my 13 years old friend is pregnet?

Question

she selpt with my bf and now she is pregnet im a bit upset with her but she need me help she is 1 month pregnet and she loves the baby and her perents doesnt knowes about

Answer 1

You need to rat her out. Tell her you will give her a free pass on your boyfriend this time, but to lay off your boyfriends in the future.

Answer 2

There are community outreaches to pregnant teens. Call information and ask them for one. The outreach places do have homes that the teens can live in...and will help to build bridges between the teen and her parents.
I was 23 years old when I had my son. Even at that age it was too early on in my life to have a baby, because I had not yet discovered who I was or what I wanted in life.
I was married the first few months of the pregnancy and then was left to raise up and support the child on my own. It was difficult...very difficult. So at 13, I really hope your friend knows what lies ahead for her. She's not even old enough to work to care for the child. I was...and it took working 3 jobs at the same time to pay my way and my baby's way in life. It becomes a real challenge. There is so much you and your friend haven't seen or done or experienced...whereas a child this early on will deprive you of life's adventures. Open adoption may be your best answer. This is where the natural parent/s are allowed to stay in touch, while an older loving couple (adoptive parents) raise her child for her, so that your friend can finish her education and journey on finding herself in this world/life.
Where is the guy? He could get charges laid against him for statuatory rape...even on a concentual basis, due to the fact that your friend is very much under age.
I wish you all the best. Please call a community outreach so that your friend can get the medical treatment for herself and her baby.

Answer 3

Please do yourself and the future of our country a favor and pay more attention in English class (and school in general for that matter). While your at it, tell all your friends to do so as well. Just look at your question, it's horrifying. GRAMMAR, and SPELLING ERRORS!!! Here's a little help
slept
pregnant
parents "don't know"

Anyway, so your friend is "pregnant" and she needs your help. First, get over the fact that she slept with your boyfriend. Second, tell her to seek counseling. Use the internet to look up local services she can contact to get help. Third, try to talk her into telling her parents. There's no sense in keeping it a secret, she made a mistake and must now suffer the consequences. I know it's easier said than done, but this isn't about your friend anymore.....now it's about the baby!

Answer 4

She needs her parents help, and since they will now be raising both your friend and her child, the sooner they are told the better.

I hope she has the courage to bring the baby to term rather then take the easy way out and have an abortion.
There are many families and couples out there that would love to adopt and her baby deserves a chance at life.

Since your boyfriend is the father I hope you learned something about what happens with unprotected sex, unless you want to be the next mother in 7th grade.

Have her tell her parents.

God bless.

Answer 5

Yeah, are you sure she's pregnant? Whether she's lying or not, her parents should know. If she's planning on having a baby this young, she should try babysitting a few infants for a week straight to realize how much responsibility is involved in taking care of an infant. Obviously your boyfriend can't control himself and now he's going to get stuck paying the bill.

Answer 6

Well, she should have not slept wih your bf first of all. On the other hand she is going to maybe be in so much trouble when her parents do find out. Her best bet is to go ahead and tell her parents right noe before she gets really into the pregnacy. And for you, if you are still friends with her, youis a good friend for stick with her if you all are still cool. But you need to get rid of your loser boyfriend. He knows you 2 were friends then he should have never slept around anyway.

Answer 7

Encourage her to tell her parents. You might even volunteer to be with her when she tells them. I know from experience how scary this can be. But she needs them more now than she ever has in her life and they will be there for her. She needs to tell them now so she can be seen by a doctor. There are so many things that can go wrong and put her life and the life of her baby in jeopardy.

It says so much about your character and what a good person you are by being there for your friend in this situation. I applaud you!

Answer 8

Wow, sweetie....that's rough. I'm sure that you probably do feel upset with your friend, but she could also in a lot of trouble if she is pregnant and doesn' get pre-natal care. You need to talk to her parents about this, or at least some adult who you know really cares about her. If you're too shy to go to the parents, maybe you could tell an aunt or maybe even one of your own parents.

I'm sorry that you all got put into this position. I know it's rough.

Answer 9

okay. get a job so you can help her if you want and or incase. never abort it. get ready to tell your parents (her). i would guess to hold off on telling them to wait for it to develop more to avoid abortion if they want to terminate it. but mostly the parents should help. otherwise for now i guess money is the key. oh i forgot she was 13. she should really if possible research education and read those books hard and consider taking dantes clept tests so she can gain college credit instantly. if she has a lot of college credits, obviously she doesnt have to go to college. she has plenty of time to do this. she can do it on the side and go to high school at the same time, that way if she does poorly in high school she'll have the college credit. seriously talk to a school counselor about it.

Answer 10

Wow. I am 13 and I cannot see me having a baby. Young people now are having sex with ever boy they see. I had a friend whose friend was pregnent and she didn't tell her parents either. She had a purpose mis carrige by pressing her stomach to the wall. First tell her to tell her parents. They will find out anyways. and then on from there it's really just hers and her parents deal. I hope you guys figure this all out.

Answer 11

First of all don't call him your bf call him your ex bf. Now you need to tell her parents. even if she doesn't want you too. They will be able to solve it. She is obviously to young to handle something like this or it wouldn't have happened in the first place. Dont be mad at her. She made a horrible mistake but she is going to need her friends by her side! Oh, and if your "ex" bf isn't too much of a jerk he should try and be with her trough this too!!! Good luck.