · asked by coolwhip33 2 in Singles & Dating

I need to find a simple postnuptial agreement. Lawyer wants $850.00 and there's not that much involved.

2007-06-21 12:10:34 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I need to move away from my narrow-minded circle of friends, but in my late 30s I am finding it hard to open up to new people. I notice I am much more cautious these days than when I was in my early 20s. Do people still ask others to come over for friendly chat over a glass of wine or something?

2007-06-21 12:05:50 · 5 answers · asked by like-it 3 in Friends

she selpt with my bf and now she is pregnet im a bit upset with her but she need me help she is 1 month pregnet and she loves the baby and her perents doesnt knowes about

2007-06-21 12:05:19 · 66 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

What do you make of a guy who's recently divorced and says he's not ready for a relationship but tells me I'd make the perfect wife and texts me that he thinks of me all the time and I'm just about as good as it gets? We met eachother 8 months ago (and I know he's dated other people during that time) and we chat every few days and see eachother once a week or so (but really don't go on many actual dates). I totally fell for him and it's driving me nuts that he doesn't want me as his girlfriend!

2007-06-21 12:00:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Only dating a month, and she got annoyed with me the other night for saying about how she can make me do stupid things. I didn't really mean anything by it and was joking around...that said I don't have a problem going out of my way for her because I like her. Her take was that it was "very unappealing" to think she could make me do anything. I understand that, but that's not who I am, and I think she got the wrong impression.

We talked about it and she got very upset because for the first time in our relationship she could tell I was actually annoyed with her. She apologized to me that night for making a big deal over it and said I should stay the way am.

But now I AM annoyed, and I don't really feel like going out of my way for her anymore because I feel like she'll just think I'm a pushover...I'm actually so annoyed I've contemplated breaking up with her.

what should I do? I feel like this is just pure ego getting in the way, but what she said initially has me 2nd guessing

2007-06-21 11:59:54 · 12 answers · asked by subway mike 1 in Singles & Dating

i know for sure next year like 99% i wont have a bf or noone will ask me out but i have crush on this guy we use to talk in grade 9, he was in my gym class but we dont talk any more and i try to talk to him but i dont know if he still wants to talk to me i feel as though are friendship is over cuz he has new friends and it's like well we dont talk any more but he's still on my mind and i wanna be friends forever... i know him as my friend for sure or at least i want him to continue being but i dont know how he feels about me.... if i dont get asked to the prom next year or even have a bf, do you think it will be a right move to ask him to prom? and if he says no.... i know deep inside i'll be crushed and it might even show on my face but... i dont know... there's just something special in him that i always liked but i dont know if it's still there and he's the one i like... and he's the one i would wanna spend my special night with... what do u think? am i being stupid?

2007-06-21 11:58:45 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We want to keep it simple and elegant. My colors are fall colors of browns, coppers, golds, etc.

2007-06-21 11:58:25 · 16 answers · asked by zaaz99 1 in Weddings

im 23 hes 44. he is seperated for 8 years has 3 kids under 20yrs. weve lived together for 2 years and i have often brought up the subject of marriage but he quickly shrugs it off and then says 'when the time is right' but when is the 'right' time? i adore him but sometimes i think i love him more than he loves me

2007-06-21 11:56:02 · 14 answers · asked by samsond 1 in Family

2007-06-21 11:52:30 · 2 answers · asked by shortyT 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 11:51:51 · 8 answers · asked by derrick j 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok. I have already been through one engagement. I went 6 months without a ring and I was still as giddy as can be to be getting married. Now I am engaged again and again, I don't have a ring. I don't care. I just want the wedding band. Why do people think that you need an engagement ring in order to be engaged? I hardly wear jewlry and the jobs I take make it hard for me to have rings on. I love him and he loves me. That is all I care about.

2007-06-21 11:50:26 · 15 answers · asked by RedRabbit 7 in Weddings